i have found there seems to be a lack of intelligence at times, seems people get very horny and lose a few brain cells in the process.
normally the guys i have not come across any rude women so far, i love to chat to anyone butsometimes you have ignore people. cant wait till the ignore facilty is present in the chatroom.
im amazed at how many guys slag off couples playing on cam when thats what they want to see. Alcohol plays a big part too lol
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Sex God
For my mind the constant abuse of capitals would have been reason to remove them from the room...
Quote by Ukwineman
i have not come across any rude women so far,
You either frequent the wrong rooms or havn't been chatting long enough. I could name some real evil ones without too much thought
I will point out that I deal with all troublemakers equally. Jumper lumps or not, they all get the same, firm but fair treatment.
ian
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Quote by Dawnie
Ian will you stop using your PDA to post from the bath:rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao::rotflmao:
Washing spudsand surfing............
Interesting combination
I totally agree and don't think you are being over sensitive at all 
... it's almost like throwing a party and then a guest arriving and taking over the role of host
A few manners and common decency cost nothing but there are some who still choose not to understand that.. as has already been said, there are a few 'bad apples' but most people are fine :P
... it's almost like throwing a party and then a guest arriving and taking over the role of host
A few manners and common decency cost nothing but there are some who still choose not to understand that.. as has already been said, there are a few 'bad apples' but most people are fine :P In agreement with you flower :thumbup:
we find that posting a few carefully chosen words from the rules ( copied & saved ) is sufficient enough but if the these are ignored you do have the keys to deal with so you can enojoy the room you open as intended.
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Unharsh but to the point warnings from the rules:
*This is a NON DIRECTING room.*Asking*, *Suggesting* *requesting*, *begging* or *hinting* what cam users may show or display will find you removed from this room and your account may face a site ban. * Please see the chatroom rules here : http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/chatroom/user-rules.html
This is a Non directing room and No whispering without asking in the room 1st..Also no sick, nasty personal or just plain rude comments .. Offenders will be removed so please refrain from
doing it............
Enjoy the cams and the shows that are put on in here from time to time
. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/chatroom/user-rules.html
*Members are reminded to read chat room rules /etiquette where it states it is rude to whisper without asking first and waiting for a reply. Persistant offenders may be booted and banned from the site* so name and shame offenders folks.*
I wish everyone remembered that when they click through to actually enter chat they accept at that point to follow all the site rules................ its amazing how many forget them (some conveniently).............. hosts dont like taking any kick action as it disrupts the room but hey folks have a heart we don’t make the rules!
oh and one final one that made us laugh (pmsl)
Mating calls of the fuckwit................ ( latin name : Moronus Dumbcuntus Extremus )............ any fems want cam fun?,......................... can you stand up?,..................... what size are those?,........................ do you show?, ..............................want to watch me wank?,........................ you're nearby, do you fancy it tonight?,........................ can i come round right now?,................... got any toys?,..................... you've made me hard,...................... i'm wanking for you...................................what u wearing..............do you swallow................best whispered for maximum fuckwitiness...................and no rippin of other peoples work
:thrilled: :thrilled:
we find that posting a few carefully chosen words from the rules ( copied & saved ) is sufficient enough but if the these are ignored you do have the keys to deal with so you can enojoy the room you open as intended.
:thumbup: :thumbup:
Unharsh but to the point warnings from the rules:
*This is a NON DIRECTING room.*Asking*, *Suggesting* *requesting*, *begging* or *hinting* what cam users may show or display will find you removed from this room and your account may face a site ban. * Please see the chatroom rules here : http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/chatroom/user-rules.html
This is a Non directing room and No whispering without asking in the room 1st..Also no sick, nasty personal or just plain rude comments .. Offenders will be removed so please refrain from
doing it............
Enjoy the cams and the shows that are put on in here from time to time
. http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/chatroom/user-rules.html
*Members are reminded to read chat room rules /etiquette where it states it is rude to whisper without asking first and waiting for a reply. Persistant offenders may be booted and banned from the site* so name and shame offenders folks.*
I wish everyone remembered that when they click through to actually enter chat they accept at that point to follow all the site rules................ its amazing how many forget them (some conveniently).............. hosts dont like taking any kick action as it disrupts the room but hey folks have a heart we don’t make the rules!
oh and one final one that made us laugh (pmsl)
Mating calls of the fuckwit................ ( latin name : Moronus Dumbcuntus Extremus )............ any fems want cam fun?,......................... can you stand up?,..................... what size are those?,........................ do you show?, ..............................want to watch me wank?,........................ you're nearby, do you fancy it tonight?,........................ can i come round right now?,................... got any toys?,..................... you've made me hard,...................... i'm wanking for you...................................what u wearing..............do you swallow................best whispered for maximum fuckwitiness...................and no rippin of other peoples work
:thrilled: :thrilled:
Sexpert
hi flower we mostly open our own room and have done for a while u get all sorts singles and cpls behaving badly. we usually warn them of the rules then if they persist find a chatroom op and report them but it can still carry on, soin the end just ignore then and carry on with what u want to do ok thx xx
Quote by markandnicky
We often run the NW room and have been advised that if we post the rules we set to run the room by say every 15 mins or so any people who break the rules can be kicked as the constant posting of rules acts as warning enough.
You have to warn people personally as well as putting up your rules before kicking them out
Warming the Bed
I agree flower411 it is so difficult knowing how to deal with someone who isn't actually breaking any rules and ignoring room host too. 
Have found in most cases if they do not get the attention which they're seeking do leave room for elsewhere.
When I've hosted a room try to give people benefit of the doubt first time around. However after that try to speak privately to them about what ever it is they are doing. That way the room dynamics do not get disrupted by this and the 'kick' facitity is my absolute last resort. When been put in the situation of needing to give a warning this too I do in private.
Knowing the room and most of the people in it the host soon picks up if something isn't right. The advice about being firm and fair is good and applies even if you know the person very well. A host has to be impartial when it comes to dealing with a problem within the room.
Most host have their own way of running a room but the basic principle is always adhering to the site rules. Copying and pasting in the room does help when needed as it is a general warning and not aimed at any one individual. I have often added when doing this 'to those which this applies to'.
Naming the specific person in the room can often cause far more problems that it's worth.
:smile2:
oops another soapbox moment sorry.
So far have always managed to deal with any problems without having to go and find an Op. There is always the option of reporting an issue within the room and getting the Ops to look at the logs later. This way I feel room dynamics would not be disrupted too much.
Nothing worse than having a room atmosphere totally destroyed by problems as very difficult to turn it around again.
Have found in most cases if they do not get the attention which they're seeking do leave room for elsewhere.
When I've hosted a room try to give people benefit of the doubt first time around. However after that try to speak privately to them about what ever it is they are doing. That way the room dynamics do not get disrupted by this and the 'kick' facitity is my absolute last resort. When been put in the situation of needing to give a warning this too I do in private.
Knowing the room and most of the people in it the host soon picks up if something isn't right. The advice about being firm and fair is good and applies even if you know the person very well. A host has to be impartial when it comes to dealing with a problem within the room.
Most host have their own way of running a room but the basic principle is always adhering to the site rules. Copying and pasting in the room does help when needed as it is a general warning and not aimed at any one individual. I have often added when doing this 'to those which this applies to'.
Naming the specific person in the room can often cause far more problems that it's worth.
:smile2:
oops another soapbox moment sorry.
So far have always managed to deal with any problems without having to go and find an Op. There is always the option of reporting an issue within the room and getting the Ops to look at the logs later. This way I feel room dynamics would not be disrupted too much.
Nothing worse than having a room atmosphere totally destroyed by problems as very difficult to turn it around again.
