Ok.......always tricky this bit....laid back, impulsive, attentive. If you've never tried a uniball.....here's your chance....married and she doesn't know....(if it's not your thing... don't judge just close the door quietly when you leave) ....tried clubs..scary but fun....never tried a party....invites welcome....if you  like to be orally pleasured....bring a book I could be down there a while....and if you own a strapon.....well.....maybe!