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Quote by VenusnMars
Someone very close to me has had Post Traumatic Stress Disorder for the past 4 years, They have found it very diffficult to live with, and indeed their marriage broke up because of it. People often think you only get PTSD from fighting in the wars etc, sadly no. This was triggered by a series of events i.e physical trauma, and mental shock. They will recover. But it will be a long process. It helped a great deal, to have the feelings labled instead if thinking she was going mad!! which of course she wasn't. But to know that she wasn't the only person tn the world to be going through it also helped.

My counseller suggested I had a touch of PTSD due to being constantly bullied as a child at school. I recognised a great many of my behaviours stemmed from this, but hadn`t actually understood the definition of `triggers`..and had quite a few of em! It`s very fascinating looking back at it all now I am out the otherside.
Venusxxx
The "triggers" can be very difficult to deal with, indeed to even know what they are. Sometimes you can be triggered in to a panic attack by something totaly random. Such as a smell, or a perticular colour, that they had experianced at the time and not even realised
Members of the family can find it dificult to deal with as well. It can be difficult to live with someone who has flash backs, feeling out of control having nightmares, feeling as though they are reliving the traumatic events over and over.
She is now starting a course of treatment called Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy. Hopfuly this will help turn the negative thoughts and pain into positive ones.
Someone very close to me has had Post Traumatic Stress Disorder for the past 4 years, They have found it very diffficult to live with, and indeed their marriage broke up because of it. People often think you only get PTSD from fighting in the wars etc, sadly no. This was triggered by a series of events i.e physical trauma, and mental shock. They will recover. But it will be a long process. It helped a great deal, to have the feelings labled instead if thinking she was going mad!! which of course she wasn't. But to know that she wasn't the only person tn the world to be going through it also helped.
:cry: :cry: , my nose needs buffering, gone all red with my cold.....anyone got something nice and soft...Its feels as though someone has used a grinder on it :cry: Mind you does have its up side no work today wink
72...which is 5 more than last time I did it :happy: :happy: so I'm obviously doing something right hump smackbottom :swingingchair: Heaven brings out the slutty side in us. :giggle:
Quote by Libra-Love

Right 1st seduction then if all else fails......you get the arms and I'll get the legs :twisted:

And who's gonna hold the handbag? innocent bugger hadn't thought of that one. Any offers confused: :twisted:
Hmmm... OK. Do I get a reward?
YES!!!!
You get to join us lol Gosh I'm all a flush with excitement right now :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Ohhh what a night it would be :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by Libra-Love

Right 1st seduction then if all else fails......you get the arms and I'll get the legs :twisted:

And who's gonna hold the handbag? innocent bugger hadn't thought of that one. Any offers confused: :twisted:
Quote by Libra-Love
Roger - I am not a couple (obviously) but I do only "play" with couples - and I have to say that for me - it is essentail that I am attracted to both. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I was only attracted to the female!! That just wouldn't feel right for me.

What about a couple of women, just on the off chance :rascal: passionkiss
I like your style babe :twisted:
Well mother always told me "if you don't ask you don't get" wink
Can't beat being direct....... :twisted:
Ok, so seduction or kidnap if she says no?
Right 1st seduction then if all else fails......you get the arms and I'll get the legs :twisted:
Quote by Libra-Love
Roger - I am not a couple (obviously) but I do only "play" with couples - and I have to say that for me - it is essentail that I am attracted to both. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I was only attracted to the female!! That just wouldn't feel right for me.

What about a couple of women, just on the off chance :rascal: passionkiss
I like your style babe :twisted:
Well mother always told me "if you don't ask you don't get" wink
Can't beat being direct....... :twisted:
Quote by Rainbows
Roger - I am not a couple (obviously) but I do only "play" with couples - and I have to say that for me - it is essentail that I am attracted to both. I wouldn't want to be in a situation where I was only attracted to the female!! That just wouldn't feel right for me.

What about a couple of women, just on the off chance :rascal: passionkiss
Kiki Dee :karaoke: :karaoke: " Don't go breaking my heart, I couldn't if tried" :violin: :scared: Bugger better stick to my day job bolt
Quote by bikerdave
where is the strangest place you have had sex
mine is in a bt tent on the side of the road in broad daylight lol

BUT if it had been at the side of the road without a tent, ............. :eeek: :thumbup:
Quote by cu3b4ll
Just saw an ad on TV for the new KY "Warming Liquid". They're giving away free samples >>here. Get 'em while they're hot lol
DISCLAIMER: Cueball is on no way affiliated with the above organisation and doesn't get any commission... bugger!

Lets hope it's not as hot as ralgex, had a friend who had a nasty accident after rubbing some on his shoulder and forgot to wash his hands. Poor fella, but boy could he dance :eeek: :giggle:
Quote by MR-FB
its ok she dosent think i can get on so she not seen it yet biggrin
:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: you'd better bolt coz she is so gonna smackbottom and hi to you kiss
Quote by sam21
I remember one time I was shagging this girl and Elvis 'Suspicious Minds' came on the radio and I couldnt help but totally crack up during it.........does any one have any memories of funny songs coming while they are mid session? or can anyone recommend any classics? :karaoke:

Yeah once was at it when "star treking" came on at least I think thats what it was called. You know the one Star treking across the universe always going forward cos we can't find reverse...... redface ...such a crap song really hard to keep up with though.
Quote by Ice Pie
Please can you lock this thread as ive already started one rotflmao

No, lock the other one. (Sorry, southern solidarity, I'm sure you understand. :P )
NO lock this one ha ha poor looser :twisted: :twisted:
Quote by Jags
Horlicks...works everytime for me...well almost as much as red wine, but not on a school night cool

This could be the sensible argument which swings it!!
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Yes BUT come Friday night :cheers: kids are in bed worship :worship: passionkiss drinkies blast whip :silly:
Well no one can be sensible all the time :moon:
Right where's me mug and slippers :angel:
Horlicks...works everytime for me...well almost as much as red wine, but not on a school night cool
Quote by lucyuktv2
Girls can do all that Harry, and some of them can do it much better than a guy can!
We really don't need men apart from for procreational reasons.

you sure you don't want a man little gem? rolleyes
Well you could put my shelves up, cut the lawn, wash the car, tile the bath room oh yes and give me agood shaggin :twisted: :twisted: :twisted: :P
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:
Yay I new I WAS normal :happy: :happy: :happy:
Here's a great big passionkiss for the blushing bride and for the groom sillyassionkiss: :inlove: :inlove: :inlove: :inlove: :cheers:
Congratulations to you both. :rose:
Quote by Reese
You should be at ours for Vix' & my wedding night - there'll be plenty to go around! ;)
~Reese! surprised

69position :bounce: blast smackbottom :happy:
Whoooo now where did I put my hat box bolt kiss
Quote by Reese
Do women like DP should be do you like A?

This brings up a question I've been curious about ever since choosing the wording for our SH ad: Vix & I thoroughly enjoy DP, but neither of us has any interest in A whatsoever (giving or receiving). So, in our case, DP is limited to two penii (is that the plural?) rubbing enthusiastically against each other within her vagina. Now, I know that when people use the term, they're most commonly referring to one penis in the vagina and one in the anus. So, my question is, is there another term for our particular flavour of DP - i.e. two in one hole - so that we can make it clear that no anal entry would be involved?
Would it work if you just put in VDP confused: or things like pussyDP :?: .......personaly I like the idea of that type of DP just gotta find 2 cocks :twisted:
Quote by MattyGB
but did you get promoted

Well I certainly went up the ladder oohh er.......mind you I think the mini skirt had something to do with it wink ...and of course the FAB blast
Quote by PoloLady
do you ever get too desperate to wait untill returning home to your loved one. how many of you would/have/would never consider a little sly self indulgence at work and if you would, where would be your prefered hifding place.

I locked a guy in my office once and fucked him on the desk - buggar DIY!
Honestly some people will do anything to get promotion...........I've done the same :twisted: :twisted:
I went to school with Roger Moore, though rather short and had glasses not really the James Bond type. Boy did he get stick. I can say I snogged Roger Moore :shock:
Quote by Omnisus
Heres my effort, didn't take long and i rushed it a bit but it still looks ok.

It don't move.