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whiplash
Over 90 days ago
Bisexual Female, 55
0 miles · Saint Helens

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won't be able to make this one, sorry xxx
have a fab time everyone
xx
Quote by VoyeurJ
Bit controversial but why do we insist on long term benefits and house upgrades as out of work parents expand their family they cant already support. Give everyone 4 months benefits then they stop. Lots of jobs available but none they want to get up for .. then they can contribute like normal people and the UK saves a fortune while getting all the low level jobs filled .. I have never claimed benefits and would be embarrassed to have to. Few years of hard but needed reform would at least give us a future generation that knows work isnt watching jeremy kyle and claiming benefits for life.
You do follow your parents growing up.. two generations of illiterate dole dwellers at least now. We need to toughen up not worry if the recent reforms are punishment lol ... they need it to jolt them back into grafting normal buy your own house type of people.
Id be a great prime minister ... with Bob Diamond as Chancellor and Megan Fox as my PA
But being serious for once .. we are too soft on them and they need a kick up the arse .. not a house upgrade and more benefits .. we working people pay for them to move into houses hard working families cant afford ... cant be right surely
J

illiterate dole dwellers...well by the fook have been called some things in my time! Why the hell is everyone who claims benefits seen as some sort of scrounger & whats gives you the right to call people who claim benefit illiterate?
Oh sorry yes I forgot your one of them god damn tax payers..well lucky you.
I used to be one of those people but through no fault of my own I lost my job 10 months ago, primarily because I got rightly pissed off with the fat greasy boss thinking it was his right to be able to touch me up & make inappropriate suggestions whenever he pleased making it impossible for me to stay in his employment. I didn't realise it would be so difficult to find another job ( have had 17 rejection letters in the past 7 days alone). Have you any idea what that does to a persons self confidence & self esteem. You also talk as if living on benefits is an easy solution, I have to survive on £56 a week, thats food, heating and cover all my bills...do you really think that is a lifestyle choice? So trust me I get a kick up the arse every time I open another 'dear john' letter. I don't live, I exist!!!....Living is about having choices, the only choices I have are do I pay my water bill this week or am gonna have to blag it out for another fortnight, because if I pay it this week I'll have no money to feed the gas meter, meaning no heating or fuel to cook my food
Maybe some people do opt for a life on benefits, but that is down to the goverment allowing a system that gives decent income for people with children to stay at home & bring them up, but either way it is by no means an easy option & am getting sick of listening to sactimonious people suggesting it is.
Re the 'bedroom tax' ...it does not apply to people in private rented accomodation, so thankfully out of my big £56 I dont have to find the £11 for my spare bedroom, otherwise to put it bluntly I'd be fooked. It also does not apply to pensioners, who probably are the biggest majority of people living in larger than need houses.
Oh & just to set the record straight am currently part way through a degree course, so can't be that bloody illiterate.
Quote by whiplash
whats the hotel of choice?

Cant remember what the last one was called smile
Quote by Lizaleanrob
Anybody else taken in the goings on in the Big Brother house ?
Those two Americans are coming across as complete sociopaths while Rylan looks to be on the verge of a breakdown !!
Entertainment ??

Only if you've no paint to watch dry or grass to grow....
Or even rusty nails to hammer into your toenails....
yep inclined to agree. its entertainment for the brain dead banghead
i hate reality TV shows of this kind, and i wonder just who is stupid enough to cast a vote and waste their hard earned cash to support this type of infection on our TV's loon
Am pretty sure reality television has been previously discussed in the forum (my braindead memory has a spark somewhere in the recesses of my mind of reading about it).
If reality television is not your preference of evening entertainment, then you are well in within your rights to either find the remote control & change channels or even turn it off. Just the same as those who enjoy it are free to watch whatever they like.
However I find it insulting to say that those who choose to watch it are 'braindead'.
If everybody enjoyed the same things in life then the world would be a very boring place to inhabit. Or maybe you would like us to live in a 'Big Brother' state dictating that we can only watch intellectual programmes....although then again, what is deemed intellectual.
Big Brother began as a social experiment, watching how different types of people interracted within different situations, against certain people/groups (word that as you will) . So am pretty sure it was not classed as braindead veiwing for those say who were interested in the social aspects of society.
In response to the original question .........I dislike speidy, but they do make for excellent television
can't make it gorge ....lift let me down ppftttt ...you know who you are lol...see ya in feb hunni n have a fab birthday xxxxxxxxxx
hope you all have a fab night..gutted I can't be there
chelle
xxxxxx
PS. Hope the music is a good as usual bolt
Quote by Joewally
I feel awful about htis because i've never missed the xmas social run by NWC since the day i came here...
I'm struggling tho, and it's madness to come and not have the fun this party deserves
I have the greatest respect time and admiration for NWC and all the people i have met here, its a rarity to find so many fantastic people in one place !!!!
have a fantastic time all xxxxx
jw

see ya later joe xxxxx
Quote by katniss
Try
I'd like to take this opportunity to confirm please
:scared:

:bounce: :bounce:
All my favourite peeps are coming to Cov :clap:
I'm not sad
Quote by maverick40
Any peeps fancy keeping me company down to cov, free lift there and back just get the costa coffee lates in, and listen to my drivel for four and half hours,,,,leaving Glasgow about 10ish
ad sooner walk than listen to u for 4 hours :thumbup:
rotflmao:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:to be honest,,,,,,, so would fucking I lol,,,,
just nod in all the right places its not like ya can understand a frickin word he says anyway smile
n not a chatroom issue but i cant seem to purv profile pics either sad
am using google chrome n never had a this problem in 6 yrs..have tried clearing cache n browsing history...still the same
laminate with a large fluggy rug me thinks ...wishes i could do the open fire but 2 outta 3 aint bad ..............happy decorating smile xxx
Quote by katniss
Have deffo got aan overnight babysitter :clap :clap Niss xxxxxxxxxxx:happy::happy::happy::happy:

yayyyy xxxxxxxxxx
any peeps travelling from nr liverpool ...would share petrol costs..the thought of sittin on a train for 3 hrs fills me with dread tbh...only cuz i norm get labelled the crazy lady cuz i talk to everyone lol
well ..what can i add to the comments already made..........
.my 1st ty has to go to frowningmango....ya made me cry by ya genorosity ..ya saved my birthday n will wuvv ya forever for that...........sorry i was such a sad cow today but hey if ya cant be emotional on ya birthday when can ya be!!!
2nd ..has to go to gorge.....fab night, fab venue (even if it did take me 6 hrs to get home n 4 bloody trains)
3rd to busty......bloody fountains!!!!!
4th Mav n suede..just cuz i wuvv ya both
n finally just to everyone that turned up n made it a fab night....as already said..those that dint bother ..hope ya enjoyed x factor/strictly or whatever bollox was n the telly..ya missed a fab night .....not bad for southerners !!!!!!
Am really really sorry but am gonna have to miss this...esp gutted as its my birthday too...but my bank balance is telling me, not a hope in hell of making it...was sooo looking forward to it ..no doubt you will all have a fab time.................
is beginning to feel like one o them peeps that just like to see their names on lists fgs..but seen as i'm still without a job I just cant justify the expense & plus would mean I was fooked for the next 2 weeks ( as apose to just the 2 nights silly)
chelle
xxx
Quote by tarkadahl
I'll get in before anyone else does and suggest the first thing you should do is change your profile to 'couple'. ;) I'm not suggesting that it will immediately turn her into a rampant swinger, but if you're open with her about being on here, it might spark an interest.

Hi Cubes, thanks for the suggestion, TBH when I originally signed up it was as a couple (as I was part of a couple!) but my wife didn't know about it, one of those 'head above the parapet' moments, but I didn't think she would be overly pleased, anyway, as she never appeared on here someone 'reported' me as not a couple and so my status was changed. I have certainly considered the idea of coming across the site when we are using the laptop together and letting her see all the people in the chat rooms, I think she would find the anonymity exciting, but I haven't thought that through yet - as I'd have to have an accountto get on the chatroom...
Anyway, I'll dwell on that, thanks for your time
Dave
Don't quite get this comment as you obviously paid to join the site, as you can post in the forum ..free members cannot do this (unless your of the old skool).....seen as your have paid your membership you have full access to all areas of the site..including the chat rooms..the only other fee paying option is extras!!
errrr...when you have all finished lol.....n yes gorge ya need to get ya butt to a wigan munch girl x
bloody saufend fgs smile