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There seems a growing trend from single guys in chatrooms who can make
the rude comments to ladies and means nothing to them,and chatroom
hosts seem to let it think its clever to say how good they are,not realising
its the a turn off to for a clamp down i think>What happen to chat room
ops,long time no see
its not just single guys who are rude, couples and single fems are too, one of the worst culprits i had being abusive to me was a single woman
best thing to do is to send in a suport ticket or report them via their profile although i find that even when i do that they are usually still around and being abusive sad
Quote by mr-mrs-jj
There seems a growing trend from single guys in chatrooms who can make
the rude comments to ladies and means nothing to them,and chatroom
hosts seem to let it think its clever to say how good they are,not realising
its the a turn off to for a clamp down i think>What happen to chat room
ops,long time no see

Did u check to see if any op's were on line dunno i'v been wandering in and out of rooms since , there was also 2 other op's online.
We cant be in all the rooms at once.
Quote by flower411

We cant be in all the rooms at once.

Everybody else can !!! .........:giggle:
Not now they cant flipa :flipa: smackbottom :lol2:
Quote by flower411

We cant be in all the rooms at once.

Everybody else can !!! .........:giggle:
Not now they cant flipa :flipa: smackbottom :lol2:
Yeah ....thought you might say that !!! Spose I ought to at least try the crappy new chat rooms lol
You know u love em :lol:
Quote by Bambi

We cant be in all the rooms at once.

Everybody else can !!! .........:giggle:
Not now they cant flipa :flipa: smackbottom :lol2:
Yeah ....thought you might say that !!! Spose I ought to at least try the crappy new chat rooms lol
You know u love em :lol:
When you get him in..............lock the doors :lol:
Dave_Notts
Quote by Dave__Notts

We cant be in all the rooms at once.

Everybody else can !!! .........:giggle:
Not now they cant flipa :flipa: smackbottom :lol2:
Yeah ....thought you might say that !!! Spose I ought to at least try the crappy new chat rooms lol
You know u love em :lol:
When you get him in..............lock the doors :lol:
Dave_Notts
Sod off Dave, i dont want him stuck in them with me :lol: :lol: :lol:
I'll keep him for an hour, then you can have him back :happy: :happy:
Thanks all who made comments,agreed chatroom ops cannot be in every room all the time,then we do not have enough of people who wish to be chatroom did volunteer once gort no we dropped the find that rooms have an owner are well you think a member has overstep the mark tell them,and if it continues inform admin they can look at the chatting to you all from us oldies,enjoy while you can
i have just had an example of rudness but its not something that would mean the person got banned or even told off lol but it makes chatrooms an unpleasent place for me to be
in a chat room i asked if anyone was going chams cus we might be going and would like to meet a bi male there
some guy asked if i joined in and when i said no, i watch my partner have fun and i only play with him .... i was told .... well y are u on a swinger site i cant see the point ....
then he went quick lol
not everyone on a swingers site has sex with others, some people such as me, like to watch their partners play and have fun, nothing wrong in that surely but i get so much abuse about it !!
he also called me a "plastic swinger"
such a nice man
such a shame that nothing can be done about him and others like him, they ruin it for the people who are pleasant and fun
Quote by Danne
such a shame that nothing can be done about him and others like him,

Take note of the room name,approx time and details of the abuse and either pm me or one of the other chat ops or even pm admin direct, and it will will be dealt with, I assure you.
Quote by john469
Does anyone else notice, that despite the complaints, there aren't really a lot of shitbags in the rooms, generally speaking?.

I have to agree, that 99% of the people we have spoke to in chat are always great to speak to and it is only the very occassional person who is rude. However, it is only the same as in real life, the majority of people you come into contact with are brilliant, it is just the odd one or two who deserve a kick up the bum wink
Quote by woohoo
such a shame that nothing can be done about him and others like him,

Take note of the room name,approx time and details of the abuse and either pm me or one of the other chat ops or even pm admin direct, and it will will be dealt with, I assure you.
i used to do that when people were far more rude than he was but it happens so frequently that i got fed up of doing it
and also although im sure someone does have a word with the culprit nothing more seems to be done and they are still around being horrible
i know they havnt been banned even when they have been extremly abusive because i check their profile
Quote by Danne
i know they havnt been banned even when they have been extremly abusive because i check their profile

I have been on this site for over 6 years now and I can assure you that people do get banned for being abusive.
Prehaps you can offer a suggestion as to what other action you would like to take when people are being abusive,because obviously you are not happy.
Prehaps a button on your profile that sets them on fire or brings a fist out of their pc and punches them wink
Quote by woohoo
i know they havnt been banned even when they have been extremly abusive because i check their profile

I have been on this site for over 6 years now and I can assure you that people do get banned for being abusive.
Prehaps you can offer a suggestion as to what other action you would like to take when people are being abusive,because obviously you are not happy.
Prehaps a button on your profile that sets them on fire or brings a fist out of their pc and punches them wink

maybe some people do get banned but when i check the profile of people who have been abusive to me then they are active still !
oh and i am happy, very happy ... sh is a very small part of my life so the abusive people dont have much effect on my life in general but i woild like to see them banned for a while lol