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as we pay good money to use this site its about time that the service was upgraded we are sick of slow service or lack of server use and all the other problems that aoccure on regular basis time after time, a simple easy to use site is better than trying to be clever we just want to use the site as intended at the mo its not fit for use NOW i am sure offence will be taken and we will be banned by admin if so will have to take legal steps to recover our subscription
So at pence per day to use the chatroom, so that's pence per hour.... how many hours are the chatrooms down?
Even if they were down 500 hours you would be owed
Sorry if this seems a little sarcastic... I just think it's a matter of perspective.
Quote by sallynphiluk
as we pay good money to use this site its about time that the service was upgraded

new servers on the way, new chat room nearlly here can't get much more upgraded than that unless someone invents a website that can do your housework for you confused
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So at pence per day to use the chatroom, so that's pence per hour.... how many hours are the chatrooms down?
Even if they were down 500 hours you would be owed
Sorry if this seems a little sarcastic... I just think it's a matter of perspective.

Think what they mean is they want what they paid for? so bringing statistics into it won't make any difference, If your electricity went out twice a week for an hour at a time would you like that response from your provider?
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So at pence per day to use the chatroom, so that's pence per hour.... how many hours are the chatrooms down?
Even if they were down 500 hours you would be owed
Sorry if this seems a little sarcastic... I just think it's a matter of perspective.

Think what they mean is they want what they paid for? so bringing statistics into it won't make any difference, If your electricity went out twice a week for an hour at a time would you like that response from your provider?
but i think the point being made is in the last year how many days do you think we have had problems so far.......10?? 15 at a push...... out of 300-odd days so far???? so the obtaining your money back thru legal blah blah may be technicallly right..... but in the grand scheme of things it seems petty.........
there are other parts of the site that are working even when the chatroom is down... check out the forums.. heck even go an read the stories and go thru the ad's......
you would think that the chatroom was the be all and end all of it all, i like it as much as the next person but i sense of propective would be nice once in a while
Totally agree fabio, and your right it is petty, and they shouldn’t be posting here either, if they have a problem they should contact admin directly, I was just pointing out that regardless of the cost of things people want what they pay for and although a few pence might not be much to some it may well be to others so I think the initial reply was somewhat inappropriate.
Unfortunately whatever we do things do go wrong sometimes and we do understand that people will get annoyed and complain, one of the reasons that we try to get things back to normal as quickly as we can.
Its not an excuse but many other companies have problems at times, my Broadabnd goes up and down like a yoyo some weeks.
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Totally agree fabio, and your right it is petty, and they shouldn’t be posting here either, if they have a problem they should contact admin directly, I was just pointing out that regardless of the cost of things people want what they pay for and although a few pence might not be much to some it may well be to others so I think the initial reply was somewhat inappropriate.

Which of course is your prerogative - I'm just wondering if you read their other post or their profile before deciding my response was inappropriate? dunno
Just in case you hadn't...
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its about time admin got off there asses and gave us the service we pay for we are sick and fucking tired of this site not working and we have paid good money the odd crash ok but this is day after day come on sort it OUT

And their profile was worded as such...
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TO THE THICK TWATS THAT CANT COUNT IF YOUR UNDER 45 DONT WASTE OUR FUCKING TIME --- BUT PLZ WASTE YOURS

Should I have written...
:therethere: although the AUP says they cannot promise that the chat room will be available 24/7 you go ahead and post in your extremely rude manner.
Quote by Kiss
Should I have written...
:therethere: although the AUP says they cannot promise that the chat room will be available 24/7 you go ahead and post in your extremely rude manner.

YES biggrin but i wasn't answering any other post and i never looked at their profile, but to be honest my reply would still have been the same if i did, sorry but just because someone else may be rude doesn't mean we have to be, i'll give my opinion on the matter in hand whether people agree or not its just an opinion, we're not here to judge anyone, they obviously have problems with people contacting them without taking the time to read their profile/ads which in turn is also rude, although i don't condone their behavior either, but i do think its a bit ott posting comments from anybody's profile in the open forum regardless of what it says.
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YES biggrin but i wasn't answering any other post and i never looked at their profile, but to be honest my reply would still have been the same if i did, sorry but just because someone else may be rude doesn't mean we have to be.

Quote by Kiss
Sorry if this seems a little sarcastic... I just think it's a matter of perspective.

I wasn't rude and I apologised in case it was taken as such. I was stating the facts.
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but i do think its a bit ott posting comments from anybody's profile in the open forum regardless of what it says.

I'm guessing you mean odd/off. It's not private information and only a click away for anyone to see.
I am a firm believer in treat others how you wish to be treated.
If the person posting was able to take their own advice about people being "Thick twats" then they would have read the terms and conditions before handing over their money.
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1.2 By clicking on the ‘I Accept’ button at the bottom of these terms and conditions and subscribing you agree to be legally bound by these terms and conditions as they may be modified and posted on our website from time to time.
12. Availability of the online service
We will try to make the Service available but cannot guarantee that the Service will operate continuously or without interruptions or be error free and can accept no liability for its unavailability. You must not attempt to interfere with the proper working of the Service and, in particular, you must not attempt to circumvent security, tamper with, hack into, or otherwise disrupt any computer system, server, website, router or any other Internet connected device.
4.6 PLEASE NOTE THAT THERE WILL BE NO REFUND OF ANY SUBSCRIPTION FEES ONCE YOU SUBSCRIBE TO THE SERVICE. (In uppercase letters on the website - not typed by me.)
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ott = over the top.

:doh: Thanks sexkitten. For some reason my brain wanted to make the 'tt' into an 'ff' and I was sober! lol
So I'm now guessing (hopefully correctly this time) that talking about somebodies profile out of context in a thread is ott? dunno
Like this you mean?
http://www.swingingheaven.co.uk/swingers-forum/viewpost/856337.html#856337
errrrrr I didnt mean anything, i was just letting you know what ott meant! but seeing as im here, i suppose the difference is that they commented on/asked a question about someones profile, you actually quoted a persons profile? dunno
and bloody hell woman are you a speed reader? all this profile scrutinising and post history searching......where do you find the time? lol
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errrrrr I didnt mean anything, i was just letting you know what ott meant! but seeing as im here, i suppose the difference is that they commented on someones profile, you actually quoted it? dunno
and bloody hell woman are you a speed reader? all this profile scrutinising and post history searching......where do you find the time? lol

:doh:
I wasn't implying that you meant anything! And yes I can speed read.
I was referring back to FunScottish's previous insinuation that I was being ‘ott’ by quoting a profile.
I've had it done to me... by a Mod and other people do it! I really don't see what the fuss is about. If I had said "They call people fucking twats on their profile" that would have been acceptable? Everyone would have looked at their profile.
Had they been polite when posting would I have answered they way I did? No. The evidence being that everyone else that has had a problem with the chatroom or website has received no reply from me.
It's getting to feel that you have a problem with the way I behave on the forum sexkitten, if so please just let me know by PM rather than regularly questioning my motives.
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So at pence per day to use the chatroom, so that's pence per hour.... how many hours are the chatrooms down?
Even if they were down 500 hours you would be owed
Sorry if this seems a little sarcastic... I just think it's a matter of perspective.

THAT'S not sarcasm - that is a pretty sensible breakdown to put things into perspective.
Sarcasm would have started with..
To all the thick twats that think technology is infallible, runs without gliches 24/7/365 and then over exaggerate to an extent which makes them look an arse.....
But I didn't notice your reply starting with anything like that confused
kiss, i didnt question anyones motives, i simply ,misunderstood whether you were referring to me or fun scottish couple in that post. and as i was there i answered the question, i dont see a problem with that.
in edit, ive decided to take part of this post away to pm.
Quote by sexkittenhfx
kiss, i didnt question anyones motives, i simply ,misunderstood whether you were referring to me or fun scottish couple in that post. and as i was there i answered the question, i dont see a problem with that.

Understood.
IN EDIT: Removed and taken to PM.
lol great minds think alike eh? pity i wasnt quick enough to pm before you quoted me wink
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errrrrr I didnt mean anything, i was just letting you know what ott meant! but seeing as im here, i suppose the difference is that they commented on someones profile, you actually quoted it? dunno
and bloody hell woman are you a speed reader? all this profile scrutinising and post history searching......where do you find the time? lol

:doh:
I wasn't implying that you meant anything! And yes I can speed read.
I was referring back to FunScottish's previous insinuation that I was being ‘ott’ by quoting a profile.
I've had it done to me... by a Mod and other people do it! I really don't see what the fuss is about. If I had said "They call people fucking twats on their profile" that would have been acceptable? Everyone would have looked at their profile.
Had they been polite when posting would I have answered they way I did? No. The evidence being that everyone else that has had a problem with the chatroom or website has received no reply from me.
It's getting to feel that you have a problem with the way I behave on the forum sexkitten, if so please just let me know by PM rather than regularly questioning my motives.
Sorry for not wording the ott correctly, we all like shortcuts sometimes, you seem to have a problem with their attitude and rightly so, but even went as far as admitting you probably wouldn’t have responded if they’d been polite in their posting, so there’s not much I can really say that will make a difference here, but the fact you say their calling people thick twats I don’t see, as that in terms is only a label and its only going to be people who think of themselves as thick twats its going to effect which in my opinion is none.