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JucyLucy
Over 90 days ago
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I only popped on for a moment and realised that i'd spent an hour deep in thought. I'm another one being quite introspective at the moment too. I've never liked labels particularly but I can see Judy's point in that society would tend to fail without them......we're labelled from before birth. Labels do change over time...at its most simplistic i've been an embryo, a baby, a child, an adolescent, a girlfriend, wife, mother, divorcee, single-parent, grandmother etc etc. I dont particularly think any of these labels are helpful in defining who i was as a person at any of those stages in my life.
I also think that the labels we choose (or are given) vary dependent on our surroundings and those that surround us......at work i'm one thing, at home another.....whilst socialising I'm probably given a different label by every different person......and would the labels used in my professional life be instantly recognised by those people who only know me socially and vice versa???
I think at the end of the day what i'm trying to say (not very well) is that labels are just words and you can only hope that the ones you accept for yourself are firstly not misconstrued by others, and secondly are not taken in isolation of all the other labels you have.
Kim
I also think that the labels we choose (or are given) vary dependent on our surroundings and those that surround us......at work i'm one thing, at home another.....whilst socialising I'm probably given a different label by every different person......and would the labels used in my professional life be instantly recognised by those people who only know me socially and vice versa???
I think at the end of the day what i'm trying to say (not very well) is that labels are just words and you can only hope that the ones you accept for yourself are firstly not misconstrued by others, and secondly are not taken in isolation of all the other labels you have.
Kim
i'm surely not the only one that can cum from havin either fingers or a "fat cock" inserted?
i agree with Horous.....we are all unique and i know that i make love in different ways with different people. (and even different ways with the same people). you get to know what people prefer just as they get to know your preferences. thats whats so good about this site....its not about one night stands but hopefully longer lasting friendships that become more fulfilling as you get to know each other........
.its just the remembering who likes it what way is the hard thing sometimes :shock: :shock:
i agree with Horous.....we are all unique and i know that i make love in different ways with different people. (and even different ways with the same people). you get to know what people prefer just as they get to know your preferences. thats whats so good about this site....its not about one night stands but hopefully longer lasting friendships that become more fulfilling as you get to know each other........
.its just the remembering who likes it what way is the hard thing sometimes :shock: :shock:
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can you add my name too please blonde....it'll be my first time there and would be great to do it with some nutty mates
Kim xxx
awwww cathy just as i put my name down i read ur not sure if you can go............who else is gonna hold my hand
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Not sure that i like being called nutty.
Horizontal as always,
Lots of love, hugs and kisses
Little :wink:
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You can be horizontal as long as u promise to hold me hand :wink:
Libra i thought i knew you from your posts, then when we finally met recently and we chatted for a long while i realised that you are as witty as your posts......but more than that i also found you to be a sensitive person who certainly wouldnt deserve anyone being 'warned about'.
Think the replies on this thread show that you have a lot of people who think highly of you.......i for one hope you choose to stay and be amongst friends......but only you know what is best for you.
All the best in whatever you decide.
Kim xxxx
Think the replies on this thread show that you have a lot of people who think highly of you.......i for one hope you choose to stay and be amongst friends......but only you know what is best for you.
All the best in whatever you decide.
Kim xxxx
and i STILL haven't thought of a question to put to him yet Just adding my thanx to those already posted.....LC and Steph it was a great night.
Was lovely to see people again and put some more faces to names...nice to meet libralove (not so scary in real life), rachel_lane, horous, biwelshminx and dambuster....(btw dambuster hope when you look at the display pic on ur fone today...u'll realise how uncanilly alike the resemblence was...lol).
Also huge thanx to the essex mafia who got me there in the first place
JucyLucy
Was lovely to see people again and put some more faces to names...nice to meet libralove (not so scary in real life), rachel_lane, horous, biwelshminx and dambuster....(btw dambuster hope when you look at the display pic on ur fone today...u'll realise how uncanilly alike the resemblence was...lol).
Also huge thanx to the essex mafia who got me there in the first place
JucyLucy
