Like many people, I have spent many years searching for my 'soulmate'. On occasions, I have even believed such a woman has been found.  However, it was never to be, so let's put that on the back burner for a while and just have some fun with strong minded, intelligent women who can hold a conversation and share my belief that great sex starts in the meeting of minds.  I am a bike racing adrenalin junkie, retired prop forward and still built to reflect that.  It would be lovely to have a special friend with benefits for regular meetings and fun.  I'm a bit beaten up over the years of rugby and bike racing but usually still able to a smile on the face of a woman.  Maybe I sport a few scars and tattoos but innately I am a gentleman with good manners and who knows how to treat a lady. Yes, I can hold a conversation in any company and I love to laugh and make people feel good.