I'm 62 now and still have the occasional fun time my happiest times were 20 ( and younger) until my mid forties. I was tall slim with good legs. I had an amazing wardrobe of great underwear and expensive stockings. I had cheaper stockings that I wore for some of my lovers who enjoyed rougher sex!
Obviously I had one night stands and sex in public toilets ( my favorite).
I also had regular lovers. Usually married. Wives would be out with friends at regular times so that's when I'd be invited. I loved sucking cock and having someone cum in my bottom but I also loved the kissing and cuddling.
Only occasionally did I want an orgasm.
The pleasure for me was having someone want you.
Sometimes quick sex. Other times slow love making.
That point when you get a mouth full of cum or when they do that final thrust inside you.
Now I love older men.
Everything is so much slower and sometimes things don't work out!!
I still love giving my lover an orgasm.