Any one out and about in beds or bucks tonght ( friday ) PM me. I am a single male of 42 and NOT pushy at all.
Friday and no one out, Must be to wet. Well looks like a good night by the TV for me again, Any one know what or where I can go for some fun please? :cry:
I feel that it is being single that no one wants to know, Why is this please?
I am non-pushy
clean
but single.
With respect Dick , perhaps the fact you describe dogging as your 'life' might suggest where the problem , and frankly lack of overall appeal stems from .
Just tryin to help.
Dogging is NOT my life and I never ment it to be so how that came over I dont know. to be honest with you all I dont fit in, and with that i would like to be deleted from this site please.
sorry IF I have upset any one
and with that good bye all x
For someone that claims not to be pushy, you're not really backing it up through the small amount of patience you obviously have.
Chill out my friend, take your time
Thats another one we've frightened off then!
Whos next :twisted:
your points are interesting, but might have been better addressed if they were on their own thread..why would anyone seek to frighten you off? the comment to which you refer was tongue in cheek, not threatningly confrontational..
many 'straight' guys will play with cross-dressers, true..
many will claim to be homophobic, true.
many 'faggot bashing" boy racers have sexual identity problems due to their age..sometimes the driver will suggest a night of bum bandit baiting, his mates won't really see the point, but if they don't agree enthusiastically, they might be seen as queers themselves..the driver, however, will be sexually intrequed, but possibly in denial of his feelings, which will often manifest as anger..its the "breaking the mirror" syndrome.
some people who have bi-leanings, actually resent those emotions, they think they must be sick, so seek to hurt gay men for spreading this plague.
some people with bi-leanings may hate facing those emotions, but put themselves into situations where those aspects of their sexuality are faced, like the mother watching video footage of their now dead child, endlessly in a self induced emotional torture.
if you suggest that you cannot enjoy sex with a woman, whilst enjoying your alternative persona, you are wrong..
some men will find it less traumatic having sex with a cross-dresser, and will resent any suggestion of being gay.
many straight men will struggle to come to terms with the visual stimulation a convincing cross-dresser can excite within them.
a higher percentage of men would be aroused at the thought of sex with a post op transexual, and talking about it in a macho envioronment would be emotionally less of an issue..
many straight guys, denied female company for a period of time, will have gay sex..its called institutionalised homosexuality..cross dressing in a "performance" context has always been popular in such situations.
some bi, or gay men, when coming out of the closet, will become quite confrontational against straight men, saying things like "ok, i'm bi..have you got a problem with that"?..which is often a reflection of their own emotions regarding the issue..they assume attack, so become very defensive..
Reminds me of the story of the Irish nymphomaniac who was devastated when she found out an 18 inch Murphy was a portable TV set !