can any1 please give me active dogging locations in or around the walsall area ,or people get in touch who wud like to meet up for fun or be watched
Can you give me one good reason why they should?
If you read through the stickies at the top of the forum or even some of the threads on here you will see the some of the very good reasons why they shouldn't!
heard of pm or emailing me,i have read the info and are aware of the rules so wi shudnt i be told
thanks 4 the info,appriciate it,so thats wi i hav'nt been having many replies,i will just have to bo patient then and follow ur advice
take care
Walsallstud21
Sorry if you've taken this personally it wasn't meant to have a go at you. My question was serious!
You have no info on your profile. Nobody has a clue who you are. Your post doesn't give any detail just a request for info.
As NWC say you could be seen as compettition. (Although as people who know me will agree that's not an issue with me as I don't offten use "normal" sites)
You could also be a member of the press or the police or the chief honcho of the local council dogooders association or any one of a dozen other groups who are against people enjoying themselves.
Too much of late have these boards been filled with requests for information on dogging sites from people that have seen in the media that a free shag is available at a venue near them. They seem to have got the impression that all that they need to do is ask and they will be told the route to "Dogging Heaven"
The truth is that for some years now "Dogging Heaven" hasn't existed. In many places it never did, some got close and some got it almost bang on for a short period.
Then came the internet!
Many sites including this one allowed posting of locations on the forum and even put links to lists of supposed good sites. ( Some still do! The ones on here are almost all dead now by the way. )
Then the press got hold of it and when certain footballers got "caught" it hit the news big time.
Then came all the people who thought "there are a load of mugs out there that we can make cash from," who set up web sites with membership fees and high cost phone lines and all of the rest of it.
This in turn lead to the mentality that " I've paid for this information, the least I deserve is a shag out of it!", and the number of people using any published site grew out of all proportion. This causes problems with Joe Public as there then get to be litter problems, traffic problems, and sometimes public order issues.
All of the above brings us to the situation that we have today where to tell you of any good locations that we know of would be tantamount to killing them off. So many of them have been closed off in one way or another or become unuseable due to the number of drive round merchants that the ones that are left need to be protected.
Go out, find your own and put in some hours sitting in dark car parks etc and stay away from the crowded sites. You may find something, you may not. If you don't, stake out another one. By the time you've found "gold" you'll realise that you're not going to tell people like "you are now" about it either!
There is no substitute for putting in lots of hours and some effort getting yourself know, much as people have been sold the lie that there is!
Snerts
Can I add that to your credit you were honest about being a single guy!
There are a lot of people on here posing as couples in an attempt to get information, by tempting others to divulge locations hoping to get some female action there.
A quick check of a profile normally gives the game away.
Post says couple, profile single male:-
alarm bells.
Post says couple, profile says couple, only male pics:-
alarm bells.
No information on profile:-
alarm bells.
You seem to have taken NWC's earlier comments on board so maybe you will make it out there. Good luck!
no worries mate,thanks 4 the info,will all be taken on board and hopefully it way pay out in the end
take care mate
Once you get better known Walsallstud21 it will be easier for you and then you could maybe try and find a new dogging location. pm the couples who you think might want to trust you and meet you and take it from there.
We found a nice new quiet place the other night but as yet don't know if we will use it but if we can find one then I'm sure some other people can too, best of luck tho and welcome to SH
i might have to you cannt even spell my name right :twisted: