Family weddings can be a bit of a chore, but there are sometimes compensations A few years ago, just after it had been legalised a lesbian relative of my other half married her long term partner. Although they lived in Brighton they decided to have the ceremony up here in Nottingham where they had both grown up and most of their family still lived. Both of them had been very active in the gay scene promoting the lifestyle...

A memory of one of those rare encounters through work, but not with an employee. This would be about 15 years ago, when I was the manager of an office of around 40 people. One of them, Craig, was openly gay and happily settled down with a partner. I am always cautious about mixing work and pleasure as there is so much potential for all sorts of fallout. I therefore had no intention or interest in trying to see if there wa...

Anther true story from my early years. I thought I had posted this a while ago but clearly not. This was the mid 80's and I would have been 20. I had an office job in Nottingham and still living at home, catching the bus to and from Victoria Centre which was about a 10 min walk from my office. On the evening in question we had a leaving party for someone after work which I went along to for a couple of hours before headin...

I was on holiday with my straight pal, only to accidentally find him in our room getting fucked by the same dishy guy from the hotel reception I had been eyeing up. We didn't have any trips booked the following day after I spied on Ian as we were moving on to the next hotel, but as we didn't have to check out until 10am it was perfect for what I had in mind. I was always the first one up and in the bathroom, but instead o...

This is a true story from years ago about a friend I have mentioned before. I just need to establish a bit of background. Ian (not his real name) and I had been friends since the 1st day of school and had grown up together. My first sexual experience was a hand-job from him which eventually led me to a very active gay swinging scene. Ian and I remained best mates but our bit of fun ended very quickly when he got a girlfri...

I have written about my time swinging with older men when I was 18 and at college. As a newcomer to gay sex there were lots of opportunities to try new things. Happily I have always been the adventurous type so very rarely turned down the chance to try something or someone new, so ended up with lots of memorable moments. I thought that, rather than give my usual detailed account I might just give a quick summary of a few...

I have been writing about my experiences as an 18 year old and my lecturer Mr. West. Although he was my pathway into the wonderful world of gay swinging he was not the only lecturer I had an encounter with. The second event was very different though, but still good fun. This was the year after I first had Mr West, so by now I had been with quite a few men at parties and other hook ups. Mr Day (not his real name) was the p...

More memories of my time as a young man on the gay swinging scene. I never planned on writing down every encounter I had during this period, as some were disappointing or forgettable, whilst many more were just good old fashion vanilla fucking: good fun at the time but repetitive in the retelling. Instead I have tried to remember the more unusual and memorable moments like this! I was 18 and, after entering into a relatio...

I miss being able to go to my local sauna, so in its place thought I would write about my first ever visit to one. Now this is a true story about a real place that I have not visited in almost 20 years, so my apologies to anyone who knows the place and finds that I have gotten the layout wrong. I have a great memory where sex is concerned, not so much architecture! I have also split it into two as it became quite a long t...

Just sharing a fun session from a few years back, which started out normal enough, but then took a sudden turn to the kinky! I got chatting to someone online. He was local to me and horny as hell because his partner was away for two weeks on a training course. We decided to meet that afternoon and so, after a shower and a freshen up I drove over to his place. When he came to the door he was just as his pics, in his early...

This took place about 10 years ago, so long before lockdowns and masks! I was working at home but also online in forums with blokes. Lots of sexy filthy chat when had made me as horny as fuck, but no one seemed available or local enough. I thought about our local cruising woods but was in the mood for more than just a quickie, so decided to go to the local sauna. It was just before midday so I knew it would be quiet, but...

It seems the revelation about my Mother In Law has tickled a few folks, and I have been asked for more. Its amazing how many messages I have had from readers (most but not all male) telling me how they have lusted after their MIL's and one or two who have done something about it. Hopefully some of those folks will write about their experiences but in the meantime there was one very memorable occasion that I wanted to tell...

Most of my adventures I write about have been with men, but as a bi guy I have had more than a few encounters with women as well. They tend to have been a bit more vanilla but there is one obvious one that is anything but, as it tells about the first time I fucked my mother in law! I first met her over 30 years ago. My then new gf had told me how every boyfriend she took home had fancied her mum, and when I met her I coul...

So the second part of my first visit to a men only sauna. After giving a blow job to a guy in front of a one way mirror window I lay back on the bench seat. Although I had enjoyed giving someone some oral pleasure I was still as horny as hell, a situation exacerbated by the knowledge that there could be men standing on the other side of the mirror watching me. Being watched by strangers has always turned me on and so I pu...

This is a true experience from last year, during that brief moment between lockdowns when we were allowed out and the sun shone. Because we had been trapped inside for so long my local cruising site was getting lots of use during the day. Even on drizzly days when I drove by I saw that the car park was full. We then had a few clear days when the sun came out, and on one of these days it just so happened that I was working...