Like a lot of people we started swinging by accident. I think a lot more people would do it, They just have that initial fear of getting started and need someone to introduce it to them and have the patients to go through things slowly.
It all started when we were very young and we had moved to Australia for work. My wife and I both worked for the same company but she worked in manufacturing and I worked about five miles away in R & D.
I was away for a couple of weeks on business in Adelaide. When I returned I found she had love bytes on her neck so I questioned her. She confessed that she had been fucked by a work colleague. I was young and did what society dictated so I resorted to that cavemen principal of " its my property and if you touch it all punch you on the nose " A few weeks later we had had a few drinks and were playing truth dare or promise and I confessed to her the thought of her being fuck by another person was a turn on. She must have kept that thought in her head because a couple of weeks later we needed a babysitter while we attended a wedding on a Saturday afternoon. We had a regular babysitter but unfortunately they weren't available for that afternoon. They had mentioned in the past that their friends were swingers and said that she was available for that afternoon and gave us her phone number. The arrangements were made. Apart from our conversation on the phone, the first time we met them was when we dropped off our son on the way to the wedding. My wife was all dressed for the wedding, she was wearing heels and a short dress that showed off her cleavage. She had scrubbed up quite nicely and she did look very fuckable. We spoke with Pete and Sharon for awhile before leaving for the wedding. After the wedding I dropped my wife off back at our place to give her time to prepare dinner and went to pick up our son. When I knocked on the door I was greeted by Sharon. Pete was out. She cornered me and said that all four of us should go out for dinner and after it go back to their place and play. I was stunned at her braisied attitude. But several months later I realized that you have to be proactive. If you wait around for things to arise you may wait forever.
When I got home I mentioned it to my wife who just looked at me and said " so when are we going to dinner ". lucky I still had their phone number and we made it a date. Over dinner we all knew what we were there for but it didn't stop my wife and I from being as nervous as hell. On the other hand Pete and Sharon were taking it in their stride, like it's an every day occurrence. We laughed when Pete and Sharon told us about their first time and after that our nerves seem to lessen slightly. I did notice Sharon a few times look over my way and knew exactly what she was thinking. No doubt Pete was doing the same. We ended up back at their place and all sat in the lounge with a drink. The nerves came on again and I wondered who was gonna make that first move. It was a little bit like a plate of biscuits, everybody wants one but nobody wants to be the first. I didn't have to wonder for long. Sharon slipped off that couch onto her knees in front of Pete and took his cock out and started sucking him off. She stopped and looked at us and said " why don't we all go to the bedroom where it's a little more comfortable "
As soon as we got to the bedroom we paired up. Sharon was with me and Pete was with my wife. Sharon was snogging me while taking my clothes off. I had a quick glimpse across the room at Pete and my wife, and they were well ahead of us. Obviously she was more eager than me because not only were they snogging worldly and Pete was taking her clothes off but she was also helping him out of his. By the time we got onto the bed Pete and my wife were already fully naked and she had his cock in her mouth. It was a real turn on watching a guy fuck my wife while his own wife was sucking on my cock. Pete and Sharon had made our first experience very easy. You can never repeat your first time. It's full of nervousness, anticipation and excitement. looking back I can see our first experience was rather mild. It was simply a wife swap. Our time with Pete and Sharon became more regular and more adventures. There was numerous times when Pete and I would gang up on one of the wife while the other one watched or played with herself usually both !!! And it wasn't long before Pete introduced us to another couple and then two single guys.
Back then my wife had never been with another woman. That didn't happen until we returned to New Zealand. I wasn't there for it but he told me all about it. Once she had tasted pussy she was hooked.
It was a slow start here in New Zealand. It was hard to find people that were after the same things as us. After a period of time you do develop your favourites. Sex is like food. You do develop your favourite, but they are not exclusive. Your favorite may be steak but that doesn't mean you'll always eat only steak. Sometimes you have a craving for fish and chips
Our favourite became me watching her being fucked by multiple cocks before eventually joining in.
Sometimes it was with ramdom strangers and other times it was prearranged.
Sometimes I was invited to join them and other times I was just the two or more of them. If it was up to my wife I would always be there but sometimes the guys just aren't into it. But she would always tell me the full details Sometimes they will go to a hotel and other times they will come here. If I got a text from her saying ..... I'll be home soon make yourself scarce....... I know to get out of the house. But if it reads........ I'll be home soon get the drinks ready........ I know I'm included and I'm going to get to watch my wife put on a show and get fucked by one or more other men
Over the years we did build up a group of swinging friends. They are not friends who became swingers they are swingers who became friends. They are more like FWBs. We do do social things together although we do usually end up fucking.
It's funny how our least favourite thing at home is our go-to thing when we are overseas. That is clubs. My wife referred to them as a fuck fest. She said unlike being at home you haven't really got time to send messages back and forth so a club is the best option. She said at least your guaranteed a fuck. Or in her case plenty of fucks. She says the first four are exciting but after that the novelty wears off. The standard joke after visiting a club is for me to say you'll need plastic on that seat so you don't get it wet.
Over the years I saw plenty of guys hitting on her at the bar knowing they were going to get their chance to fuck her.
Unfortunately the marriage ended but not because of swinging, for a totally different reason. I was lucky enough to meet Sam. I thought my wife was pretty wild but Sam was on a totally different level.
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