Yes, it has been reached.
As is usual, I went to the local country park after work, a wander about and chip-noshing session, plus a look at what's what.
Nothing.
Went to the other car park, two girls eating macky-ds' and chatting.
Parked about them three guys just lurking and watching....so I did..(what the hell, maybe they knew something ?)
The girls, who I considered just that...two girls feeding their faces and chatting, drove out followed by the three cars who'd been watching them.
Has it reached this now, following ordinary peeps for a hope of a thrill ?
Maybe the followers were hoping for just one bite of a Big Mac :shock:
No, sorted.
The security guys do that...with cctv...
No money...won't get out of bed for less than a tenner an hour.
In any case, I haven't been out all week....nothing to watch...no normals anymore, too many guys driving about. Those sites that ain't got law doing the driving, that is.
No show couples, no respect and no behaviour either.
Laybys that had one or two cars doing them a year ago now have 8 or more, and the drivebys as well.
The "regular" doggers at many known sites now adopt an agressive attitude to the "new" guys...(why not, they've ruined many of them)
What used to be a quiet hobby is now a mainline spectator sport.
I had a guy come and talk to me on friday night...he suggested I move to another layby because there wasn't room for us all....I told him to go forth and multiply...I've been there (on and off) for over 10 years..
And its the same everywhere...
The sites that are "shared" with gays are getting to be bad...some new guys are quite homophobic...oh well, it'll either quiet down or die..
Oh, and if you don't like people just watching, go to a club...most doggers are stingy so they won't be in there !!
its the same everywhere in the uk jomo you just have to see the sport newspaper mate i was on a car park the other day this guy had got the info of the car park from a phone line advert in the sport he showed me the paper it was full of ring this no and get updates on dogging sites tonite etc etc i think it has killed it stone dead at most car parks now mate - pumapaul
we were dogged by a couple of guys whilst on a nice summer afternoon didn't know it was a dogging venue,its not openly advertised as one on any website i've seen,and my missus certainly wasn't dressed to thrill! these guys just lurked behind us,giving big cheesy grins whenever they thought they had been spotted by us,weird or what?.funny to us,but a little worrying to think that these blokes are persuing all and sundry into the saying that,daytime action isnt uncommon at our usual haunt.
Yeah....I've seen the pics....sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..
Thought since I ain't been ahhhttttttttttttt lots, I'd have a night out in the layby last night.
First time in, got fed up with the gang....went to another place, the gang arrived there.
Went further afield....empty.
Went back to the layby....waited....in drove a new motor...couple...bingo.
Wander past.....had a look...went back and said hello....guy intro'ed....said his rules "you can look, but the first guy to touch gets sorted"
My type of guy...tasty woman....the show was well underway when the bill showed...major league hassle...
This game is too well known now...
Gonna take up drink-driving, less chance of hassle.
yeah chris,your idea about private groups sounds fine in theory,and i know for a fact that this has happened in our area,but as far as we are concearned,the unknown element is a big part of the we do a show,or get involved,we dont really want the same crowd all the time,in the same way the guys dont always want to watch or play with the same old for whining,well we love it!its human nature,how many times do you go to customer care at your supermarket and compliment them on the good service you recieved?we take good behaviour for granted,and feel agrieved when things dont go as they should,therefore all the great nights we've had dont get a mention,but when a dogger oversteps the mark,oooh dear,where is that keyboard?...dont take the moans too seriously,the desire to go to those crap venues,full of those grungy ill mannered doggers is greater than the desire to stay at home,go to a club or visit a lap-dance joint,or,anything else for that matter,so things aint too bad are they?
I'm fairly new to dogging now and in the south west i have seen your problem, its like people just pull up and wait ... not for your interaction with them but to watch you.
Me personally, I am as bad as them I suppose. . .being new to dogging I want to watch for a bit until I get settled into the scene and feel comfortable.