would like somebody to explain to me when visiting a chat room whatever im looking at the screen changes to a completely different room from full to10 and under mainlymen only and jerking into a coma
It sounds like you have been automatically booted out of the room. For not chatting enough.
Never been aware of such a thing happening, but perhaps sam is right, I've heard that you can be booted if not active in the room. Ask one of the mods.