Hiya,

Thanks for popping by.

No meets at present due to Covid-19 – No condom is going to effective against this!

I am a normal (same as everyone else I guess) sane guy looking for some fun with mainly single/attached females but also couples, either on my own or with limited involvement including my wife.

I am straight, so guys, if you are gay or bi, I am not interested, but am not homophobic so don’t mind possible close contact.

Just looking to chat and make a connection at this stage, and hopefully, when everything is back to normal, have a social meet and take it from there.

Regarding my particular interests, these are wide and varied as I am pretty adventurous and willing to try most things, some a lot more than others!

I prefer to be dominant in the bedroom and for the female to be submissive or at least compliant, although an active participant can be fun too.

There are so many things that I would like to do and the list is endless, but I have started to indicate below just some of these. Please feel free to ask about a particular like you have even if I have not included it.

Something about me:

I have mainly only been in long term relationships and have currently been married for nearly 8 years and monogamous for 12 years and, therefore, can be considered safe, so it must be understood that safe fun is a prerequisite.

My preference (due to being highly desensitised) is for bareback sex, but have to be 100% sure that any partners are also safe with evidence to prove that fact (my wife will not be happy if I give her anything at all and nor will I). Otherwise, I will always be protected for penetrative sex, except for blowjobs.

Because of this, I am a very long stayer and enjoy trying out all the possible sexual positions and also have a penchant for anal sex to be included with any potential partners. This can be willingly, reluctantly or if in some role play activities, used as a punishment. Be aware, that I am quite large, so factor that in when you respond, although I will take it at your pace, and start off slowly and gentle until you are used to it.

 am in this for the experience, not just the sex. That might seem odd, but I think that it can be as much a mental thing as well as physical!

Additionally, I prefer something more long term, so that I can get to know the people I am with and learn what does it for them, and vice versa.

One thing to be aware of is that I do not always cum (especially at the beginning), this is something that has always happened even when I first starting going out with girls, so I am used to it and it does not mean anything! My wife was the exception, hence why I married her, lol.

Because I always went for an older woman when I was younger, unbelievably, I have not had sex with any female under 25 years old or with a tongue piercing, so they are pretty high on my list. Though, my wife is younger than me!

Regarding body size/shape, I do fancy the more smaller build on a female, and had a couple of girlfriends around the 5 foot mark, but this is not a hard limit, and don’t mind taller, also, am not a lover of BBW (sorry girls), but am happy to meet curvy/medium females.

That said, I do enjoy filthy talk, and find that mental stimulation sometimes much more rewarding than the physical side. This can go as far as you are able and willing and nothing is too , which gives a pretty wide spectrum of subjects to choose from! Therefore, any size, shape or age will be considered, as it will be mainly your mind that I am interested in! Actual sex is optional, but if you get me rock hard, well, what do we do with it?

If required, I can 420 friendly, even if I do not smoke.

Although this is a single male profile, there are a few instances where my wife may be also involved, although she is much more vanilla than me.

She is submissive (in the bedroom only) and though totally straight and not even curious, may do as she is told during some particular role play situations, such as giving/accepting a spanking from other females, and even as much as letting another female play with her and maybe lick her fanny (warning: she does get very wet sometimes). This would be on the understanding that she can say no at any time and back out if she feels uncomfortable with anything. She will only receive and not reciprocate in any way.

She would be up for socials with other couples and enjoys the chat, and maybe even partake in soft swing with maybe some touching/feeling included. Her preference is for taller men (5 foot 10 inches minimum), not hairy, no beards, smell nice and be well groomed.

As she will be very nervous, she may have a drink or two for Dutch courage, but we make no promises as to what may happen or how far she will go.

Please put - bum lover - in the subject box so that I know you have read the whole advert.

Some other things I have not done, but would like to experience:

Fisting a girl (I have very large hands and although I have had a few goes, have never succeeded yet)

DP (preferably with me up her arse)

Use a female as a sex toy to enjoy as I want how I want and to use and basically abuse her, leaving her sore, well shagged, played with using fingers and objects, spanked (hard if that is her want), and anything else I can think of, and I have a very good imagination!

Will finish this off later.