Ideally I would like to find a regular playmate within reasonable travelling distance.

I'm a well spoken gentleman, calm and considerate, clean and erudite and non pushy.

Being an alpha male does not mean arrogant, except in the young. It means being controlled, confident, centred and able to automatically take quiet control in any situation that arises. Well it describes me, after a fashion!

In the bedroom I definitely err towards the more adventurous side of erotic activities.

I've enjoyed several amazing D/s relationships over the years, so I'd be particularly happy to meet with anyone with submissive tendencies or curiosities. I do not switch. D/s is non essential, but a little chemistry is.

Good clean safe kinkiness with a smile, a laugh and a glass of wine - one of life's greatest pleasures!

Actually I'm happy to explore almost anything just long as it's not terribly illegal or disgustingly smelly!

OK so I'm a dirty bugger! And your point is??? I'm also a genuinely warm, non judgemental, empathic human being too.

And sometimes it's about just having a conversation, a meal, a county pub drink - which is why I would rather meet just one person for ongoing meets - more is shared and everything else just gets better and better!

No pics up front for the usual reasons, but a face pic is in my private gallery. Quiet intro over a drink in a public place would be my preferred starting point.