Please, please, please, when people open a room, understand that its still the choice of members coming in to accept or not accept uninvited whispers. You can't change the rules to suit your own requirements.
Thats it really!!
this taken from the chat room rules page .... the bit in red highlighted ... its still against site rules to whisper without asking even in a room entitled that whispers are allowed
Chat Etiquette:
No excessive use of capitals.
No trolling: this means the posting of the same message over and over again.
Please do NOT whisper without asking first and getting a yeah.
Remember "NO" from a member means "NO".