Why is it when a man sleeps around he is a stud but if it’s a woman she is a slut ? If a man has an affair he is a low life dog but if a woman does it there was a problem with the relationship, my story happened about 3 years ago , I was married , I had a great job , great life with friends , lovely house the full nine yards . Then we were invited to my companies end of contract party , everyone was buzzing because the company was doing so well , even the owners and top shareholders were there flying in from overseas . That was when I was introduced to Kandi , she worked in LA and we had communicated on line and a few times on the phone. Putting a face to a voice was a very pleasurable experience, she was 30, very smart and savvy did I mention she oozed sex , from the clothes she wore , her killer heels and make up she was a stunner. My boss pulled us together and told us to meet up to sort out a few issues with stubborn clients , Kandi was going to stay for a few days , I went to join the lads and my wife , Kandi and some of the ladies were chatting away. It was a great party , in the morning I got a message saying that the first client would not discuss issues on Face time he wanted to meet us both in London , early flight and then seal the deal. My wife said how lucky I was spending the night with such a beautiful woman , I said it’s work and normally this is sorted on line , a Uber to the airport , were I caught up with Kandi , it was only a short flight and a driver was at Heathrow to pick us up and take us to the Hilton , we had adjoining rooms with amazing views of the capital, the client had hired out a room in the hotel , my laptop connected to a overhead projector and we were ready. The meeting was going great , we stopped for a power lunch , then back to it . Everything went perfect, he was more than happy , he wanted to get the contract all signed and sealed , he said the evening meal was on him . I phone Terrie ( my wife ) saying every thing went well and the client had treated us to a meal , the moment was amazing the client left and we chatted and we flirted with each other , I should have stopped it but I was weak , there was an attraction there .......but I was married . We had a night cap at the bar , my flight was early the next morning Kandis flight to LA was late in the evening . With a hug and a air kiss on the cheek I said I was going to my room , I changed into my dressing gown , enjoying a nice malt from the room mini bar , the phone rang it was Kandi , she asked what I was doing , I said having a drink and enjoying the view from my window - this is were it changed Kandi said do you want some company my head said no , but my mouth said ok I’m in my dressing gown chilling . I left the door open , she was also in her dressing gown , she had a glass of wine , we chatted and we had more drinks , we laughed then I noticed Kandi was still wearing her tights under her dressing gown , with more drinks they were stockings as her dressing gown opened up giving me a little treat . Then she said I need your opinion on something, she said she had brought some lingerie a treat for her boy friend , can I show it to you , she said I’m wearing it under my dressing gown , she stood up and her dressing gown fell to the floor , my jaw was open , it was a basque with suspenders, stocking and matching panties , yet again I was being tempted , she even gave me a twirl I said he’s a lucky guy and you will both enjoy the undies , then she moved towards me and said do you like them , before I could answer we were kissing , then I was naked on the bed, we were in a lust frenzy, sucking , licking , touching , she said fuck me , from behind I moved her gusset to one side and I was in , fucking with deep thrusts , she ordered me to slap her arse and pull her hair , changing positions with her lying on her back I was pumping hard she said don’t cum inside her cum on her basque , which I did , she said sexy undies made her feel slutty and spunking on basque sealed the deal . It must be a LA thing she was very sexually vocal telling me what to do , licked her pussy , the sex was animalistic. The euphoria of the sex was doubled with regret and it hit me like a punch , I then off loaded on her saying she seduced me and egged me on , I blamed her and I said she had done this before and she wasn’t a good woman , all of this was wrong , I had every opportunity to say no and I didn’t , she got up set and used my bathroom , she was wearing her dressing gown I used the bathroom and then I asked her to leave . We argued she said I was out of order only blaming her , some things I said were disrespectful I even called her a easy lay. I didn’t sleep much and I left for the airport , I got home and I was back with my wife , the next morning I went into work and when I got home - the next part of the story is why now I am single and divorced ..... While at work my wife was sorting out my overnight carrier and then I remember in the room I had gone to the loo when I came out Kandi was close to my bag she was looking for her earring and I had called her a slut and a few more choice words. In my over night bag she had put her panties in one of my shoes , it was revenge for my hurtful words , seeing them was like a dagger in the heart , the look on my face and the pain on hers she knew I had cheated and she screamed at me , I broke down blaming everyone instead of me and my weakness. She moved out , we did try and give it another go but the damage was done . 2 hours of lust destroyed everything, my moral is think with your head not your penis . I had it all and then I was sleeping on my mates couch .