I will be out in Blidworth tonight, won't mention where though. I'll be out as a male female cpl and would like to meet simular, otherwise i guess im just going to have to put on a show for you single guys again.
Will warn though... if anyone follows me tonight i will personally scare you back! Its horried and scary being chased and you will be punished!!!
Quite agree. Us single males have to understand that what the ladies want to do, and how much, is a matter for them. Its not for us to try to impose, let alone intimidate. Most of us are grateful that there are still some good sports around, who are prepared to share the fun. Turning up alone in a remote spot is quite intimidating for a single bloke. A single lady, or even one with her partner, has to have guts to take part in a pastime that, by definition, occurs in remote spots. The few who are badly behaved and inconsiderate are, as always, risking the fun of the majority by spooking the ladies and upsetting local residents with noise and debris left behind. If you're in that category, put up, shut up and clear up or stay outside the local offy!
Hi cant make tonight but would appreciate some advice via PM as to where to go this Friday and what to expect at Blidworth. It will be my first midlands dogging experiance as I normally visit locations in Kent.
PIcs in profile if anyone fancies meeting on Friday
Thanks
Colin
Single guys that think every couple that enters the car park are arriving for their pleasure has almost killed off dogging in North Kent.
Do they not realise that everyone has their own agenda when dogging, first timers, just like to tease, full sex etc. It is embarrising when you see a one eyed midget with zits and a strong smell of BO think that a gorgeous wife is going to fall at his feet just because they are in a car park. Guys should look in the mirror before leaving and think of the last time they showered, next they should consider woul;d I let my wife play with someone like me?
But most of all they should read comments from couples on forums and take note of what they are saying.
Hi there
Thought id ad my little bit to this thread.
When myself and my then g/f now very frighteined wife started going up to the same area as chaotic, we too experenced a maniac, we pulled into one off the carparks our last visit for the eveing there was no one there except for this guy in a pickup truck, we didnt give him any signals or come ons at all but as we started to leave the car park so did he with his lights on full beam he followed us not from a safe distance but more or less right in our boot i couldnt shake this guy off at all so we went the wrong way home to try and loose him but to no avail, anyway we slowed down at which he over took us we thought we was safe as he sped off, but no when we got to a set of traffc lights which were on gree for go he didnt move at this i started to get out of the car to go and have words as i opened the door and got my leg out, the guy in the truck engaged reverse gear and started to come at my car with speed (g/f still inside and sceaming and hysterical by now) i managed to get back in reverse out of his way and then quickly turned down a side road, where we lost him,.
A few nights later i was up at the same area alone when i spotted the guy in his truck luckily for me i was with a well known dogger whos a very handy chap if you no what i mean anyway we had a few quite words with the guy (he acctualy messed his trousers) and touch wood i havnt seen him up there since, but also neither have we seen my wife up there since as the whole experence has put her right off, which is a real shame, so now my weekly visits to any dogging site is alone. (and with full permission before anyone asks)
we have just moved to notts and have nearly got the corage to go to blidworth but havnt made it, we would love for a cpl or bifem to take us xx
Hi folks. Thanks for the responses and kind comments regarding my earlier humble contribution. I thought I was simply talking common sense but, then again, it seems that some, principally male, doggers lack a certain amount of that. It was not my intention to usurp Uncle Dirty (respect to someone who obviously commands respect from people who have been around a lot longer than me). Happy to give him a run for his money on occasions!! Finally, apologies to Chaotic Spirit, for the fact that her request for a meet got hijacked. It was the sensible comments of Stuartrossy that caused me to post, so blame him! Would have loved to see Chaotic entertain if I had been free. Perhaps another time ???!!!
I took my girlfriend to Blidworth - 3pm on Monday afternoon....... it was our first time dogging and although she was very keen to try... we thought 3pm on a Monday afternoon there may be just 1-2 folks around to put on a show for.
Anyway, we drove in to the car park, and there was just one other car at the other end. We started kissing (eager) and literally within 10 minutes (quite weird how it happened) there were at leat TEN cars there..... some kept moving aroun to get a better look.
The suddenness of it kind of spooked my girlfriend, and she found it exxtremely intimidating the way the guys were just staring at us intently and moving around the car park.
For a first time this was way too intimidating for her... she was just looking to show a little, possibly give a blow job through the window, but all these guys spooked her (and me if truth be known) so we waited in the car for nearly an hour to see if any would leave. During this time, we were just sat in the car chatting.... one guys got out his car and walked over just staring in teh car as we chatted... othere drove and parked alongside and stared..... My girlfiend was very uncomfortable, so we left.
Now this unfrotuantely bad experience for aour first time has raised a few questions which we would appreciate some feedback on!
1- Is this normal numbers there on an afternoon?
2 - How many couples actually go there on an evening?
3 - For a first time dogging, would we be better to look at a quiter venue?
4 - For a first time would it be better to actually place an ad and arrange to meet someone?
5 - did we just make a bad choice of venue?
Any other guidance would help.
My girlfriend is really keen to experince, but only really wants to play for 1-3 people - and preferably another couple or girl as well for company. we want to give it another go, but would just like to know whether this was just bad luck or bad choice of venue......
Any other comments / feedback appreciated either here or by PM....
Cheers
We never gave it a thought that there would be such a phone network!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We live and learn!
We last went there about 6 weeks ago and the whole experience put my gf off and we havent been since. Have been followed but not for long. however, watchers were at the window before we had stopped the car. dont you realise it is much better to be asked / invited the show is much better that way. what has it been like lately as we are eager to return.
It has been a bit slow down blidworth but if your are pleasent and don't hassle the couples down there you do get invited to play as well as watch.
If your a regular down blid you'll know me and the fact that most of the regulars or ok.
BUT there are the lets see how close we can park to the couple without hitting there car and the see how bright my light are that really piss the couples off then when they leave the follow in the convoy as if they think the couple don't know they are there.
A few couples that i have met down there now tend to ring or text and we meet up else where as some ppl can't take a hint, when they jump on a cpl even b4 they have applied the hand break.
Even hardened dogger are now getting fed up.
Come on guys summer is coming sort yourselves out.
Thanks everyone for their replies both here and by PM.........
We're giving it another try....... just considering new venue choices!
We cant agree more, we went on saturday night, its a fair drive for us. We have been before and we have met up with Nottswingers and had a great time. On saturday we had nothing but idiots crowding our car within minuites of arriving, we were followed from one area to another and we eventually gave up and drove home.
well, everyone will be lucky if i go down blid again!
i tell you something if i ever see a blue dodge van again, the bloke driving it will be in a critical condition.
i was up last friday doing a show and some cheeky sod decided to get his camera phone out and start fliming. and everyone wonders why i got got quickly dressed and drove off.
The worse bit is the other guys that were watching it never said a thing to this guy that ruined it was Derby they would be run off the scene to keep the site free of jerks and safe for everyone. You should never flim anyone without asking, It's just not acceptable. No wonder they are hardly any new cpls if we have complete idiots like this on the scene!!!
well i've just been chatting to a good mate who happens to be a regular down there. Apparently they are always down there and i'm not the first they have done that too.
Hopefully putting it on here will make people aware of whats happening and avoid the van, as it's very unqiue.
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sam's posts make sense 
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