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Yes, it has been reached.
As is usual, I went to the local country park after work, a wander about and chip-noshing session, plus a look at what's what.
Nothing.
Went to the other car park, two girls eating macky-ds' and chatting.
Parked about them three guys just lurking and watching....so I did..(what the hell, maybe they knew something ?)
The girls, who I considered just that...two girls feeding their faces and chatting, drove out followed by the three cars who'd been watching them.
Has it reached this now, following ordinary peeps for a hope of a thrill ?
Maybe the followers were hoping for just one bite of a Big Mac :shock:
ahhhh poor jomu could not spy on people all by himself , never mind try the ladies changing rooms at marks n sparks wink
No, sorted.
The security guys do that...with cctv...
theres your answer then jomu get a job as security guard at marks n sparks to get your thrills then wink
No money...won't get out of bed for less than a tenner an hour.
In any case, I haven't been out all week....nothing to watch...no normals anymore, too many guys driving about. Those sites that ain't got law doing the driving, that is.
No show couples, no respect and no behaviour either.
Laybys that had one or two cars doing them a year ago now have 8 or more, and the drivebys as well.
The "regular" doggers at many known sites now adopt an agressive attitude to the "new" guys...(why not, they've ruined many of them)
What used to be a quiet hobby is now a mainline spectator sport.
I had a guy come and talk to me on friday night...he suggested I move to another layby because there wasn't room for us all....I told him to go forth and multiply...I've been there (on and off) for over 10 years..
And its the same everywhere...
The sites that are "shared" with gays are getting to be bad...some new guys are quite homophobic...oh well, it'll either quiet down or die..
Oh, and if you don't like people just watching, go to a club...most doggers are stingy so they won't be in there !!
its the same everywhere in the uk jomo you just have to see the sport newspaper mate i was on a car park the other day this guy had got the info of the car park from a phone line advert in the sport he showed me the paper it was full of ring this no and get updates on dogging sites tonite etc etc i think it has killed it stone dead at most car parks now mate - pumapaul
Further to Jomu's observations, we have been dogged in broad daylight several times (see my very first post) while eating lunch in the car (not each other) and have been followed from one location to another too. We have had more rythmically moving lap-balanced newspapers next to us that salad sandwiches lol One day we got so fed up with the dogger in the blue car we gave up on lunch and went to the barn cafe, only to watch him cruising other picnikers(?) from the cafe window. Hard times eh? dunno
we were dogged by a couple of guys whilst on a nice summer afternoon didn't know it was a dogging venue,its not openly advertised as one on any website i've seen,and my missus certainly wasn't dressed to thrill! these guys just lurked behind us,giving big cheesy grins whenever they thought they had been spotted by us,weird or what?.funny to us,but a little worrying to think that these blokes are persuing all and sundry into the saying that,daytime action isnt uncommon at our usual haunt.
Quote by chrishants
Rather than just whingeing and moaning, why not make the effort to organise small groups of like minded singles and couples in your local area, who could organise hassle free meetings locally, and in time perhaps link up with similiar groups, in other parts of the country for fun and games further afield?
Chris

You've changed your tune Chris. Wasn't that long ago, you were moaning and whinging along with the rest of us rolleyes
As for organised groups, I don't think that would work well in reality. Word would soon get around one way or another and then you'd have the same problems over again.
Locally a small group in a secluded car park, very soon turned into a huge group of hopefull guys, when one or two of them started texting their mates telling them about the shows available evil
I don't mind a few guys watching us, but when the numbers were getting upwards of 20 it began getting out of hand mad
Besides which, if we were to arrange for groups of guys to come along and watch, that is not true dogging. Dogging by it's very nature is supposed to be an opportunistic pastime. There's always the hope of a show, but it's not guaranteed, which in turn is part of the excitement surely? It is for us anyway, not knowing if any guys will be out to see us etc wink
I'm sure once the cold dark nights are back, the casual doggers will gradually drop off and leave the nights to the likes us of :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne & Jon
Quote by jomu
Yes, it has been reached.
As is usual, I went to the local country park after work, a wander about and chip-noshing session, plus a look at what's what.
Nothing.
Went to the other car park, two girls eating macky-ds' and chatting.
Parked about them three guys just lurking and watching....so I did..(what the hell, maybe they knew something ?)
The girls, who I considered just that...two girls feeding their faces and chatting, drove out followed by the three cars who'd been watching them.
Has it reached this now, following ordinary peeps for a hope of a thrill ?

Awe :cry: Shame you werent closer to us Jomu........We'd restore your faith in Doggin wink
Yeah....I've seen the pics....sighhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh..
Thought since I ain't been ahhhttttttttttttt lots, I'd have a night out in the layby last night.
First time in, got fed up with the gang....went to another place, the gang arrived there.
Went further afield....empty.
Went back to the layby....waited....in drove a new motor...couple...bingo.
Wander past.....had a look...went back and said hello....guy intro'ed....said his rules "you can look, but the first guy to touch gets sorted"
My type of guy...tasty woman....the show was well underway when the bill showed...major league hassle...
This game is too well known now...
Gonna take up drink-driving, less chance of hassle.
yeah chris,your idea about private groups sounds fine in theory,and i know for a fact that this has happened in our area,but as far as we are concearned,the unknown element is a big part of the we do a show,or get involved,we dont really want the same crowd all the time,in the same way the guys dont always want to watch or play with the same old for whining,well we love it!its human nature,how many times do you go to customer care at your supermarket and compliment them on the good service you recieved?we take good behaviour for granted,and feel agrieved when things dont go as they should,therefore all the great nights we've had dont get a mention,but when a dogger oversteps the mark,oooh dear,where is that keyboard?...dont take the moans too seriously,the desire to go to those crap venues,full of those grungy ill mannered doggers is greater than the desire to stay at home,go to a club or visit a lap-dance joint,or,anything else for that matter,so things aint too bad are they?
I'm fairly new to dogging now and in the south west i have seen your problem, its like people just pull up and wait ... not for your interaction with them but to watch you.
Me personally, I am as bad as them I suppose. . .being new to dogging I want to watch for a bit until I get settled into the scene and feel comfortable.