Things that piss you off in chat

sick to death of pressing into couples cams for there to be a single male if your not on together don't claim that you are .. So annoying !!!!! ????

Regarding the Standard Message thing, I was on Swing for a full year before I knew that clicking a 'like' button triggered the "I'd like to know more" mail.  I wouldn't knowingly send that message to anyone, but I had no idea that I have done, many times.  It would help if they let you know that

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Regarding the Standard Message thing, I was on Swing for a full year before I knew that clicking a 'like' button triggered the "I'd like to know more" mail.  I wouldn't knowingly send that message to anyone, but I had no idea that I have done, many times.  It would help if they let you know that

 Wait hang on !so if you click like on someone’s picture or profile it sends a standardised message ???That’s not right , as I have never messaged anyone like that and would never do so as I think it’s positively rude ! X

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Regarding the Standard Message thing, I was on Swing for a full year before I knew that clicking a 'like' button triggered the "I'd like to know more" mail.  I wouldn't knowingly send that message to anyone, but I had no idea that I have done, many times.  It would help if they let you know that

 Wait hang on !so if you click like on someone’s picture or profile it sends a standardised message ???That’s not right , as I have never messaged anyone like that and would never do so as I think it’s positively rude ! X

 Not here it doesn't. 

correction-it must have been a wink.  I hit wink in error a few days ago, and it can't be deleted so I sent a quick apology by mail.  after sending it, I noticed an automatic "i'd like to know' mail had been sent already

not so serious as very few people send winks I think

Thats worrying, Ive clicked like sometimes, even on knowing I wasnt who they were looking for, but just saying you liked their profile, liking something doesn't mean you're looking for more, come on Swinging heaven, stop causing possible problems

my thoughts exactly

Maybe that explains why I have been blocked for no apparent reason

What they said!  You get out what you put in. 

The site has definitly changed over the last 12 months or so.  There used to more ladies/ couple son cam , whereas now its more people just posting the same old photos .  I still like the site, but hope any new changes can persuade more ladies back to the site. 

Ive noticed a lot more fake profiles as well

Sad, losers who pm completely out of the blue offering money for a fuck.  To be fair it's all too often the same pathetic idiot and he's been reported to admin again.

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Ive noticed a lot more fake profiles as well

 Please report them, giving us a clue as to why you believe they're fake. 

People being friendly one minute, then the next time you go in room you get totally blanked, time to stop using chatroons

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People being friendly one minute, then the next time you go in room you get totally blanked, time to stop using chatroons

 I think we all get blanked at times, and I think we all inadvertently blank others occasionally. Sometimes, In conversation I only read what is written by the person/people I'm speaking with. So, I miss comments made by others and only see them if I read back later. It's not deliberate rudeness, it's simply a case of being focussed on an existing conversation/line of banter etc. Which is often due to having stuff going on in the real world as well as in chat.

Yes.

Also, depending on which of us is online we're sometimes chatting privately to several members at the same time so it's very easy to miss a message or two and is in no way being done out of rudeness. We do most of our chatting privately so often just don't pay attention to or see what's being posted in the main room.  Sometimes we're online but away from the computer and that's another reason why we might not see or reply to a message. Couples and females tend to get far more messages than guys so it can be a lot harder to keep up than it might appear.

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People being friendly one minute, then the next time you go in room you get totally blanked, time to stop using chatroons

 I get this all the time. Especially from 'couples'

As a new user, I have found it hard to start chats with people in the chat room it is not the most welcoming environment. Lots of good advice in here most of which is common sense, perhaps new users should be pointed to this forum before being released into the chatrooms.

Dislikes

1/

Folks complaining about all the different types of chat, but expects it should be just about sex ..

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Hi

3/

Yes i have read your profile, So are we still playing?

4/

when you say no thanks.

And they go why??

Cause i just said so is my reply 

"There was a guy used to come on here ages ago called Ice_Pie, but he was better looking".

"That was me you clown, I aged."

We could not agree with you more. There are some for whom the normal rules of courtesy are ignored. Two simple principles.

1-No means no.

2-No interest in X means just that.

N&T 

What pisses me off is there is no chat at all!

I agree, whilst the ability to put photos up in the chat rooms, can be fun, it seems to have decreased the little chat that happened to almost nothing now.

agree tinytimmy.  it seems to be the same people posting the same photos as well.   hardly any cples or ladies on cam these days wich os a shame

We are one of those couples who don't cam anymore. It doesn't seem to be as much fun as it used to. Also with so many more single guys able to access the site, I get inundated with PMs if I log on as the fem and then when I can't keep up with all conversations I get rude comments both privately and in the room because they accuse me of ignoring them.

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We are one of those couples who don't cam anymore. It doesn't seem to be as much fun as it used to. Also with so many more single guys able to access the site, I get inundated with PMs if I log on as the fem and then when I can't keep up with all conversations I get rude comments both privately and in the room because they accuse me of ignoring them.

 Exactly!  That's because they don't get pestered all the time with inane comments and a mailbox full of lazy 'hey how you doin?' one liners.  For those decent guys here who're willing to compile a proper profile, read/assimilate others and act accordingly, there are females/couples who will be interested but what they won't do is keep replying to a never ending stream of lazy 'fuck me kwik' nonsense.

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We are one of those couples who don't cam anymore. It doesn't seem to be as much fun as it used to. Also with so many more single guys able to access the site, I get inundated with PMs if I log on as the fem and then when I can't keep up with all conversations I get rude comments both privately and in the room because they accuse me of ignoring them.

 Exactly!  That's because they don't get pestered all the time with inane comments and a mailbox full of lazy 'hey how you doin?' one liners.  For those decent guys here who're willing to compile a proper profile, read/assimilate others and act accordingly, there are females/couples who will be interested but what they won't do is keep replying to a never ending stream of lazy 'fuck me kwik' nonsense.

 it’s so frustrating and tiresome receiving one line pms all the time ! Or worse dick pics right of the back with disrespectful comment about my body ! Getting so hacked off with it. So much so that we have removed our pics from site ! Guys out there ( who are the offenders ) word of wisdom ! I am not going to jump at your one liners , your dick pics or crude messages ! HUGE TURN OFF! 

'what you in to' - Just infuriates me and proves they haven't tried or read your profile.

Agree with 2 , single guys do what single guys do. If they send random cock pics or random wispers,so what , mrs f either laughs or thinks mmmm nice but ignore them. What pisses us off more is people who whilst in chat look at your profile then instantly block us from viewing their profile ..... WTF ......   what they scared of ..... being found out as FAKERS , cos that's what we think. So we block them back ...petty but quietly satisfying hahaha

People that never read our profile, and probably try to pm us, but if they had read it then they would have read our pms are permanently turned off , lol