Hi new to site and I'm wondering if Hertfordshire has a lively dogging scene. All the research I've done have shown me that Herts is a pretty subdued county sexually.
Is there anyone out there who can correct me or even introduce me to dogging?
We go doggin and don't have much luck. Standborough lakes is quite active but you have to put up with all the single males that seem to cruise the car parks.
whats wrong with lone males :shock: its dogging not swinging if you want couples then i think you should pre arrange meet not just turn up at a car park hope there is another couple
its all about being watched and possible invite mot meeting couples
Sorry didn't mean to offend. Just sometimes the single males that go up there are quite pushy, they tend not to wait 2 be invited. And even if your just sitting there chatting with someone they will appear at your side window and stand there starring at you. It spoils it for the rest of the single males that go up there.
thanks guys for the responses, are there any sites which are quieter than the ones everyone knows, pm me if you have any discreet places or even know of some
Well iam still looking for a decent place to have fun etc, as even as a single male i get put off by them all at the lakes! Been up there a few times and had them stalk up to me!
If you do find anything i owuld love to know!
Scott (adds in sig)
Don't worry about it, you were just defending yourself and your fellow doggers. Nothing wrong with that. If your ever over this way let us know we generally go out on a saturday night we might be able to arrange something.
I find the usual crowd quite well-mannered....if you tell them you're not playing, or just want one guy there. they'll move away....
If you don't tell them, they'll not know....
You obviously haven't meet the ones up the lakes then. You can tell them till your blue in the face. Theres one especially, he is really bad. I have seen him practically climb on the bonnet of a car to get a better look.