If I get a good response this will be just the first chapter to my introduction to swinging and how it developed into multiple guys fucking me.

I was a virgin when I met my husband, I'll call him Adam and me Pam. Ok so I wasn't a virgin by the time we got married, but I was true to my resolve not to have sex till I was sure it was with the right man.

We dated for a couple of years and then he asked me to marry him. I couldn't wait for him to ask me and said yes straight away. Fourteen months later we were married and a month later having our first argument.

No it didn't end there we got over it which was proof that we were right for each other. Four months later and I was pregnant with our first child.

It was planned, I planned it and Adam was all for us starting a family. Nine months on and I'm giving birth to our first child. Eighteen months on and I'm pregnant again with our second child.

For the next 16 years we're a happily married couple raising 2 children with all the usual day to day problems of family life. All was good, or so I thought.

Let me tell you a little bit about myself. I was just 20 years old when I first met Adam. I'm just 5ft 2 tall, a 32c at the time, didn't need to wear a bra. Something Adam mentioned several times, saying he liked how I held my back straight which made my boobs more prominent, and of course I didn't need a bra as they didn't droop.

I'm not a particularly slim build, top half is fine but as they say I have child bearing hips, which extend to the thighs, so no I'm not a slim model, more the cuddly type, but confident in the way I dress.

So as I say our marriage was going great or so I thought, but thinking back there were little signs that I should have picked up on at the time. Sex wasn't something that I thought about, I liked it but it was usually down to Adam to instigate it.

I was very nieve about sex, ok I knew about certain positions but I let Adam lead where when and how we made love, but I never had to fake an orgasm with him, it was always oral, but oh boy he certainly reached the spot.

It was the only times I used the f word as he brought me to climax, several f words in fact, and immediately after I had to have my husband inside me.

Adam was never a quickie guy, he could last for ages, but when he came it was galleons, well perhaps not galleons but it felt like it and even after running to the loo I still woke up in the morning with a wet patch on the sheets.

So by now you're wondering where all this has to do with swinging and multiple fucks. Well we had an argument, I don't even remember what started it but the mention of sex came up and how few times we did it. For the next few days we hardly spoke, except to have another spat with more harsh words.

One of us had to make the effort and it was me, I suggested when he got home we open a bottle of wine and talk, let our thoughts flow so to speak. Adam agreed and that evening with one bottle drained and a second one opened we aired our differences.

It soon became clear the biggest stumbling block was down to sex or lack of it. Adam wanted more, I had got comfortable with how and when we did it, but in hind sight I now realise it was predictable and mundane.

Having got that out on the table and realising our intimacy had got stale I asked how he thought we could revive it. We spent a good hour talking about various ways, most of which I hadn't had any interest in like sex toys and different positions.

As the evening drew on and the second bottle of wine emptied I got the impression there was something Adam wanted to say but wasn't sure how I'd react.

I asked him once, then twice, and eventually on the third time of asking, he looked straight at me and after a short pause, just said one sentence, "I'd like us to try swinging"

I could see he was waiting for me to explode, but I didn't, besides we'd agreed to be honest and open and listen to each others points of view. I just asked him to explain, to give me some details. I may have been a virgin when we met but I knew what swinging meant.

Adam said, we see if there's another couple that wants to meet up for friendship but also for a sexual relationship.

I said, you mean we swap partners, how far would we let it go.

He said, yes we swap and we go all the way, full sex.

Adam went on to say, the conversation could be stimulating, we're always saying we would like some more friends, why not intimate friends. You've never had sex with anyone but me, I think you'd like to know what another man would be like.

I let Adam go on for a few more minutes, but he had me at, "Swap and full sex"

With him still in mid sentence I said, "Yes ok, so how do we go about finding another couple"

My husbands answer surprised me, he said, we sleep on it and talk again tomorrow when the wine has worn off, if you're still up for it then there are sites that we can look at.

Well I wasn't drunk, but I was acutely aware that I was very moist between my legs, I was also aware that my boobs felt tighter and tingly.

We kissed and cuddled and 15 minutes later I'm on my back on our bed with the f word coming out of my mouth, thinking wow that climax didn't take long, but an hour later I'm swearing like a trooper again.

I'll stop there and see if you want to know more, or have I bored you enough.