Honesty is the best course and I'm sure being so will make many of you turn away but I'm single and have been default celibate for tooooo long. I love sex, beng sexual but have previously only had sex within a relationship. I'm now clear that this is not the way forwards but it's a step change between my past and my aspirations.

How do I move from funky sexy  intelligent and lonely to satisfied experimental active and fulfilled after so long? It's a small step for man but a huge step for KingSlimKind! All advice welcome!