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if you have locations ray and you want to send them to whome make sure you send them through a pm, oh bye the way :welcome: to s/h both of you. 
Hi whome & randy ray.
Being new to this ourselves all I can tell you is not to be impatient about getting involved. We have been on this forum for just about a month now and continue to trawl thru endless posts to gain information about what is and what is not acceptable when dogging and meeting with others, as well as what is acceptable in a post and what is not.
Myself and my partner are keen to go dogging, but as you both have probably read elsewhere on these pages, there are alot of unsavoury people around who would wish for nothing more than to make your first doging experience the worst possible for you.
Some of the well known areas for dogging have been frequented by so many unsavoury characters that it takes alot of time and patience now to attain the trust of those who may be willing to put on a show for those of us who may wish to watch and join in.
My best advice would be to keep reading these pages frequently, to post as often as you can, this then shows others that you are here to have a good time but also you are not just after a quick "fix", and that you can become known to others on here, as alot of the unsavoury characters who frequent dogging spots attain there information from sites such as these, thats why it is a big NO NO to post any location information on the forum pages, but send all location info via PM or email..
We plan to keep quite a low profile to start with to gain the trust of others, and this also gives us an opportunity to get to know who we can trust. Hopefully in a few months, when the warmer weather gets here too, we will be able to go out with confidence and enjoy ourselves to the full, which is what we want as do most others on here, just that you only need 1 idiot to spoil it for the rest of us.
Hope the above helps, like I say just be patient, read, post, and ultimately enjoy.
Being new to this ourselves all I can tell you is not to be impatient about getting involved. We have been on this forum for just about a month now and continue to trawl thru endless posts to gain information about what is and what is not acceptable when dogging and meeting with others, as well as what is acceptable in a post and what is not.
Myself and my partner are keen to go dogging, but as you both have probably read elsewhere on these pages, there are alot of unsavoury people around who would wish for nothing more than to make your first doging experience the worst possible for you.
Some of the well known areas for dogging have been frequented by so many unsavoury characters that it takes alot of time and patience now to attain the trust of those who may be willing to put on a show for those of us who may wish to watch and join in.
My best advice would be to keep reading these pages frequently, to post as often as you can, this then shows others that you are here to have a good time but also you are not just after a quick "fix", and that you can become known to others on here, as alot of the unsavoury characters who frequent dogging spots attain there information from sites such as these, thats why it is a big NO NO to post any location information on the forum pages, but send all location info via PM or email..
We plan to keep quite a low profile to start with to gain the trust of others, and this also gives us an opportunity to get to know who we can trust. Hopefully in a few months, when the warmer weather gets here too, we will be able to go out with confidence and enjoy ourselves to the full, which is what we want as do most others on here, just that you only need 1 idiot to spoil it for the rest of us.
Hope the above helps, like I say just be patient, read, post, and ultimately enjoy.
Sex God
Dont seem all that interested do they ? :-)
Warming the Bed
bournemouth has quite a few known dogging sites, maybe cause i tend to go out alone i do find its pretty unsociable for a single guy. im a little shy at first and dont think its right to box the doggers car in after racing down cause a fellow (clicky male dogger) has notified me there is a couple on the horizon and then surrounded theyre car before theyve even turned the engine off. I find my car gets circled and people stare though the windows (and im a guy on my own!!) christ knows how you gals and couples feel!
Some of the more quiet locations are probably better suited to a new comer if you have time on ur hands, personaly ive come to the conclusion arranged meets in non dogging locations are best and the quantity of genuine couple doggers in our area is alot less than anyone would like.
mike
A single 27 yr old attractive guy struggling to understand. (All advice appreciated)
Some of the more quiet locations are probably better suited to a new comer if you have time on ur hands, personaly ive come to the conclusion arranged meets in non dogging locations are best and the quantity of genuine couple doggers in our area is alot less than anyone would like.
mike
A single 27 yr old attractive guy struggling to understand. (All advice appreciated)
Sex God
Quote by mikey19782
the quantity of genuine couple doggers in our area is alot less than anyone would like.
mike
There may not be quantity but there sure is quality
:twisted: Tracy-Jayne
Warming the Bed
ah yes but are many genuine?? (not implying you are not) there hasnt been a flood of bournemouth doggers replying has there!! :welcome:
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Sex God
Quote by mikey19782
ah yes but are many genuine?? (not implying you are not) there hasnt been a flood of bournemouth doggers replying has there!! :welcome:
x
I was referring to your comments about couples . . .
As for the dogging guys, I don't suppose they're reading this because they're probably out either out dogging right now or not users of the forum/site
Most doggers we've met up with never use the net. They simply pop out to the local park and wait . . .
Tracy-Jayne
Warming the Bed
could you pm me some locations u recomend, i think i know most anyway but it would be nice to get some inside info ;)
mike x
mike x
Sex God
Hasnt anyone noticed he/she hasnt been back since the ONE post ? :-)
Sex God
Quote by Silk and Big G
Hasnt anyone noticed he/she hasnt been back since the ONE post ? :-)
Yup! Probably out dogging with the other non genuine doggers of Bournemouth
T-J
Warming the Bed
Quote by Silk and Big G
Hasnt anyone noticed he/she hasnt been back since the ONE post ? :-)
well spotted, must be a quality dogger
Sex God
Quote by RedHot
Hasnt anyone noticed he/she hasnt been back since the ONE post ? :-)
Yup! Probably out dogging with the other non genuine doggers of Bournemouth
T-J
LOL Hope youre right Red :-) , maybe im just a cynic , but if every 'couple' that posted similar messages once and then were never seen again were real then the doggers wouldnt have enough time to read em all cos theyd be out every night ;-)
Sex God
Quote by Silk and Big G
Hasnt anyone noticed he/she hasnt been back since the ONE post ? :-)
Yup! Probably out dogging with the other non genuine doggers of Bournemouth
T-J
LOL Hope youre right Red :-) , maybe im just a cynic , but if every 'couple' that posted similar messages once and then were never seen again were real then the doggers wouldnt have enough time to read em all cos theyd be out every night ;-)
I must be a cynic too then since I agree with you and considering the times Jon and I have been dogging over the last 18 months, we have only ever seen three other couples at local spots and one of those were only there eating chips and then left after chucking the rubbish out of the car window, one chatted to us and the other just sat in their car watching everyone else :roll:
We frequently get told that other couples are as rare as rocking horse shit, so unless I see another couple putting on a show with my own eyes, I will remain a cycnic
Tracy-Jayne
Sex God
Quote by whome
very rare for me to get comp to myself so can not be on as often as i would like
but am genuine
Not being funny Whome but why do you need the computer to yourself ?
hi hun ur from bournemouth im from poole so 10 mins away?
im new to this aswell and been looking to have my first experiance
do u drive? and ru going to be doing it on ur own? or got a partner?
could suggest somewhere where 4us to meet if u like just 4 a bit of fun?
up 2u?
could u tell me a bit about urself too?
u can find loads of info mation about me on my ad on swingheaven
AD have a look and let me know wot u think?
hope u like?
can u tell me abit about urself u can write me an email if its easyer
my emaill addy is on my add?
have u got any pics or anything as well
hope to hear from u soon lee x x x
im new to this aswell and been looking to have my first experiance
do u drive? and ru going to be doing it on ur own? or got a partner?
could suggest somewhere where 4us to meet if u like just 4 a bit of fun?
up 2u?
could u tell me a bit about urself too?
u can find loads of info mation about me on my ad on swingheaven
AD have a look and let me know wot u think?
hope u like?
can u tell me abit about urself u can write me an email if its easyer
my emaill addy is on my add?
have u got any pics or anything as well
hope to hear from u soon lee x x x
Sex God
I'm sure this last post would have been better in pm T-J
Warming the Bed
it would also be better if people werent so picky on here.... like being thrown to the lions anybody who dares post!! 
Sex God
Quote by mikey19782
it would also be better if people werent so picky on here.... like being thrown to the lions anybody who dares post!!
Scuse us for being picky who we meet and expose our private parts to! !
No one gets savaged unless they are dull chancers , or whiff of being frauds .
Sex God
Quote by Silk and Big G
it would also be better if people werent so picky on here.... like being thrown to the lions anybody who dares post!!
Scuse us for being picky who we meet and expose our private parts to! !
No one gets savaged unless they are dull chancers , or whiff of being frauds .
More than a whiff on the boards lately eh? Silky
Plenty of tossers who can't even string a sentence together and then get grumpy when we don't want to shag their brains out :roll:
Personally I prefer my guys to have a little going on up top as well as down below :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
Quote by RedHot
it would also be better if people werent so picky on here.... like being thrown to the lions anybody who dares post!!
Scuse us for being picky who we meet and expose our private parts to! !
No one gets savaged unless they are dull chancers , or whiff of being frauds .
More than a whiff on the boards lately eh? Silky
Plenty of tossers who can't even string a sentence together and then get grumpy when we don't want to shag their brains out :roll:
Personally I prefer my guys to have a little going on up top as well as down below :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
You haven't developed standards have you.
:( :( That's me fresh out of luck.....again
:wink: 
Sex God
Quote by mikedrive
Personally I prefer my guys to have a little going on up top as well as down below :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
You haven't developed standards have you.
:( :( That's me fresh out of luck.....again
:wink:what DO you mean, developed standards? :shock:
I've always had standards, but they're so low anyway, you should be in with a chance
:twisted: T-J
Quote by RedHot
Personally I prefer my guys to have a little going on up top as well as down below :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
You haven't developed standards have you.
:( :( That's me fresh out of luck.....again
:wink:what DO you mean, developed standards? :shock:
I've always had standards, but they're so low anyway, you should be in with a chance
:twisted: T-J
Never been with a girl that has standards before :doh: :doh:
Warming the Bed
Quote by Silk and Big G
it would also be better if people werent so picky on here.... like being thrown to the lions anybody who dares post!!
Scuse us for being picky who we meet and expose our private parts to! !
No one gets savaged unless they are dull chancers , or whiff of being frauds .
is anyone asking you to expose yourself on this post?? no, i think most people are after friendly (yes friendly) advice thats all. Im sure this forum is full of frauds but im sure there is plenty of genuine and in most cases anxious people including males! I do not know you to be genuine or ungenuine just like you do not me!! everybody is entitled to an opinion but not everybody deserves attitude! :twisted:
Warming the Bed
Quote by RedHot
it would also be better if people werent so picky on here.... like being thrown to the lions anybody who dares post!!
Scuse us for being picky who we meet and expose our private parts to! !
No one gets savaged unless they are dull chancers , or whiff of being frauds .
More than a whiff on the boards lately eh? Silky
Plenty of tossers who can't even string a sentence together and then get grumpy when we don't want to shag their brains out :roll:
Personally I prefer my guys to have a little going on up top as well as down below :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
I believe i am educated enough to string a sentence together with only a few spelling mistakes every now and then... and yes ultimately i am looking to meet educated, patient and NICE people for meets (maybe im expecting too much!!)but nobody insinuated that anyone did or didnt want to shag YOUR brains out.
Sex God
Quote by mikey19782
it would also be better if people werent so picky on here.... like being thrown to the lions anybody who dares post!!
Scuse us for being picky who we meet and expose our private parts to! !
No one gets savaged unless they are dull chancers , or whiff of being frauds .
More than a whiff on the boards lately eh? Silky
Plenty of tossers who can't even string a sentence together and then get grumpy when we don't want to shag their brains out :roll:
Personally I prefer my guys to have a little going on up top as well as down below :twisted:
Tracy-Jayne
I believe i am educated enough to string a sentence together with only a few spelling mistakes every now and then... and yes ultimately i am looking to meet educated, patient and NICE people for meets (maybe im expecting too much!!)but nobody insinuated that anyone did or didnt want to shag YOUR brains out.
Mikey have you noticed that this supposed couple who started this thread are no where to be seen?
They start a thread about dogging and when we smell the distince whiff of BS, you decided to stand their corner for them, which is why you were quoted above :roll:
Your quote suggested we are all too picky so what do you suggest we do hmm? Grab every local member who posts in the style of Whome asking for a quick shag and let them have one? :shock:
If you read the original thread through correctly, you will see that Silk & Big G are suggesting the original poster of the thread was a sad chancer, with a little more than a whiff of BS going on.
It seems you have taken it to mean the comments were directed at you because you said we are all too picky :roll:
Like you, we all hope to meet with nice people who can hold a conversation as well as shag our brains out metaphorically speaking, but unlike you, we don't defend the tossers who post
Tracy-Jayne
