Just over ten years ago my wife (Jane) and I were separated and I used this site to fulfil some of my swinging fantasies. Some years later we're now sharing some of these stories but I will start with what happened just before we separated. In the build up to me leaving the house I’d slept on a camp bed in the spare room and home office but in the last few months before I left we started sleeping back in the same bed but didn’t have sex and had only previously had sex a couple of times in the last year. Both of us were highly sexed but the relationship breakdown had taken its toll .In the routine of the last six months I found a house and was arranging to move out. I was very sexually frustrated and would often get even more so when Jane would come and go naked between our room and the shower. Often drying herself in front of me. She'd let her pubic hair grow back fully which made me think she wasn't having sex or masturbating much.  In this time I had my first swinging encounters with couples but they were few and far between until I moved out. I also noticed changes in Jane’s behaviour in that she would often arrange to meet a friend after work and get in a bit later after dinner. She also had a few weekends away too which was unusual but was explained as I’m getting my life back on track. The thing that really made me realise that she might be seeing someone was that she started showering before bed rather than in the morning. It didn’t stop her from getting dressed and dried in front of me but she did often start sleeping in a night dress rather than sleeping naked. Usually on the nights she’d been out after work. I couldn’t really say too much as I’d had my own encounters over this period but I was a bit jealous and inquisitive. One night I thought that I’d check her phone and thankfully the pin code was still the same. Even though I knew deep down the shock of the confirmation really hit me. There were lots of texts from someone called Roger and even though many had been deleted there were plenty of matter of fact arrangements and sexting messages to read. Jane was going straight from work to Roger's, getting fucked senseless then coming home full of his cum to get into bed next to me. I also found this very arousing too. It was clear from the text that he liked hairy pussies so that explained why she hadn't kept smooth. I also discovered several photos sent by Roger, some of his cock and a few of them having sex. He had a very long but thin cock with a mushroom cock head, though slightly longer than mine it wasn't very thick, which made the head look so much bigger. What also shocked me was that he was clearly much older than Jane.   My imagination was running wild and I couldn’t sleep properly for days. I decided to keep quiet and wait until I moved out.  We did get back together two years later and she did confess all of this. Roger was a divorced work colleague close to retirement and a bit of a womaniser.  They chatted about relationships and our problems which lead to him flirting and making a few passes.  I was aware of him but didn't recognise him from the pictures.  He invited her round one night with a take away and a bottle of wine when the kids were with me and pushed the flirting boundaries. Jane joked that she would be too much for him after not having sex for so long. He offered a massage and she accepted the offer, which ended up with them fucking and starting a fuck buddy relationship. I do remember her coming back slightly tipsy that night after he dropped her off, but I didn't suspect anything. Roger had had a vasectomy so Jane was coming home full of his spunk, which is why she would shower before getting into bed. I didn’t know this at the time though. The fact that she was having sex with someone else made me want to fuck her again but I didn’t expect to get the chance. She wasn’t aware that I was also having ad-hoc but less regular fun too. I did strut around naked occasionally with a hard on  to test the water for opportunistic sex but nothing happened until a few weeks before I moved out. Ages before we had agreed to go to a friend’s 40th in Dublin as part of a group so with childcare arranged off we went.  On the second night after having one too many Jane was a bit flirty with me and I said “if you keep doing that I’ll want to fuck you” her reply was “Well let’s see what happens". I took that as a yes and couldn’t wait until we went back to our room. Un be known to me Roger had gone away to tend to a holiday apartment in Spain (where he also had another sex outlet and came back with an all over tan, more of that in another account) and she was missing regular sex. During the confession two years later she explained that she had texted him during the evening to say she was so horny that she might fuck me and what did he think. He replied that he is still your husband and was pretty open minded about it. He had previously admitted to Jane that before they had hooked up he’d had a drunken threesome with a friend and his wife who he already knew were swingers. In reality they were neighbours in Spain who looked after his property and who he would sunbathe and swing with whenever in Spain. When we got back to our room it was clear that Jane was still horny and intended to get fucked. She threw her clothes off and lay on the bed with her legs apart revealing her hairy pussy. Before telling me to start with some oral attention she told me that this didn’t mean we were getting back together. Within seconds I was nibbling her clitoris and slipping a finger into her very wet hole. I soon changed position so that she could suck my very erect cock. The thought of me fucking her instead of her new lover was really turning me on. Jane orgasmed pretty quickly and so would I if I hadn’t pulled my cock out of her mouth. I quickly moved back round and slipped it into her very wet pussy......”Don’t come inside me as I’m no longer on the pill”. I just assumed she was using condoms with her new man and carried on thrusting. I chose this moment to say. “I know you’re seeing someone else”. And she replied “I assumed you suspected but didn’t want to say”.  I asked her what the set up was and she said it's a work colleague and she'd been seeing him for a while. She would see him for a fuck straight after work a few times a week or when she was telling me she was going out with her friends. I didn't mention checking her phone. A moment later Jane orgasamed and I pulled my cock out and presented it over her chest,  which was an invite to wank me off as was close to coming....I erupted pretty quickly spurting spunk over her breasts, neck and chin. “That’s a lot of cum for you, you’re obviously very turned on” she said. I assumed that would be the last time we were to have sex but we got back together two years later.