Also play as a couple. Not with partners but with each other. See a genuinely nice fella who,s up for the fun things in life. Please note, I am not and never will be that knight in shining armour who rides in to change your life 's get the important stuff on record. Discretion is assured and expected. What happens between consenting adults is their business, and rest of the world is no worse off living in ignorance. I am respectful of other peoples needs and requirements and would expect the same in return. Judgmental people irritate the poo out of me, acceptance that we are all different in our needs and desires, opens the mind and body to new experiences. A closed mind generally means boring, run of the mill people. Fun and laughter are the best aphrodisiacs in the world, so if you take yourself seriously, your probably not for me. Anything done with a smile can only enhance the situation. I am not pushy at all and respect peoples feelings and limits and positively love the variance in peoples bodies and minds. Variety is definitely the spice of life!

At the risk of the cynical amongst you going, "Oh that old chestnut", my wife can no longer have sex, for reasons too involved and which also have no relevance on here. Don't think I'm looking to change partners, I'm not, nor would I ever contemplate it, apart from sex, our relationship is great. That said I'm human, and consequently weak, and I still need sex in my life. I am open to nsa or regular meets, all I ask is discretion. Please don't sit in judgement of me - walk a mile in my shoes first.

If you can remember that feeling you used to get when you knew you shouldn't - but damn well knew you would, that delicious anticipation, well that's what I'm looking for now. Please feel free to ask any questions or to request further photo's. I'm open and easy to chat to and am straight forward with my answers.