Secret Rendezvous - Sexy Swingers Social in Essex - Saturday

21 Aug 2013

We are hosting a fantastic social event on Saturday 12th October at a privately hired luxurious wine bar in Ingatestone, Essex.
The party starts at until 1am
This is an idea opportunity to party the night away in non pressured, relaxed party atmosphere with like-minded peeps. Perfect for those of you who love the social side of swinging, are new to the scene and want to make friends or just up for a fun night out !
We will be providing some delicious snacks and a DISCO too.
Dress code:
Ladies : sexy and sophisticated
Guys : No scruffy jeans or trainers
Dress to impress please !
We are expecting approximately 40 couples, 10 single ladies and 10 single guys.
Single guys MUST be verified, have face pics, are friendly, polite, professional and well dressed.
Contributions to the event are as follows :
Couples : £20
Single Guys : £30
Single Ladies : FREE
If you would like to join us then send us a message. Ladies you can speak to us on the phone to verify this is a genuine event please message us and we will give you our phone number.
The nearest hotel is the Travelodge at the Army and Navy Roundabout in Chelmsford.
If you would like to join us we would love to hear from you, it's going to be an amazing night !
Dee and Chris

21 Sep 2013

Hi there,
I know there are lots of people going from another site but who is going from SH? Would be nice to say hi when we get there!!
Mr and Mrs F

23 Sep 2013

Is this a Social or a Commercial Event?

13 Oct 2013

we had a really good night guys
it was a well organised fun night and you can definitely put us down for the next one.
people from 3 different sites attended so there was no clique this added to making the night a great success and so much more sociable
big lesson to be learnt by other event organisers there
again well done guys great night
Liza n Rob xx

15 Oct 2013

Quote by Lizaleanrob
we had a really good night guys
it was a well organised fun night and you can definitely put us down for the next one.
people from 3 different sites attended so there was no clique this added to making the night a great success and so much more sociable
big lesson to be learnt by other event organisers there
again well done guys great night
Liza n Rob xx

Hey guys glad you had a great time ..and I m sure this will grow and grow with more exposure Please let me know when next one is on
Just so you know that commercial events are easy to arrange through other sites but non fund raising socials are different my southend one was removed 3 times from elsewhere as admin didnt like fact it involved SH members and the SH eureaks social can only be promoted on sh as elsewhere have their own Eurekas sh organisers .. so many politics behind the scenes of these events you would nt believe !! lolxx
see you all soon xx

17 Oct 2013

Quote by gorgeously-yours
we had a really good night guys
it was a well organised fun night and you can definitely put us down for the next one.
people from 3 different sites attended so there was no clique this added to making the night a great success and so much more sociable
big lesson to be learnt by other event organisers there
again well done guys great night
Liza n Rob xx

Hey guys glad you had a great time ..and I m sure this will grow and grow with more exposure Please let me know when next one is on
Just so you know that commercial events are easy to arrange through other sites but non fund raising socials are different my southend one was removed 3 times from elsewhere as admin didnt like fact it involved SH members and the SH eureaks social can only be promoted on sh as elsewhere have their own Eurekas sh organisers .. so many politics behind the scenes of these events you would nt believe !! lolxx
see you all soon xx
nothing wrong with your socials Gorge always social and very well organised wink

some of the larger ones do seem to have a clique which is often complained about by those that do not frequent the pool, which we have witnessed a couple of years back at one of the bigger socials Ooop north
what was refreshing about this one and little like your Essex one Gorge, was the whole thing was very social. its a shame that socials can't be cross networked in this manner and i don't see why a social can,t be listed as a social and not as (insert swinging site here )Kent/essex social
I'm not sure that this was a commercial event as hiring the wine bar would have been a small fortune,but i think rendezvous would be better placed to answer that.
its bizarre that still after all this time the owners managers etc still can't sort out the politics that surrounds Eurekas which can only be detrimental to the club in the long run :doh:
anyway we do plan to support you at Eurekas gorge so let us know when the next one is
Liza n Rob xx

18 Oct 2013

The organisers might also want to familiarise themselves with the Equality Act 2010 in regard to the seemingly discriminatory entrance fee(contributions)scale.

13 Nov 2013

I dont know about equality act Dirty I have one price for all as do most socials but I think Commercial events have different rates for singles and couples . I ve been told its to keep the balance !!
Be interesting to know where that stands legally ... I may look it up out of interest thanks ...
Lizel thanks I plan to come to this next event but not happy to pay directly into a strangers bank account until last minute , xxx se ya there hopefully xx

16 Nov 2013

Quote by gorgeously-yours
I dont know about equality act Dirty I have one price for all as do most socials but I think Commercial events have different rates for singles and couples . I ve been told its to keep the balance !!
Be interesting to know where that stands legally ... I may look it up out of interest thanks ...
Lizel thanks I plan to come to this next event but not happy to pay directly into a strangers bank account until last minute , xxx se ya there hopefully xx

we'll be there so see you on the night, hopefully and all things being equal it should be as good as the last event our only concerns would be how near it is to Xmas