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i just want to say that i and a lot of women like me would like to see an ignore button added to the rooms so we can stop certain people viewing our cams-i was on cam in a room last night and i was insulted by 3 people in that room.i didnt complain or look for an op because they left so quickly but until something is done i will not cam again-and i know there are a lot of women who feel the same way and wont cam either
cudds
Hiya Cuddles
Speaking as a single guy, one i hasten to add that does not abuse ladies or couples on cam or in chat come to that..... there are a minority of people on the site that feel that they have to upset others...
It would be good to have an ignore button so that you can ignore and therefore no longer see posts from specific individuals although i doubt they will introduce such a feature on the old chat rooms now... Until such a feature is introduced you have to rely on the Host being there to kick the offenders out although if in a general room then you have to hope there is an Op around at the time....
However, what i would say is dont let the buggers get you down.... there are plenty of genuine men and women on the site and if you give in then the minority will do it all the more to others.... easy for me to say i know not knowing what was said etc... but if you are genuinely offended by something said then take it to an Op and they will look at the posts and take the appropriate action against those individuals and ultimately ban them if warranted...
All the best, hope you are having fun ....
Graham
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i just want to say that i and a lot of women like me would like to see an ignore button added to the rooms so we can stop certain people viewing our cams-i was on cam in a room last night and i was insulted by 3 people in that roomi didnt complain or look for an op because they left so quickly but until something is done i will not cam again-and i know there are a lot of women who feel the same way and wont cam either
cudds

How can anything be done if no-one complains about chatters who are abusive/offensive dunno
everyone gets the odd insult when on cam its just one of those things that you'll never stop, mainly its the frigile male ego that makes them turn abusive cause you turn down their offer of a meet, i have had it a few times where they ask to meet and cause i have said no i'm told i'm a ugly bitch anyway and they can do better :lol2: just laugh it off cause you know damn well they cant ;)
My advice is look for rooms that cater for you, if your a bbw try the bbw rooms, if your older try rooms that cater for older people, ok i know we shouldnt have to and no matter where you go there will always be idiots out there that just want to go on to be hurtful but it cuts the chances down.
Before I became a much "hated op" wink I treated everyone with respect no matter their body shape ,age colour or sexual preference and I hope that I have continued to be do the same now that I have the "force".
Manners cost nothing folks, the ultimate goal of this site IMHO is to have fun and that's what we should all be doing, but there are a very few whose idea of fun is abusing other people, but as mallock says if you don't report them how are the admin going to stop it.
If there is no host to kick the abuser or you can't find an Ops anywhere, then copy and paste the abuse onto a text file, save it and then mail to admin giving as much details about the time and name of room as possible.
That way it will get dealt with and not be forgotten about.
Admin do take very seriously any instances of abuse and will take action against the abusers.
Woo
True never going to stop the minority saying unkind,abusive things even if not on cam.
If in a hosted room then it does help as the person if persists can be removed. They often come back for more but many learn whilst others don't and end up getting kicked many times in an evening. :smile:
Mind if you enjoy using your cam why let those idiots win.
Have actually gone through a rather tough time with a specific person and did report them.
Jokingly call them my nemesis now for they don't speak but will constantly watch my cam. Still a little raw from what happened.
Won't let them intimidate me and turn my cam off for then they have won.
It takes take a little courage to do so but friends are there as support. Sure they would like nemesis to over step the mark again. evil
There are plenty on site who will stand up when see abuse going on. Have known times when others do report an incident even if not been done by member actually on receiving end.
We all here to have fun and enjoy ourselves in whatever way we choose. Why let the minority spoil it for the rest of us.
It's a shame that often it's a single guy giving problems. As a result makes the genuine good ones have a more difficult time here. (had to stop and think what word to use instead of hard :twisted: )
To echo what woo and mallock has said reporting the people should be done,even if you don't like doing so.
If haven't copied and pasted to a word file just send details of time,server and room to admin. Then the logs can be checked.
Personally I have felt awful reporting anyone but then thought if don't how many others will suffer the same abuse as I did.
Cuddles if can't see an Op in any rooms have a look in the forum and see if one is about there then send a pm to them.
Has worked for me when no Ops around in main rooms.
Woo are you really hated that much? Seem to recall you had trouble escaping from a room the other evening. :evil2:
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Awww Woo!! You know we all love you !! :inlove:

Please let it be Mrs Flower that wrote that lol
Woo
So!!!!! flower are you trying to tell me that Mrs Flower is actually Harry Potter???? biggrin
woo
i started a thread on this subject a while ago that was swiftly locked.
i just wanted to bring the subject up and make it clearer for chatters how to complain/report so that certain repeat offenders dont slip through the net.
i think my thread was seen as a moan rather than a discussion tho dunno
but yeah, report, report, report lol