If I may venture an opinion without sounding extinct: We have always noticed that there is a direct link between cams and chat. If we don't show our cam no one chats. when we show our cam a lot of people chat and when Mrs T gets dressed to impress we cant stop people chatting.
The moral of the story is that no one chats if they aren't getting some form of kick from it.. apart from us sad regulars.
Yes it's an amazing phenomenon when I log on as mrj a few regulars say hello and speak, but as soon as Jools goes on cam bang it goes off. The other night we had 10 plus guys all whispering in fact we lost count.
So much so we gonna turn them off. But we both enjoy the banter and flirting that comes with whispers and yes the constant.
Fancy a shag comments. Lol
The other day in chat somebody said "people only talk to me because they want to shag me"quote]
MrsG gets put off in the chatrooms by the lovely chaps who think "nice tits" or something cruder is a good opening line for a chat, doesn't get them very far.
However, this is a swinging site and I would expect most people that try and talk to us have sex in the forefront of their mind.
And we've also noticed that you get a much higher level of interest if we pick the "MrsGerty" option when we log into chat, but again that's to be expected.
Personally I think that Other than socials and the regulars that enjoy the banter, a majority of people that use chatrooms have no intentions to sex .
Its merely free porn when they are horny...and forgotten soon after... A mere fantasy based on who they believe is at the end of the line or doing something .... ie wanking for a stranger. Whilst wife at work ( be that stranger male or female )
Lets be honest here whats the ratio of planned meets to actual turn up meets !!!! And how many people flirt in chat only to ignore each other at socials when reality hits ,,,,,
Meets for sex are usually made through messages ...
As an extra it is amusing to think someone is offended ..... Try POF. Everyone is definately after sex on there ;0) xxx
am i missing the point hers? Isn't the whole idea of this site to meet people for a shag? Ok, or other physical activity leading to spraying of bodily fluids if male and if female that or screaming so loud the neighbours come round to see if we need help!
Well... yeah but none of us are getting any younger. A chat and a nice cup of tea goes a long way some days 8p
