A Question

15 Jun 2006

Hi all, This may be a bit of a cheek, I do not know?
But all the Northants dogging sites that I go to are full of boy racers and pushy blokes, you know the score. I have gone to a couple of the locations in the location section, but they are not active or closed by council.
I would be glad if you could tell me of any sites that r still active in the Northants/Mk area.
Am I being cheeky??? just need a bit of help.
Ta very much. wink

16 Jun 2006

yeah, sounds like those places have been all but abandoned, and are now "racer n waster" arenas..the bigger sites in our region are still very popular, and the problems you describe aren't yet much in evidence..as a reaction to some of the more enthusiastic and assumptous dogging that takes place there at weekends however, there has been a certain tactical withdrawal by some couples, from the bigger venues and into the smaller carparks..to a degree, we've done this too, and although the action is less frequent, due to the dispersal effect diluting it somewhat, it does happen..occassionally, (as discovered by the master) its as a result of an arranged meeting, sometimes by "exhibitionist" couples that had never heard of dogging, the rules, etiquette or associated problems (as discovered by us) and other times, by couples looking for something a little more subtle than forty fellas shouting "me first" through the window of a "show only" couple's car lol

i'd get the map out and go for a drive wink

...i don't think any particular places suddenly become alternative hotspots, but are more like little pockets of activity..we have been surprised at how many such places exist.."dogged" by just a handfull of regulars, with maybe a resident showcouple or two, supplimented by the odd courting couple that aren't particulary concearned as to wether their antics are overseen or overheard :lol: (i mean, doing it over the bonnet of the car ain't exactly being bashfull) :lol: lust overcomming self conciousness maybe :lol: ok, so there ain't an awful lot of gobbles to be had, but that suits us well, cause it ain't expected :wink: :lol:
for a time, we got a little fed up with being part of a scene that appeared, on the face of it, to be 80 percent, just a load of guys looking for sex, and women that equated being given loads of cock with desireability..having now discovered the alternatives, we see that there is something far more subtle, and far more in keeping with what we sought from "dogging"..the sex aspect is there too, but its not that queing at the table with the ole man shouting "next" scenario we became so acustomed to :lol: the sex at the unspoilt venues is still considered a bonus,an infrequent one at that.. not just the accepted "sack emptier" that many now seek from the game. think about it..a couple that venture out with the hope of bring life to the shared fantasy of the female partner having sex with a stranger in a dark carpark..is that gonna happen in a venue full of guys tugging at the doorhandles and shouting through the window "8 inches here mate"? :lol: naaaaa...mind you, doesn't OFTEN happen in the small places either, but i know it does :wink:
mind you, i know a fella that recruits blokes in the pub..gets his wife to chat a fella up by the bar, he'll take her out for a quick session in "her" motor, and the partner will have a little peep as he wanders past :lol: sounds like a better idea to me :lol: why am i telling you all this? redface

dunno really, but got myself all horny now thinking about it :cry:

16 Jun 2006

Good read there and a good bit of advice, that I shall be using down by me. I can agree with a lot of the things you have said. Nearly got attacked myself one time, and usually never go without a prior communication.
Thanx for that smile

16 Jun 2006

Think you should do some research and set up SH only venue in Northants lechatnoir ;-) only a certain amount of single non-pushy men ratio to the couples turning up.