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Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds
Hi, and welcome to SH.
The time of day will influence the chatrooms significantly, with evenings, particularly at weekends being the most popular time.
That said however the trouble that you are facing is the common problem that most of us face. Not everyone in the room is actively chatting, many are usually afk (away from keyboard). Others will only talk to people that they themselves are intereted in. But by far the reason why the chatrooms appear so quiet is that many people will only communicate via the whisper facility. This means that no one else see's the chat and the room appears empty/afk/inactive/boring.
I will always chat, usually complete nonsense, but I DO chat lol Persevere and you will soon get into the flow of it xxxx
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usually complete nonsense,

But it's very nice nonsense!!
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usually complete nonsense,

But it's very nice nonsense!!
Oh, you smooth b**tard!
worship
;)
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Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds

Every body on here was NEW at some point and most have done all right,Ive been on here for EVER and some people still chat to me,obviously,it's the ones that don't know me lol
Most of the regulars will chat to the "newbies" cos they themselves were in the same boat once,so there you go.
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usually complete nonsense,

But it's very nice nonsense!!
Oh, you smooth b**tard!
worship
;)
LOL!!!
Very good.
Maybe I've been lucky, but I'm new and have had some good chats already.
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Maybe I've been lucky, but I'm new and have had some good chats already.

And you left already?????? Another one scared away :/ wasnt me - honest
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And you left already?????? Another one scared away :/ wasnt me - honest

or changed their login name *wink*
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Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds

I'll talk utter bollocks to anyone in there lol
Gotta say...when i wandered in there (pool room) for the first time a few weeks ago, i was accepted without any problems. Then again...im a persistent lil fucker :lol: Think ive slotted right in....tough if i haven't....theyre now stuck with me.
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Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds

I'll talk utter bollocks to anyone in there lol
Gotta say...when i wandered in there (pool room) for the first time a few weeks ago, i was accepted without any problems. Then again...im a persistent lil fucker :lol: Think ive slotted right in....tough if i haven't....theyre now stuck with me.
Nothing wrong with talking bollocks, *guilty as charged* yer fitted in right nice, the Pool is as diverse as it is friendly (mostly) yesterdays example from Vibrators to Curtains to Dietary requirements, all within 30 mins, Brilliant!
I've found when talking lots of bollocks (guilty as charged again) that you tend to gag a little, particularly those unshaven ones, they stick right on me tonsils.
Hi,
we've only been on here a couple of months but are regulars in chat and talk to anyone and everyone. I think it's mainly just a case of you get out of it what you put in lol
Hardly ever do whispers as we're happy to talk in the main room, but if people do whisper they need to say something interesting/original or will likely be ignored.
N & C
xx
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Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds

I'll talk utter bollocks to anyone in there lol
Gotta say...when i wandered in there (pool room) for the first time a few weeks ago, i was accepted without any problems. Then again...im a persistent lil fucker :lol: Think ive slotted right in....tough if i haven't....theyre now stuck with me.
You only fitted in cos your cooking skills are worse than mine:lol:
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Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds

I'll talk utter bollocks to anyone in there lol
Gotta say...when i wandered in there (pool room) for the first time a few weeks ago, i was accepted without any problems. Then again...im a persistent lil fucker :lol: Think ive slotted right in....tough if i haven't....theyre now stuck with me.
You only fitted in cos your cooking skills are worse than mine:lol:
Dee...hush woman.....im working on us landing the catering job for the next meet :lol:
Your curry and my meat pudding will go down a storm lol
Quote by itsBoo
Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds

I'll talk utter bollocks to anyone in there lol
Gotta say...when i wandered in there (pool room) for the first time a few weeks ago, i was accepted without any problems. Then again...im a persistent lil fucker :lol: Think ive slotted right in....tough if i haven't....theyre now stuck with me.
You only fitted in cos your cooking skills are worse than mine:lol:
Dee...hush woman.....im working on us landing the catering job for the next meet :lol:
Your curry and my meat pudding will go down a storm lol
Can we have naked waiters serving it ? boink
you need to watch out for a few characters in the chatroom.
one called minikat formally known as katniss is not to be trusted. be careful or you will fall into her trap and it curtains.
and lookout for her sidekick known as dee_licious. she works with Kat to position you into her path by lowering your defenses. they work as a team and youve had it when the vodka jellies appear.
they communicate a lot so be warned,
keep them peeled. lol
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Just wondering why it is when you are new to the site,you are encouraged to use chat room but when you are on there people don't talk or try to make new freinds

I'll talk utter bollocks to anyone in there lol
Gotta say...when i wandered in there (pool room) for the first time a few weeks ago, i was accepted without any problems. Then again...im a persistent lil fucker :lol: Think ive slotted right in....tough if i haven't....theyre now stuck with me.
You only fitted in cos your cooking skills are worse than mine:lol:
Dee...hush woman.....im working on us landing the catering job for the next meet :lol:
Your curry and my meat pudding will go down a storm lol
Can we have naked waiters serving it ? boink
Semi-naked butlers at a select few of the up-market socials innocent just sayin :rascal:
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you need to watch out for a few characters in the chatroom.
one called minikat formally known as katniss is not to be trusted. be careful or you will fall into her trap and it curtains.
and lookout for her sidekick known as dee_licious. she works with Kat to position you into her path by lowering your defenses. they work as a team and youve had it when the vodka jellies appear.
they communicate a lot so be warned,
keep them peeled. lol

Thats bordering on slanderous that is innocent
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you need to watch out for a few characters in the chatroom.
one called minikat formally known as katniss is not to be trusted. be careful or you will fall into her trap and it curtains.
and lookout for her sidekick known as dee_licious. she works with Kat to position you into her path by lowering your defenses. they work as a team and youve had it when the vodka jellies appear.
they communicate a lot so be warned,
keep them peeled. lol

Thats bordering on slanderous that is innocent
Smiles sweetly at my angelic sidekick :lol:
Quote by tyracer
you need to watch out for a few characters in the chatroom.
one called minikat formally known as katniss is not to be trusted. be careful or you will fall into her trap and it curtains.
and lookout for her sidekick known as dee_licious. she works with Kat to position you into her path by lowering your defenses. they work as a team and youve had it when the vodka jellies appear.
they communicate a lot so be warned,
keep them peeled. lol

Wait until you see us in Manchester wink
Quote by dee_licious
you need to watch out for a few characters in the chatroom.
one called minikat formally known as katniss is not to be trusted. be careful or you will fall into her trap and it curtains.
and lookout for her sidekick known as dee_licious. she works with Kat to position you into her path by lowering your defenses. they work as a team and youve had it when the vodka jellies appear.
they communicate a lot so be warned,
keep them peeled. lol

Wait until you see us in Manchester wink
fear me! FEAR ME! :twisted:
Quote by tyracer
you need to watch out for a few characters in the chatroom.
one called minikat formally known as katniss is not to be trusted. be careful or you will fall into her trap and it curtains.
and lookout for her sidekick known as dee_licious. she works with Kat to position you into her path by lowering your defenses. they work as a team and youve had it when the vodka jellies appear.
they communicate a lot so be warned,
keep them peeled. lol

Wait until you see us in Manchester wink
fear me! FEAR ME! :twisted:
I think my Shrep says everything that needs to be said about me ;) I do believe tyracer has put two really lovely comments on there, thus showing that everything he says above ^^^^^^ is complete tosh LMAO flipa
Erm, you lot do know you chased the OP away don't you? smackbottom
;)
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Erm, you lot do know you chased the OP away don't you? smackbottom
;)

redface sorry passionkiss
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Erm, you lot do know you chased the OP away don't you? smackbottom
;)

Innocent until proven guilty innocent
Quote by minikat
you need to watch out for a few characters in the chatroom.
one called minikat formally known as katniss is not to be trusted. be careful or you will fall into her trap and it curtains.
and lookout for her sidekick known as dee_licious. she works with Kat to position you into her path by lowering your defenses. they work as a team and youve had it when the vodka jellies appear.
they communicate a lot so be warned,
keep them peeled. lol

Wait until you see us in Manchester wink
fear me! FEAR ME! :twisted:
I think my Shrep says everything that needs to be said about me ;) I do believe tyracer has put two really lovely comments on there, thus showing that everything he says above ^^^^^^ is complete tosh LMAO flipa
I was Drunk
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Innocent

:laughabove: :laughabove: :laughabove: