We first got into wife sharing when we were very young (see our two earlier stories). We were only just married and I think we were both surprised how quickly we were drawn into the deliciously erotic excitement of her opening her legs for other men.

For Jan it was the thrill of being 'naughty' whenever she wanted; for me it was the physical sensations of making love to her after she had been with someone else and the realisation that I wanted her to continue doing it. At first we found it very difficult to rationalise these feelings but we now realise that we are far from alone in not just enjoying acting out these fantasies but in needing to try new ideas and scenarios.

In the early days it seemed very easy to meet suitable men and make arrangements for Jan to have fun but, as time went by and family and other responsibilities grew, we found it much more difficult. When we talked about it in bed and re-lived previous experiences we always agreed that it would be fun to meet another man (or men) but in the cold light of day these thoughts nearly always gave way to more pressing practical issues. The biggest problem was have young children around and Jan's parents popping around whenever they liked. I remember once taking the kids to the cinema whist Jan went to bed with an old friend of ours who was staying with us.

We did have a few experiences - on holiday and at parties - and these were exciting but we both wanted to explore more complex fantasies and these nearly always centred on regular meetings with an older man. Jan had enjoyed a degree of emotional involvement with her first two lovers and she often reminded me that I had been turned on by this. I was - despite (or perhaps because of ) the obvious risks- - and I still am because I know Jan has her most intense orgasms when she has feelings for her lover.

A couple of years ago we met a guy who managed a pub a few miles away. He and Jan always flirted with each other and, one night, when he was off duty, he had sex with her in a guest bedroom whilst I waited in the bar. I loved knowing that she was being fucked and that I would be able to feel and taste and smell their lovemaking when we got home. The first couple of times she went with him were good for her too. He had a very thick cock and knew how to use it. But then things started to go wrong. Jan said he didn't really understand our relationship - he didn't realise how in love we were - and that my sharing her was our way of making our lovemaking even more pleasurable. He just didn't get it - so we stopped seeing him.

I think we thought that might be the end of our wife sharing fun but, having recently moved house, we think we may have met someone who fills the bill - and might end up filling Jan.! We now live in a small block of flats and Doug is our neighbour. He is older than us and a bachelor. Neighbours have told us that he has had a number of girlfriends but now lives on his own. He is slightly overweight but very charming and obviously likes Jan. We have had dinner with him on several occasions and, after a few glasses of wine, I steered the conversation around to Jan having a thing about older men. A couple of weeks ago Jan invited Doug for coffee whilst I was away from home. Nothing much happened until he was leaving and Jan went to give him a friendly kiss on the cheek - instead what she got was a proper kiss and a hand on her bum and then her breast. When she told me about it I asked what she had done - she said she had just said 'that was yummmy, you must come gain'. And then he left.

Sine this happened we have been talking about Doug in bed nearly every night. I'd love her to start something. Just thinking about her with him makes me rock hard. One of Jan's fantasies is to spend the whole night with a lover with me nearby. I'd love to experience this - waiting for her to come home used and smelling of sex would be exquisite and, knowing that he is so close at hand, might feed other, deeper, desires