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Quote by carlyandbrian
you should make a room for couples only as singles are getting a free run off this site and couples are dieing out as they getting fed up with single guys not taking no as a answer or just jacking off on cam sort this out
You'll find this is a bone of contention around here.
To have an enforceable couples only room would be against AUP as couples would be discriminating against single males. Only way round it is a passworded room and the keyholder having control of who comes in and as no one would necessarily know who was the keyholder in the first place, who would you email for the password?
I cant say i have a problem with guys who dont take no as an answer, i ignore them or block them if they become that much of a handful and if they are jacking off simply dont watch the cam. Anyone becomes that much of a pain, its simple, report the profile with the details and let admin deal with it.
They've paid their dues as much as the rest of us and are entitled to use the site as they see fit.
I might add as well there are a lot of decent genuine respectful single guys on here its just a shame that the large amount of idiots that do pass through the chatrooms get them all a bad name.
Quote by carlyandbrian
you should make a room for couples only as singles are getting a free run off this site and couples are dieing out as they getting fed up with single guys not taking no as a answer or just jacking off on cam sort this out
Waste of time doing a poll, No's will get more votes than Yes as there are more single guys here that will vote NO! Lets face it how many are going vote Yes ? lol .
Its a site mainly for single males, so its not going to ever happen.
Once couples leave the site and go elsewhere the singles will have fewer pics and cams to get off on anyway.
It seems the general future of swinging is evolving more towards singles anyway, whereas traditionally it was all about wife swapping among couples.
Now its hoards of singles looking for a free shag, instead of paying for one on a street corner.
Even clubs have couples only nights, why ? because they have listened to their customers wishes, and then catered for them. Speaks volumes.
Once couples leave the site and go elsewhere the singles will have fewer pics and cams to get off on anyway.
It seems the general future of swinging is evolving more towards singles anyway, whereas traditionally it was all about wife swapping among couples.
Now its hoards of singles looking for a free shag, instead of paying for one on a street corner.
Even clubs have couples only nights, why ? because they have listened to their customers wishes, and then catered for them. Speaks volumes.
Orgasminator
as a couple i voted no cos to chat it means nothing that they single males
They'd all rejoin with couples accounts anyway... :doh:
Next we'll be having married couples only, co-habitating, couples who are FB's, lesbian couples only, gay male couples only, couples who aren't really couples and Couples where only one plays.......
Opps forgot the derivatives:-
Non-smoking couples, soft-swing couples, couples who are not meeting at the moment, smoking couples, vegetarian couples, vegan couples.....
Next we'll be having married couples only, co-habitating, couples who are FB's, lesbian couples only, gay male couples only, couples who aren't really couples and Couples where only one plays.......
Opps forgot the derivatives:-
Non-smoking couples, soft-swing couples, couples who are not meeting at the moment, smoking couples, vegetarian couples, vegan couples.....
Mod
I guess that includes the elusive single bi females then, in the couples only room and if it's couples then surely 2 gay guys can enter and 2 gay girls?.
I would also love to know how you are going to know that the couples are definetly couples and not singles with pics stolen from the net?
Great way to scare the single bi fems off, wow!! ,wish I had thot of that idea not
I would also love to know how you are going to know that the couples are definetly couples and not singles with pics stolen from the net?
Great way to scare the single bi fems off, wow!! ,wish I had thot of that idea not
10 o'clock on a weekday evening....
Beach Bar - 125 users = full
Pool - 125 user = full
Jacuzzi - 70 users
three user made rooms each with 100 users = full
In total over 1150 users in chat.
Yep, the sites going to the dogs. I hope something changes soon to make it exciting
oh yes, and champions league football is on the telly, so many people won't even be logged on here.
Beach Bar - 125 users = full
Pool - 125 user = full
Jacuzzi - 70 users
three user made rooms each with 100 users = full
In total over 1150 users in chat.
Yep, the sites going to the dogs. I hope something changes soon to make it exciting
oh yes, and champions league football is on the telly, so many people won't even be logged on here.
Sex God
think i like single str8 guy rooms best,,,but if i want to go cpls room i will..or fems only room...i even go to the ops room when they not there n tidy up for them.....
n they never say ty.......would not be nice to go to a room n be kicked because i dont fit....spos next u want a tall room...or a short one....
n they never say ty.......would not be nice to go to a room n be kicked because i dont fit....spos next u want a tall room...or a short one....
Mod
Quote by twos_company
or a short one....
Ffs there would only be me an NWC in there
So you would leave the few single women out with the single males only, what a great conversation and unbiased info Id get then 
Lets just make it a hook up site completely and give up on the group social aspects! :-P
Oh and god forbid you break up, as you wont be able to chat with most of your friends anymore lol
Pamxx
Lets just make it a hook up site completely and give up on the group social aspects! :-P
Oh and god forbid you break up, as you wont be able to chat with most of your friends anymore lol
Pamxx
determine coupleYes single guys can be a pain in the arse but, as has been already said, theyve paid so are entitled to be on here.
You don't have to watch them on cam and you can just ignore them if they wink.
They can be a bit of a nuisance for a few days after you've had a bit of fun with them in a chatroom as often they don't seem to be able accept it as a bit of "one off" fun, but so far I've never had to block any of them.
Leave them be. They have a difficult enough time. If you are not interested in single guys just ignore them.
You don't have to watch them on cam and you can just ignore them if they wink.
They can be a bit of a nuisance for a few days after you've had a bit of fun with them in a chatroom as often they don't seem to be able accept it as a bit of "one off" fun, but so far I've never had to block any of them.
Leave them be. They have a difficult enough time. If you are not interested in single guys just ignore them.
To be honest I totally agree with talltrees - the singles aint going anywhere. Just ignore them and they soon leave you alone! Be nice to have some fun in chat instead of continuous moaning about something that cant and wont be changed!
Quote by Talltreescouple
Yes single guys can be a pain in the arse but, as has been already said, theyve paid so are entitled to be on here.
You don't have to watch them on cam and you can just ignore them if they wink.
They can be a bit of a nuisance for a few days after you've had a bit of fun with them in a chatroom as often they don't seem to be able accept it as a bit of "one off" fun, but so far I've never had to block any of them.
Leave them be. They have a difficult enough time. If you are not interested in single guys just ignore them.
You seem to be of the opinion that Mods or Chat-ops (there is a difference, the chat-ops are much better looking and not 'dog rough' (meaning me) as you stated in chat earlier, thanks for that by the way
Why do you assume chat-ops cannot be real swingers or that we've forgot about real swingers? I am primarily a swinger with my other half who play with couples and occasionally on my own with another male/female, the fact that I help around the
chat-rooms doesn't make my opinion re swinging any less worthy then yours?
Swinging has changed it's original goalposts quite possibly becoming a victim of it's own success by way of it sliding in to society as an almost acceptable hobby as opposed to the likes of prostitution/escorting/massage parlours which are still outcasts.
But then, perhaps part of the problem is the lack of communication some couples give? You're here whinging about 'blokes cheating on wife/gf as not being the swinging way but your own profile advertises for a bi-fem and in your description you state you're not after a single male but dont appear to rule them out? You could of course simply advertise for 'couples' only? You're giving out mixed signals which makes things tricky for other couples/singles when navigating their way through 'swingers profiles'
As for the mod/chat-op pro-site blurb comment, it's like this (my opinion) first we're individuals capable of our making our own minds up, secondly we're mods/chat-ops that still have our own opinions of which some may not sit well with the SH management, but, as long as we're not taking the site to pieces or giving it a bad rap by way of bad mouthing it then I'd like think the management are big enough to allow us some slack and honest enough to be able to take us to task without the need for getting stroppy.
There is a line (for me anyway) I personally don't like any person spouting their mouth of about the site when using the site be it chat/forums either by moaning about the site, how it's run or on it's management and as an individual and when I spot people with these opinions (like yours here) I'll take them up on it, not as a chat-op but as an individual.
As an individual I love the site, I love the way it works, the people on it and for the way it's given us an opportunity to play with others in an adult but filthy fashion. Our opinions on the site pre-date my becoming a chat-op
As an chat-op I love the site, I love the way it works, the people on and for the way it's given me an opportunity to become celibate and to not play with others in an adult but filthy fashion, my current stance does not pre-date my becoming a chat-op
Essentially, slag the site off and I'm on it like a bad rash, I dont have to be a chat-op to take you up on it *waving*
Thanks for posting though I got to air my opinion without having to show my teeth (usually in a glass by the side of the bed)
Can you feel the love yet *giving you a hug in dog rough kinda way *hug*
We think you did ha ha ha. soon gets all the mods out spouting pro site blurb.
They seem to forget that real swingers and not some bloke wanting to cheat on wife/GF tend to be non conformists to start with
Why do you assume chat-ops cannot be real swingers or that we've forgot about real swingers? I am primarily a swinger with my other half who play with couples and occasionally on my own with another male/female, the fact that I help around the
chat-rooms doesn't make my opinion re swinging any less worthy then yours?
Swinging has changed it's original goalposts quite possibly becoming a victim of it's own success by way of it sliding in to society as an almost acceptable hobby as opposed to the likes of prostitution/escorting/massage parlours which are still outcasts.
But then, perhaps part of the problem is the lack of communication some couples give? You're here whinging about 'blokes cheating on wife/gf as not being the swinging way but your own profile advertises for a bi-fem and in your description you state you're not after a single male but dont appear to rule them out? You could of course simply advertise for 'couples' only? You're giving out mixed signals which makes things tricky for other couples/singles when navigating their way through 'swingers profiles'
As for the mod/chat-op pro-site blurb comment, it's like this (my opinion) first we're individuals capable of our making our own minds up, secondly we're mods/chat-ops that still have our own opinions of which some may not sit well with the SH management, but, as long as we're not taking the site to pieces or giving it a bad rap by way of bad mouthing it then I'd like think the management are big enough to allow us some slack and honest enough to be able to take us to task without the need for getting stroppy.
There is a line (for me anyway) I personally don't like any person spouting their mouth of about the site when using the site be it chat/forums either by moaning about the site, how it's run or on it's management and as an individual and when I spot people with these opinions (like yours here) I'll take them up on it, not as a chat-op but as an individual.
As an individual I love the site, I love the way it works, the people on it and for the way it's given us an opportunity to play with others in an adult but filthy fashion. Our opinions on the site pre-date my becoming a chat-op
As an chat-op I love the site, I love the way it works, the people on and for the way it's given me an opportunity to become celibate and to not play with others in an adult but filthy fashion, my current stance does not pre-date my becoming a chat-op
Essentially, slag the site off and I'm on it like a bad rash, I dont have to be a chat-op to take you up on it *waving*
Thanks for posting though
I got to air my opinion without having to show my teeth (usually in a glass by the side of the bed)Can you feel the love yet *giving you a hug in dog rough kinda way *hug*
Quote by 2_Roses
Touched a few raw nerves there then lol
We think you did ha ha ha. soon gets all the mods out spouting pro site blurb.
They seem to forget that real swingers and not some bloke wanting to cheat on wife/GF tend to be non conformists to start with
Here Here
Quote by mrmrsmilfy
To be honest I totally agree with talltrees - the singles aint going anywhere. Just ignore them and they soon leave you alone! Be nice to have some fun in chat instead of continuous moaning about something that cant and wont be changed!
Yes single guys can be a pain in the arse but, as has been already said, theyve paid so are entitled to be on here.
You don't have to watch them on cam and you can just ignore them if they wink.
They can be a bit of a nuisance for a few days after you've had a bit of fun with them in a chatroom as often they don't seem to be able accept it as a bit of "one off" fun, but so far I've never had to block any of them.
Leave them be. They have a difficult enough time. If you are not interested in single guys just ignore them.
Sex God
Lots of valid points, just proving that everyone/profile is different and whilst here for the same basic purpose (fun) they have different attitudes and wishes, desires, etc.
There is a solution for those wishing a 'couples only' room being in place, as those who've joined the 'invite-only' Couples 4 Couples Group have found out and seem happy with, as well as using that group's own forum to share information and useful tips on managing Shrep and Chat Settings.
Each to their own and so long as the site AUP and Chat T&C's are adhered to, live and let live we say
There is a solution for those wishing a 'couples only' room being in place, as those who've joined the 'invite-only' Couples 4 Couples Group have found out and seem happy with, as well as using that group's own forum to share information and useful tips on managing Shrep and Chat Settings.
Each to their own and so long as the site AUP and Chat T&C's are adhered to, live and let live we say
do too...........I dunno.............must say, I'm getting blooming fed up at some times whatever lol Warming the Bed
I'm a married TV. I'm on here as a single (wife not interested) but I do have two gripes...
'couples' that aren't (sorry wife not well - looking after kids - forgot to tell her etc) and people that profess to be straight and happily come and suck me off!!!
Surely there has to be honesty on the profile.. Then perhaps this whole thread would not have been necessary!
After all, if you can't be honest on here, then where can you be?
'couples' that aren't (sorry wife not well - looking after kids - forgot to tell her etc) and people that profess to be straight and happily come and suck me off!!!
Surely there has to be honesty on the profile.. Then perhaps this whole thread would not have been necessary!
After all, if you can't be honest on here, then where can you be?
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