may i just say before you go any further i am not into the current trend of being hairy at all !!! really neat trim is ok but prefer shaved

I am not looking for men !!!!!!!!!  but trans is not out of the question as long as there is an attraction

no point getting to know someone intimately via messages , only to find out that there is no attraction on meeting in person or on cam 
there has to be chemistry ! . 

I am looking for people who are sexually flirty,
a friend or friends with benefits.  
who is looking for nice friendly fun , no strings attached unhurried,hopefully sexual fun. 

if we like each other and the feeling is mutual, making it an ongoing thing would be great.
but obviously not essential.   
I like long foreplay titillating conversation in a relaxed atmosphere and if that doesn't lead to penetrative sex 
that`s fine , 
we are not on a contract here. 

and just a side note , if you do message or meet with me, and then realize i am not really what you were looking for , don't worry i am not a persistent angry messager or the stalker type if your not interested, neither am i. 

  
i like to see who i am going to message or speak with so a face pic would be nice,
I treat people with respect and expect the same in return 

i don`t drive so being not to far away would be an advantage, so i can get to you by taxi or short train ride. 
or you be willing to travel to me !.

Saturday from 4 till 10pm i spend time with my son but any time after that i am available. 

there are days i get of work but i don`t know till i get there weather i am needed or not so that would be a let you know on the day thing. 

I think that covers all the bases so thanks for dropping by if there's anything els you would like to know ask me !

Hope to here from you soon john x