1st time wannabe doggers. Any such thing as a safe location?

2 Jul 2009

Evening folks.
A friend of mine txt me today & she asked me if I knew of any safe dogging locations around the Sussex area as she knows what my girlfriend & I are like boink

lol.
Now Dana, (my partner) & I haven't actually been dogging before, but I am now slightly curious about it, as is my friend & her fuckbuddy.
However, I've been reading the *WRANING* section & it quite frankly scares the living crap out of me :shock:
Do doggers go during daylight hours & find a secluded spot to have some fun, or is it mainly a night time activity?
I would hate for a potential 'first time dogger' to be put off in a way as is described in many a post in the WARNING section.
Any help or advice on secluded/safe dogging locations would be greatly received & many thanks for taking the time to read this post :thumbup:
R&D
xXx

3 Jul 2009

Hi R&D
Glad to see you both are willing to give dogging ago and don't be too put off with those stories in the warning section. As I being a regular dogger have only encounted 1 really bad experiance, apart from that its been good.
However I have noticed over the last year it is not so much dogging but meet ups and then move elsewere to play. rolleyes

The main reasons for this are Mr Plod coming in quite regular to dogging spots, :cry: that have been listed on the web (Yes some police officers do particpate in dogging when off duty).
Also you now get a lot of boy racers shouting abuse mad

like "Your all gay and bunch of fags". :x If only they stayed around they would see exactly what went on, and they would not be wanting to do handbrake turns anymore. :twisted:
With regards to dogging at night or day then I would say both are fun but day is a lot more risky cool

(Which I do like). I say risky as you have got normal everyday people to be aware of walking dogs, going out for walks etc. It can be limited to what you get upto in the car, but if you venture out into the woods then you can get up to quite a lot without being seen.
My advice would be first check out nature parks, wooded carparks, secluded car parks and country lanes that have parking places. Do all this during the day time so you dont get lost and can see potential play areas :shock:
(An example of this is I kept driving past a turn in regular on my night dogging and didn't think anything of it until I checked it out in the day, and wow what a place had some great fun quite regular till it got closed off. Moral to the story check everywhere at least 3 times) :shock: .
Also during the day get out of the car have a walk around looking for signs of sexual activity eg condoms / wrappers on the floor, tissues etc. wink

Walk in the woods so you know your way around (Not much fun calling in a rescue with your partner wearing sexy clothes) :wink:
To find a true dogger then just observe him and see what he does
i) Some stay in their cars however they will be looking at you quite frequently waiting for a signal
ii) Some get out have a smoke get back in then 5mins later back out have a smoke and just keep looking at you for a signal again
iii) Some will wonder past trying to have a look in to see if your doggers (Stockings and suspenders or sexy underwear does give some clues)
iv) Or you get the bush man as I call it. The one who pretends to be a moving tree using his surrounding to get close to the car.
If you both are unsure if they are doggers then just simply get out have a walk if you get people following you then most likely they are doggers.
I hope this has put your mind at ease and that you both do try a bit of dogging as it is good fun. :P :P :P
Anyway if you would like to know some places by you then I do know some around you. As I am just in Kent and do venture into Sussex. biggrin

Cheers
Mark

3 Jul 2009

The worst thing you can look forward to is being followed out of the site, they usually give up after a few miles.
Boy racers are only verbally threatening, getting out of the car means they are vulnerable: so they don't.
Since you only want to be watched, with maybe a join-in along the way, all YOU have to do is drive into a carpark (etc) and wait. At least you can have fun with each other if nobody shows themselves.
If it is daylight you REALLY have to watch-out for guys with cameras...REALLY !
Try parking alongside a hedge/bush, in a watched carpark they tend to have eyes in the middle.

5 Jul 2009

Nah theres not really any such thing as safe dogging, in a way its kinda the point. Just be as sensible about it as you would any other thing you do in life and you wont go far wrong.

8 Jul 2009

Thanks for all the advice folks. All taken on board. Happy dogging!!