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just wanted to say a big :thumbup: to all you chatroom mods. wow its been an experience going in there the last few nights :grin: how the hell do you keep up with it all!!
worship :worship: :worship: :worship:
although we are known in the forum, we are new to the chatroom & just want to thank you all for making us welcome kiss
flipa for the peeps who slag the chatrooms off rotflmao only kidding lol
You can came back again, anytime - nice peeps always welcome biggrin
can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:
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can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

Just to make us work for it ;)
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can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

It's to give you a sense of achievement when you find it - to make you feel 'special' wink lol
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can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

Just to make us work for it ;)
can tell you work hard hun in them servers you have to lol can see why peeps post chatroom stuff in the forum though now. At first I didn't know where to post until I pm'd a nice mod kiss
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can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

Just to make us work for it ;)
can tell you work hard hun in them servers you have to lol can see why peeps post chatroom stuff in the forum though now. At first I didn't know where to post until I pm'd a nice mod kiss
Obviously that wasn't Jon then :giggle:
:kiss:
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...... until I pm'd a nice mod kiss

:shock: You mean there is such a creature wink lol :lol:
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can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

Just to make us work for it ;)
can tell you work hard hun in them servers you have to lol can see why peeps post chatroom stuff in the forum though now. At first I didn't know where to post until I pm'd a nice mod kiss
Obviously that wasn't Jon then :giggle:
:kiss:
I resemble that remark :shock:
Bitch wink
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can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

Just to make us work for it ;)
can tell you work hard hun in them servers you have to lol can see why peeps post chatroom stuff in the forum though now. At first I didn't know where to post until I pm'd a nice mod kiss
Obviously that wasn't Jon then :giggle:
:kiss:
rotflmao :rotflmao: :rotflmao: :mrgreen:
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can I just ask why at the bottom of the forum we have 'forum', 'lets meet up' and 'dogging' dunno not the chatroom forum :dunno:

Just to make us work for it ;)
can tell you work hard hun in them servers you have to lol can see why peeps post chatroom stuff in the forum though now. At first I didn't know where to post until I pm'd a nice mod kiss
Obviously that wasn't Jon then :giggle:
:kiss:
u hunni :kiss:
my last word on this but the chatroom should be as important as the forum in a way as being on the bottom of each page as the forum, lets meet up, and doggers.
owners please have a think on this
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my last word on this but the chatroom should be as important as the forum in a way as being on the bottom of each page as the forum, lets meet up, and doggers.
owners please have a think on this

This forum was set up originally on a trial basis and then became permanent. They didn't put the link at the bottom because it was temporary whereas all the other forums have been there since the beginning. I think you'll agree their priorities are elsewhere at the moment, but I'm sure eventually they will put a link in.
Hope that helps.
Mal
cool
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my last word on this but the chatroom should be as important as the forum in a way as being on the bottom of each page as the forum, lets meet up, and doggers.
owners please have a think on this

This forum was set up originally on a trial basis and then became permanent. They didn't put the link at the bottom because it was temporary whereas all the other forums have been there since the beginning. I think you'll agree their priorities are elsewhere at the moment, but I'm sure eventually they will put a link in.
Hope that helps.
Mal
cool
thanks mal that was good of you to explain
:bounce: :bounce: :bounce: :bounce:
we got the chat link on folks
thank you
hi hisandhers,
was good to see you in the chat rooms last night, all of you :twisted:
its not to bad in there is it, and have to echo your words in saying big up to the ops in there. especially over the last few days, a lot of people off work with time on their hands and odd attitudes of late and they( the ops) have been working really hard to make the chat a happy place
good to see the chat has earned link status.
i understand that when the site started chat wasnt the "thing" but the site has grown and so has chat, lets hope the new chat is just as good.
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...especially over the last few days, a lot of people off work with time on their hands and odd attitudes of late ...
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I just want to emphasize this bit confused
Lots of people have commented on the attitudes of a proportion of chatters in the last few weeks or so. Yes we know there are problems with the site and it's frustrating-but the Admin team are working to make it a better place for us all. And we have to take into account that people have been off work, which may have caused unecessary excitement and 'high-spirits' for want of a better way of putting it (twatiness works mind rolleyes ). BUT there has been a marked increase in rudeness and general ignorance in the chatrooms of late-let's hope it's just temporary eh?
Myself and the rest of the Ops would ask that chatters who see something out of order that is not dealt with that you report it to one of us Ops, or a Mod if you can't find one of us. Logs are kept for 90 days and any abuse/acts against the AUP will be dealt with.
Ops show in purple on the main forum, Mods show in green.
Unfortunately we can't all be here all of the time and your help in this is appreciated. ;)
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...especially over the last few days, a lot of people off work with time on their hands and odd attitudes of late ...
xxxxxxxxxx fem xxxxxxxxx

I just want to emphasize this bit confused
Lots of people have commented on the attitudes of a proportion of chatters in the last few weeks or so. Yes we know there are problems with the site and it's frustrating-but the Admin team are working to make it a better place for us all. And we have to take into account that people have been off work, which may have caused unecessary excitement and 'high-spirits' for want of a better way of putting it (twatiness works mind rolleyes ). BUT there has been a marked increase in rudeness and general ignorance in the chatrooms of late-let's hope it's just temporary eh?
Myself and the rest of the Ops would ask that chatters who see something out of order that is not dealt with that you report it to one of us Ops, or a Mod if you can't find one of us. Logs are kept for 90 days and any abuse/acts against the AUP will be dealt with.
Ops show in purple on the main forum, Mods show in green.
Unfortunately we can't all be here all of the time and your help in this is appreciated. ;)
personally, I feel that each & everyone of us has a responsability in reporting any abuse- whether it was personally towards you or not. I pm'd some-one last night as I witnessed some abuse in the chatroom towards her- just to see if she was ok & whether she found it abusive?
We are all different & can take things the wrong way sometimes. redface
Yes I did last night as she replied & said that she knew this person so she was used to his 'playful abuse'.
So a lesson I learned last night is to ask the person first if you feel abuse is being directed towards someone - then report it
Lesson 2 - I've still got a lot to learn in the chatrooms surprisedops:
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personally, I feel that each & everyone of us has a responsability in reporting any abuse- whether it was personally towards you or not. I pm'd some-one last night as I witnessed some abuse in the chatroom towards her- just to see if she was ok & whether she found it abusive?
We are all different & can take things the wrong way sometimes. redface
Yes I did last night as she replied & said that she knew this person so she was used to his 'playful abuse'.
So a lesson I learned last night is to ask the person first if you feel abuse is being directed towards someone - then report it
Lesson 2 - I've still got a lot to learn in the chatrooms surprisedops:

More of this is what we need hisandhers :thumbup:
Ok, so maybe it wasn't what it looked like initially, but I think you did the right thing ;) Sometimes it's easy to get caught up with an arguement in the chatrooms which usually escalates matters. The time spent arguing could be more productively spent Pming the chatter/an Op to sort it out smile
We do have quite a few regular chatters who will let us know if something needs dealing with, big thanks to them biggrin It's not 'grassing people up' or 'naming and shaming' as it's very often the same people time and time again breaking the same rules. Any reports are handled confidentially in a private forum.
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test :!:

:eeek: :scared: i dont like supprise test is it easy hope its Multipul guess
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Whatever you did St3v3 it was good :thumbup: Site speed is really good here biggrin
(please don't let me jinx it)
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Nope - I got nothing st3v3. Rub the nibble three times and give it another try.