Is it me or are there numerous couples on here that are supposedly a couple but really a single guy? when on cam only guys there, wife always out or temporary not playing? when arranging a meet, its only the guy on that particular day.
If you are single then why not just say so? !!!!
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Sex God
Quote by Cambsfun2009
If you are single then why not just say so? !!!!
Some guys may quite genuinely part of a couple, with valid reasons to be temporarily playing alone.
However, I have heard of a handful of "single" guys pretending to be part of a couple, who have been known to arrange meets and then turn up alone - the wife/kids ill or whatever - in the hope that the people he has met with will play with him anyway
:?Many couples will not meet with single guys, which is why the above scenario arises, which really only shows what a tool some of the single guys are :? :?
Not knocking all singles, as we have met with many really nice guys, so please don't jump on my comments :lol2:
Since it is part of the T&C's of membership to display the correct membership status, if you have a genuine reason to believe someone is not part of a couple, but displaying a couples membership, please report it via that person's profile (link at bottom of profile page) and admin will arrange to make appropriate checks on the use of such accounts.
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Orgasminator
Following on from RedHot's comments, there's a particular "couple" profile - everytime we see the cam, its the guy. Be it eating, sleeping, watching tv, wanking,.. you name it - its the guy.
His excuse? "oh she's in bed already" (if he's not in bed), "oh she's at work and does nights", "oh she's out of the country". I even arranged a social the he put "their" names down for and.. you guessed it.. he turned up alone. "Oh, family thing" he said.
Now, as the pics on profile have a pic of him playing with a female (but then again, so does mine), I didn't assume this was her, yet he claims it is, so I asked him straight " 'Him', when we gonna see 'her'?" to which he retorted "Ahabs, when you learn to share then maybe you will get to see her - for doubting me, you'll never meet her!"
I can only assume he referred to said social in question where, after the social, he went door knocking in the hotel looking for a room with "afters", found me in one and asked if he could join in to which the room owner told him no (wasn't my room so wasn't for me to say).
So he feels hard done by for getting no fun, and decided to take it out on me regarding his (as yet) ficticious partner... who I didn't even ask to meet ;)
So, do I report this profile? lol.
His excuse? "oh she's in bed already" (if he's not in bed), "oh she's at work and does nights", "oh she's out of the country". I even arranged a social the he put "their" names down for and.. you guessed it.. he turned up alone. "Oh, family thing" he said.
Now, as the pics on profile have a pic of him playing with a female (but then again, so does mine), I didn't assume this was her, yet he claims it is, so I asked him straight " 'Him', when we gonna see 'her'?" to which he retorted "Ahabs, when you learn to share then maybe you will get to see her - for doubting me, you'll never meet her!"
I can only assume he referred to said social in question where, after the social, he went door knocking in the hotel looking for a room with "afters", found me in one and asked if he could join in to which the room owner told him no (wasn't my room so wasn't for me to say).
So he feels hard done by for getting no fun, and decided to take it out on me regarding his (as yet) ficticious partner... who I didn't even ask to meet ;)
So, do I report this profile? lol.
yes without a doubt there are guys who try it on ... we've been led down the road by a couple of these arseholes in the past .... think they're still members . They use the same excuses you guys have mentioned, and when on cam its just the male on the same single bed with a chequered quilt and surprise the fem is asleep , away, or the male is away on business on his own in a hotel room ..... yawn yawn bullshit.
But you learn and now when we first start chatting to couples, we always ask for a fem to fem phone chat if we are going to take things further .
But you learn and now when we first start chatting to couples, we always ask for a fem to fem phone chat if we are going to take things further .
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As Redhot has already stated......
Since it is part of the T&C's of membership to display the correct membership status, if you have a genuine reason to believe someone is not part of a couple, but displaying a couples membership, please report it via that person's profile (link at bottom of profile page) and admin will arrange to make appropriate checks on the use of such accounts.
Warming the Bed
It's a shame because if guys would just be themselves then they would have a greater chance of actually getting what they seek.
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As Redhot has already stated......
Since it is part of the T&C's of membership to display the correct membership status, if you have a genuine reason to believe someone is not part of a couple, but displaying a couples membership, please report it via that person's profile (link at bottom of profile page) and admin will arrange to make appropriate checks on the use of such accounts.
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Warming the Bed
Interesting thread this.
I have never done anything other than state I am a single guy (which I am). However, that brings with it another issue. Some people seem to imagine that being single means that you have nothing to do all day and are available at the drop of a hat.
Saying "I need some notice before arranging any meeting" etc. (as I do have a life and other non partner/non sexual commitments) can arouse suspicions that you are a married guy playing away from home.
Difficult one to get around, as how can you convince them otherwise? Best to say it up-front I feel but even then you are pretty much then put to the back of the queue, if not discounted under suspicion.
It's hard for us guys I guess and we should do all we can to be at other peoples beck and call, but sometimes that call is too much.
HO hum, that's life.
I have never done anything other than state I am a single guy (which I am). However, that brings with it another issue. Some people seem to imagine that being single means that you have nothing to do all day and are available at the drop of a hat.
Saying "I need some notice before arranging any meeting" etc. (as I do have a life and other non partner/non sexual commitments) can arouse suspicions that you are a married guy playing away from home.
Difficult one to get around, as how can you convince them otherwise? Best to say it up-front I feel but even then you are pretty much then put to the back of the queue, if not discounted under suspicion.
It's hard for us guys I guess and we should do all we can to be at other peoples beck and call, but sometimes that call is too much.
HO hum, that's life.
Forum Virgin
the tricky topic this 1! I find to not put no single guys on prof can actually help in this situation as they then see that they have no reason to hide if they are single!
However I (chloe) am on mostly weekends and J on during week mostly so people who dont know us think he is lying! Then tonight I was on cam for at least eight hours went to chill for 5 have a fag watch some porn and J came over to say hi to everyone! This twat then came in room and started abusing J for saying he is a couple! strewth didnt know I had to run my break time passed him first lol! In end I came back on and opened my own room he came in and after being v v v vocally abusive b4 to J he did not even look at my cam the only 1 in whole room that didnt even tho people were callin me chloe not J abd he did not say a word even if I directed a question at him! some people lol
My rule is simple I tell all friends if I want a single guy I will ask for 1 (even beg if I have to hehe) but you say you are a couple but just Mr or even just Mrs wants to play without partner then I must agree prior to meet and must have spoken to there partner to know all ok and to ensure that he/she not being lied to as to me thats not swinging its cheating!
However I (chloe) am on mostly weekends and J on during week mostly so people who dont know us think he is lying! Then tonight I was on cam for at least eight hours went to chill for 5 have a fag watch some porn and J came over to say hi to everyone! This twat then came in room and started abusing J for saying he is a couple! strewth didnt know I had to run my break time passed him first lol! In end I came back on and opened my own room he came in and after being v v v vocally abusive b4 to J he did not even look at my cam the only 1 in whole room that didnt even tho people were callin me chloe not J abd he did not say a word even if I directed a question at him! some people lol
My rule is simple I tell all friends if I want a single guy I will ask for 1 (even beg if I have to hehe) but you say you are a couple but just Mr or even just Mrs wants to play without partner then I must agree prior to meet and must have spoken to there partner to know all ok and to ensure that he/she not being lied to as to me thats not swinging its cheating!
Sexlightened
dont worry we know you are very real, we are always looking at profiles when talking to people and have caught a few out, the other week we were getting ready to go to a club when a couple asked if we would like to go round there house, i said i would ask c when she gets out the shower, just then another couple we would like to know came into the room, and the 1st couple whispers to them that i am a single pretending to be a couple, as the 2nd couple replied but forgot to whisper it to them, so when c got out the shower and was getting dressed up ready to go i put the cam on, being really pi---d off now just typed yes we are a real couple as you can see as you are both watching her get ready, dont think we will ever get to meet them now lol.
We, as a couple get it a lot - Nixy usually comes on on weekends - me, being a house husband do get some comments from newbies accusing me of being a single male.
Shoe on the other foot here tho - males are accused of being liars yet fems on here are not to my knowledge - this is obviously because the accusers are blinkered in modern day attitudes.
Sad really though I can understand. Having met couples and singles from the site makes us secure in the knowledge that couples who think otherwise about us are not worth meeting or even entertaining.
I come on daytimes and love a good chinwag without some berk trying to spoil it.
Shoe on the other foot here tho - males are accused of being liars yet fems on here are not to my knowledge - this is obviously because the accusers are blinkered in modern day attitudes.
Sad really though I can understand. Having met couples and singles from the site makes us secure in the knowledge that couples who think otherwise about us are not worth meeting or even entertaining.
I come on daytimes and love a good chinwag without some berk trying to spoil it.
