One of the confessions and there were quite a few when she eventually came clean was that she had told me she was seeing a colleague from work regularly for sex, this wasn't true she had been seeing her ex. Jacqui said at the time she had gone back to work after having our youngest and had been seeing (Steve ill call him) they had not had penetrative sex but she had given him several blow jobs in his car. On returning to work she had agreed to train staff which would mean her staying over at hotels two nights a week, and this was how her affair with Steve was able to progress him meeting her and staying over with her. At the same time she was telling me she was having sex with another trainer from a different office. This was fine with me as we had long ago agreed to her taking lovers after our family was completed. I told her I wanted complete honesty and she agreed but told me I wouldn't like everything she had to say as she had clearly lied a lot. I asked her about the first time in the hotel and she told me she had waited for him in the room wearing just a basque stockings and suspenders and heels. He arrived in his suit and she said they acted like animals, unable to keep.their hands off each other. He is a good looking guy and much better hung than me and she had given herself to him totally. He had taken her pussy mouth and arse no condoms were ever used, which was a concern as she was still fertile (I had the snip! Yet she allowed him to cum wherever and whenever he wanted. I was i have to be honest very exited by this and it was obvious to her so she went into details telling me how fabulous he was and that she knew i really wouldn't have approved so kept it secret for years. He is the best lover she has ever had and ive had to say I want her to have the best of everything in life including that, I will go with it but am concerned about her developing feelings for him now he is single and living close by. Shes told me a lot of things she did with him and how she lied to enable it to happen so if anyone is interested ill continue telling the confessions here. Im surprised at myself at being so exited as this is not swinging it was her actually cheating but I cant escape from the fact it does exite me!