hi im new to this site ant to the swinging secne its somthing iv always wanted to do and now im single im free to do as i please,
so why wont ppl talk to me cant they see me or is it that im new here i try to join in but feel im in the way and talking to myself i thorght theres ppl would be warm and welcoming and at least say hi is it ignorance or arogance or am i just to oldfashnd i just want to be friendly ohh well
some times when the chat is in full flow you can find it hard to break into the chat.. its nothing personall, and you just need to keep trying.. I tend to find joining in on the banter in the room helps..
You will find that sometimes people are just plain rude. Its not personal its just that some are so wrapped up in their own clique that they don't see anyone else. Which is one of the reasons I open my own room most evenings where people are made to feel welcome and are free to join in the chats going on. I try to welcome everyone when they arrive in the room.
Having said that its also up to members to join in and make themselves known. Once people get to know you then you find that you fit in well all over the site.
goldsmith x
whats your room goldsmith maybe ill pop along and have a look
Its Golds Room on server 2, you are most welcome to come in and chat
Goldsmith
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