Hi ive read what Mark has written and just wanted to reassure some of you regarding the comments you kindly found time to post. Firstly this is very much a joint effort between Mark and i. He likes me being with other guys and i obviously enjoy it from my own point of view but also love to give him what he likes! I never really imagined getting into the lifestyle like i have. Initially all those years ago, i met up with a couple of exe's and its now led me to a point where I have two regular lovers as well as my lovely hubby. It may appear that i am totally in charge of the relationship but this isn't the case, Mark regularly persuades me to contact one or other of my friends. Both live close to us which is both convenient and awkward in equal measures. Both Paul and Martyn are divorced with their own places , but unfortunately we cant use Paul's place unless Mark is their, as Marks best friend lives next door to him. Paul is Martyns boss but isnt directly in charge of him. A typical night would be me returning from work, and usually both of my boyfriends will have chatted to me with a view to meeting up. They would see me most days if they could which is lovely but not practical sadly! I see Martyn every Friday and stay over sometimes with Mark but usually just the two of us. Paul is new and as he works away a lot its not so regular although I have accompanied him on one of his trips! I love to dress sexy probably a bit slutty i suppose and have a small wardrobe at Martyns where we keep my sexy dressing up stuff! The evening will usually start ( if Marks not with us) with a few G and T for me and photos for Mark to keep him happy. I then concentrate on my man for the evening and we have sexy fun on the couch some roleplay at times and usually he takes control( i love that) and I have to please my master through the night, sometimes i ring Mark and let him just listen other times Martyn will video parts of the evening on my phone and send it to Mark. I prefer Mark not to contact me when im there but i look after him when i return home and afterwards cuddle till i fall asleep until mid afternoon. Martyn also likes to see me with other men and this is how Paul was introduced into our lives. We attended a works party shortly after Christmas and i was introduced to Paul, Martyn telling me Paul was his boss and i should be nice to him, later admitting he had staged the whole thing to get to watch Paul get into my knickers lol. After much flirting at the party we got a taxi to Pauls place and being slightly drunk i didn't notice he lived in the same road as Marks good friend. We had lots of fun i even did a striptease and lap dance especially for Paul which resulted in me getting my first spit roast for a few years! We all shared Paul's king size bed and i was used by them both throughout the night poor Mark had been expecting me home! The following morning after being mostly Pauls plaything through the night, i went to the bathroom and rang Mark. He was quite rightly annoyed as i could see by his missed calls and text messages. I agreed he could pick me up after reassuring him id had a fabulous night and that i had lots to tell him and show him when i got home! One last time with my two lovely boyfriends and exchanging phone numbers with Paul and I got the address from him and sent it to Mark. He was horrified as it was directly opposite his friends house. We managed to get away without being spotted, a good job as i had a party dress stockings and heels on so god knows what he would have thought had he seen me! It got too much for Mark on the way home and he pulled into a quiet lane and had me give him a blowjob,my poor jaw was aching it was not the first of the night! So the four of us are happy with our situation i suppose Mark is a cuckold husband but its all his own making!