Why is it in most cases on SW the Single Male doesn't stand a chance. In a lot of cases we are like lepers, people keep well away.
Of course your lepers on here, your a single male, but don't blame the women or couples for treating you as such, blame your peers, the guys that pester people, that message without even reading profiles, that won't take no for an answer and even get abusive when they do get a polite "thanks but no thanks"
But that said your not in a minority, as a couple it takes us 3-4 months to get a meet, then most of them don't turn up.
That is life in the world of swing sites, but moaning about it is a big turn off for couples.
Patience is the only way it works, swinging is not a quick fix for a shag it is a lifestyle.