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Am I to old ???????

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This is my first post and I am totally new to the whole concept of "Dogging".
I live in Bristol and have looked at the Bristol Downs area that is currently supposed to be used for this pleasent pastime - nice place.
My first and obvious question is, am I to old at the age of 55. I would appreciate honest answers before I make a fool of myself amongst the local Dogging comunity.
My second question, if I am not too old is it acceptable to be a lone male dogger.
Third and last question to those that live in my locality - is dogging only a late evening activity or does it also take place in the daytime?
Looking foward to any responces to any of these questions.
Best Regards to all.
Quote by Moonshine
This is my first post and I am totally new to the whole concept of "Dogging".
I live in Bristol and have looked at the Bristol Downs area that is currently supposed to be used for this pleasent pastime - nice place.
My first and obvious question is, am I to old at the age of 55. I would appreciate honest answers before I make a fool of myself amongst the local Dogging comunity.
My second question, if I am not too old is it acceptable to be a lone male dogger.
Third and last question to those that live in my locality - is dogging only a late evening activity or does it also take place in the daytime?
Looking foward to any responces to any of these questions.
Best Regards to all.

Hi Moonshine, welcome to the forum smile
I can't comment on the average age of doggers in your area, but certainly where we live, there are quite a number of guys who go dogging and are in their late 50's. Most of them seem to have just as much fun as the younger ones.
It is probably more acceptable to be a lone dogger. When multiple guys turn up in cars we and probably most people, would be very wary of them unless there had been an arranged meet etc.
I believe daytime dogging does happen but I for one would not engage in it for fear of being seen by Joe Public out for a stroll :shock:
Tracy-Jayne
if you feel ok about it then im sure it is fine with everyone else too mate good luck , whats age got to do with it anyway,
im sure peeps prefer the older guy watching them rather than the younger guy watching, who will probs tell all his mates the next day in the pub. ( no offence to the younger guys on here. some are ok. )
i prefer doing it in the day ( not that ive done a lot yet. lol ) you can see whos in the cars and whos around and if the police pull in. if someone does see you looking into a car, then it just looks as though you are talking to the couple ( as long as you havent got IT out. haha) and also if someone pulls in to the carpark, in the daytime, you can just go off for a walk. instead of being stranded in the dark in the middle of a carpark.
but of course everyone has diifferent opinions on this.
As an older dogger (no, I ain't as old as you, I've got a year to go yet) I find it makes no difference.
As long as I don't have to run !
People feel slightly less worried about an older guy wandering about the car.
Just a bit older and you'll be able to pull the "doddery old c*nt wandering about with dementia" routine, and get away with it. You're just about old enough to get away with asking for directions......
After all, we've got a guy here who pulls the "protecting the park from perverts" routine, it works wonders, all the couples aplogise after they clock him peering into the motor !!
Older gentlemen have a class and style that young men don't.
I'll take a lorry load of fifty somethings before I'd start with the twenty somethings... :twisted:
Hi all.
Thanks for your encouraging replys. I must admit that I was surprised at the fact that my age does not seem to matter - I fully expected that dogging was a playground for the younger person or couple. Looks like I may get to have some fun after all. lol
Would also be grateful if anyone local to Bristol could PM me with good locations in or around Bristol. (other than the one I know about on the Downs)
Thanks for all your replys - this really does look like a good Forum to be a member of.
Regards to all.
ps: If there is anyone (and as I'm str8 - I guess that would be females or willing couples)
in the Bristol locality,and would like to get in touch, then you could always drop me a PM.
Jomu's reply made me laugh.
A friend of mine once commented on having fun in his car with his wife to be near Gloucester (top of the hill, great views, you know the place)
Anyway he said his wife to be had a leg out of each window of his soft top MG Midget when he spotted an old fella watching in the bushes.
He called out "hello" to which the bloke starting babbling about UFO's and "their already here you know", before wondering off.
My friend just assumed he was a bit loopy....I assumed he was a rather well versed dogger, well prepared for getting caught with his "I'm loopy & harmless, just ignore me routine"
Anyone want to start some evening school classes for would be Doggers? lol
Hi billy-bigbollocks.
Yes, Jomu's reply was brilliant, he lives up to his name(a slave to his art), but I Also like your story.
"He called out "hello" to which the bloke starting babbling about UFO's and "their already here you know", before wondering off. "
I recon that your version was more likely - and definately one to remember for the future.
Incidentaly, even though I only live about 30 miles from Gloucester, I am so new to this game that I have no idea of the area you mentioned on a hill. Is this a dogging area or just one of a general sight seeing - or maybe both lol
Regards to you M8.
Hi osprey1.
Glad to hear you've got a good place up in your area. Still looking down here in Bristol.
I guess that being a newcomer to this scene it will take a while yet for me to find suitable areas.
Regards to all in your area.
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Older gentlemen have a class and style that young men don't.
I'll take a lorry load of fifty somethings before I'd start with the twenty somethings... :twisted:

Totally totally agree with you Heather......!!! :twisted: