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Warming the Bed
Wish id loggede in last night, 
Well.....not going to say too much so that I'm in trouble with the moderators. But I had two replies to my ads and my post that could be considered genuine although both were impractical due to distance and a large number replies from gayi men asking if my male partner would be present! What on earth has happened to this site?
I always believed that swinging was sexual frolics between heterosexual adults whilst the same sort of activity with gay sex was called cruising. Is this site converting to cater for the BiGayTV scene now as the quantity of same sex traffic now seems to outweigh the straight on this site. Don't get me wrong, I believe that it should be each to their own, I simply question the direction this swinging site seems to be taking.
I always believed that swinging was sexual frolics between heterosexual adults whilst the same sort of activity with gay sex was called cruising. Is this site converting to cater for the BiGayTV scene now as the quantity of same sex traffic now seems to outweigh the straight on this site. Don't get me wrong, I believe that it should be each to their own, I simply question the direction this swinging site seems to be taking.
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Well.....not going to say too much so that I'm in trouble with the moderators. But I had two replies to my ads and my post that could be considered genuine although both were impractical due to distance and a large number replies from gayi men asking if my male partner would be present! What on earth has happened to this site?
I always believed that swinging was sexual frolics between heterosexual adults whilst the same sort of activity with gay sex was called cruising. Is this site converting to cater for the BiGayTV scene now as the quantity of same sex traffic now seems to outweigh the straight on this site. Don't get me wrong, I believe that it should be each to their own, I simply question the direction this swinging site seems to be taking.
Personally, I believe that this kind of post, and your profile text is very sad - on so many levels for this kind of site.
Whereas we however think that your point of view is fair and reasonable. Your life, your choice, your wish. The only thing we question is what is the bi or gay person doing on a swinging site if they are looking for gay sex? Why not go on a gay site? We can no more help our feelings about gay sex than you can help your desires for other men. That is why we frequent a swingers site, not a gay site. However since this has become a "pay" site the number of gays on here, particularly gay men, has increased by a huge margin. If you don't think that is so simply watch the Photo Ads during the day, the proportion of gay ads can reach around 80%! We also find it somewhat distasteful that a considerable number of the gay males on this site think it quite acceptable to try to proposition males who have declared themselves straight. Are you suggesting that you condone someone making unwelcome sexual advances? That is the reason our profile says what it does and this still does not prevent males trying to proposition for gay sex!
Quote by dippergt750
The only thing we question is what is the bi or gay person doing on a swinging site if they are looking for gay sex? Why not go on a gay site?
I am a male that is bi-curious about females and gay sites do not allow for that type of exploration. Also, I find a lot of the guys that frequent 'gay sites' un-attractive as many of them are affected by the whole big, gay, 'I am' kinda thing. I don't like that. And yes, I agree, this site has become overrun with gay men pretending to be bi and bi men pretending to be straight in the last 18 months
(see below)Quote by dippergt750
We also find it somewhat distasteful that a considerable number of the gay males on this site think it quite acceptable to try to proposition males who have declared themselves straight. Are you suggesting that you condone someone making unwelcome sexual advances?
No, of course I don't - interestingly enough, about 90% of the males that have hit on me (and that I've met from here) have had 'straight' on their profiles and when I've questioned them as to why, apparently it's because it 'puts some couples off' so I guess, based on your posts they are right. They are obviously just keeping their options open
I'm sure other gay and bi men on here will have had similar experiences
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That is the reason our profile says what it does and this still does not prevent males trying to proposition for gay sex!
And yet you have no issue with female gay sex? It just seemed totally hypocritcal to me as I tend to favour a world where the lines are less blatant and labels less easily applied.
Good luck to you though and I'm not trying to damn you - an intelligent debate is much better than some of the crap you quite often hear on here.
PS: I have a handsome, hung, STRAIGHT mate in Hove if you want his number
Funnily enough....although I can sometimes be bi (obviously I'm the female half), watching lesbian sex leaves me stone cold and interestingly my partner (obviously the male) is unusually also quite disinterested. It's just the way some are built I guess. But as you say, there are now huge numbers of gay men on what was, once, a swingers site and a lot of them can be errr....lets be honest, somewhat devious. The gay women seem to be much rarer and much more straightforward.
I just wish that the two could be seperated so that couples with genuine straight men would not be pestered. Also, some of the bi men who masquerade as straight are playing a dangerous game I would have thought.
Whilst we both feel that gays and bi's of both sexes have every right to their own sexuality, We don't believe they should "cruise" hetrosexual swingers.
I just wish that the two could be seperated so that couples with genuine straight men would not be pestered. Also, some of the bi men who masquerade as straight are playing a dangerous game I would have thought.
Whilst we both feel that gays and bi's of both sexes have every right to their own sexuality, We don't believe they should "cruise" hetrosexual swingers.
Warming the Bed
im working in brighton at mo if u get any time in day could meet up for sum fun would like tha please get in contact i could bring u to my work sat morning at we could have fun at my work very open and risky and exciting xxx
Warming the Bed
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We're all individuals and different from each other. Things would go a lot better if we had a little more consideration. Those who like prowling in outdoor places where sex goes on are bound to have different sexualities: sraight, bi, gay, TV etc. Short of the whole business being entirely open with notices on the car park entrances saying "Sraights only" "Gays only" or "Bisexuals only" (which isn't going to happen) I can see no way of dividing everyone into their seperate sexualities.
Write about a good dogging place or cruising place on the web and it soon gets plagued by boy racers, stone throwers and then police. Finally it gets deserted by everyone because of the trouble or closed down.
Strikes me that the population's sexuality is changing. Males in straight relationships are no longer so terrified of admitting their bisexuality, though some still dishonestly advertise as straight.
I still don't understand why straight couples will reply negatively to me when I suggest meeting up for some straight dogging in which I will have no contact with the male half, by saying they won't meet me because I admit to being bi. In fact I'm bi, in a long term relationship with a gay guy and therefore pussy-starved. I'm aching for some good cunnilingus but can I get it? "No thanks. We don't play with bis".
As for propositioning men who claim to be straight, I don't. There's plenty of gay and bi men around for that and I've got rather tired of cock.
Write about a good dogging place or cruising place on the web and it soon gets plagued by boy racers, stone throwers and then police. Finally it gets deserted by everyone because of the trouble or closed down.
Strikes me that the population's sexuality is changing. Males in straight relationships are no longer so terrified of admitting their bisexuality, though some still dishonestly advertise as straight.
I still don't understand why straight couples will reply negatively to me when I suggest meeting up for some straight dogging in which I will have no contact with the male half, by saying they won't meet me because I admit to being bi. In fact I'm bi, in a long term relationship with a gay guy and therefore pussy-starved. I'm aching for some good cunnilingus but can I get it? "No thanks. We don't play with bis".
As for propositioning men who claim to be straight, I don't. There's plenty of gay and bi men around for that and I've got rather tired of cock.
We're all individuals and different from each other. Things would go a lot better if we had a little more consideration. Those who like prowling in outdoor places where sex goes on are bound to have different sexualities: sraight, bi, gay, TV etc. Short of the whole business being entirely open with notices on the car park entrances saying "Sraights only" "Gays only" or "Bisexuals only" (which isn't going to happen) I can see no way of dividing everyone into their seperate sexualities.
Write about a good dogging place or cruising place on the web and it soon gets plagued by boy racers, stone throwers and then police. Finally it gets deserted by everyone because of the trouble or closed down.
Strikes me that the population's sexuality is changing. Males in straight relationships are no longer so terrified of admitting their bisexuality, though some still dishonestly advertise as straight.
I still don't understand why straight couples will reply negatively to me when I suggest meeting up for some straight dogging in which I will have no contact with the male half, by saying they won't meet me because I admit to being bi. In fact I'm bi, in a long term relationship with a gay guy and therefore pussy-starved. I'm aching for some good cunnilingus but can I get it? "No thanks. We don't play with bis".
As for propositioning men who claim to be straight, I don't. There's plenty of gay and bi men around for that and I've got rather tired of cock.
Write about a good dogging place or cruising place on the web and it soon gets plagued by boy racers, stone throwers and then police. Finally it gets deserted by everyone because of the trouble or closed down.
Strikes me that the population's sexuality is changing. Males in straight relationships are no longer so terrified of admitting their bisexuality, though some still dishonestly advertise as straight.
I still don't understand why straight couples will reply negatively to me when I suggest meeting up for some straight dogging in which I will have no contact with the male half, by saying they won't meet me because I admit to being bi. In fact I'm bi, in a long term relationship with a gay guy and therefore pussy-starved. I'm aching for some good cunnilingus but can I get it? "No thanks. We don't play with bis".
As for propositioning men who claim to be straight, I don't. There's plenty of gay and bi men around for that and I've got rather tired of cock.
The reason "straight" couples won't play with you is simply that a big proportion of gayi males WILL "go for a grope" if they get the chance. If a couple go dogging, then they accept that risk, but if they are on a swingers site looking for agreed meets, then they do have an expectation to correspond with straight men. If otherwise they could visit a gayi site.
We were simply saying that THIS SITE, not the world, not the dogging scene, not society has had a huge change of emphasis and is now drowning in a sea of gayi sex.
We do however think that you are a little optimistic thinking that society in general has changed......a change in attitude allowing many to "come out" makes the gay scene more visible, not particularly more prevalent.
We both find same sex meetings between males "off" (and we are being very polite here) we do not however deny their right to act as they please, we simply do not wish to be involved. However it is the tendency of the gay male to attempt to "convince" straights, but if a gay was lectured about heterosexual behavior they would take exception. Why is that?
Simply put this female wants some heavy sex with some straight men....I believe that is our right of choice....while this male partner is present, without being accosted. This is something that is getting increasingly difficult on this site and that is all we moaned about. As this is not the forum for this type of discussion the matter would probably be best let drop.
We were simply saying that THIS SITE, not the world, not the dogging scene, not society has had a huge change of emphasis and is now drowning in a sea of gayi sex.
We do however think that you are a little optimistic thinking that society in general has changed......a change in attitude allowing many to "come out" makes the gay scene more visible, not particularly more prevalent.
We both find same sex meetings between males "off" (and we are being very polite here) we do not however deny their right to act as they please, we simply do not wish to be involved. However it is the tendency of the gay male to attempt to "convince" straights, but if a gay was lectured about heterosexual behavior they would take exception. Why is that?
Simply put this female wants some heavy sex with some straight men....I believe that is our right of choice....while this male partner is present, without being accosted. This is something that is getting increasingly difficult on this site and that is all we moaned about. As this is not the forum for this type of discussion the matter would probably be best let drop.
Sex God
Quote by dippergt750
The reason "straight" couples won't play with you is simply that a big proportion of gayi males WILL "go for a grope" if they get the chance.
Im sorry to say it but that is the biggest load of bollox I have ever read! That is like saying that every straight male will automatically go for a grope if they get the chance. Maybe you should stop going out, as a single male will probably take it as a opportunity to grope you
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I still don't understand why straight couples will reply negatively to me when I suggest meeting up for some straight dogging in which I will have no contact with the male half, by saying they won't meet me because I admit to being bi.
No, I dont know why either. We would meet a guy who was bi, even though Mr NWC is 100% straight. As long as everyone knows each others boundaries and likes and dislikes, then there is no problem. For me, it is the narrow minded people who presume to know what someone will or wont do, that spoil dogging and swinging.
Naughty Wigan Couple wrote:
Im sorry to say it but that is the biggest load of bollox I have ever read! That is like saying that every straight male will automatically go for a grope if they get the chance. Maybe you should stop going out, as a single male will probably take it as a opportunity to grope you
We thank naught Wigan Couple for their thoughts, which, as moderators they are entitled to express without fear of reprisal, I wonder what would happen if we mouthed off quite that hard! To drop the "we" and to write simply as the female half of the couple, I have watched quite a few bi and gay men that have engineered a meet with us try to "come on" to my partner and all the meets came from this site. Add to that, every time we advertise we get inundated with replies from bi men. I am sure that up north you lead charmed lives but down here (and on this site) the bigay men seem to have the "power" and we simply stated that we do not wish to get involved.
Why not moderate and lock this thread instead of adding your quite inflammatory twopennyworth!
Im sorry to say it but that is the biggest load of bollox I have ever read! That is like saying that every straight male will automatically go for a grope if they get the chance. Maybe you should stop going out, as a single male will probably take it as a opportunity to grope you
We thank naught Wigan Couple for their thoughts, which, as moderators they are entitled to express without fear of reprisal, I wonder what would happen if we mouthed off quite that hard! To drop the "we" and to write simply as the female half of the couple, I have watched quite a few bi and gay men that have engineered a meet with us try to "come on" to my partner and all the meets came from this site. Add to that, every time we advertise we get inundated with replies from bi men. I am sure that up north you lead charmed lives but down here (and on this site) the bigay men seem to have the "power" and we simply stated that we do not wish to get involved.
Why not moderate and lock this thread instead of adding your quite inflammatory twopennyworth!
Sex God
I am also a site member as well as a moderator, and like you, I am entitled to my opinions. I have not been personal towards you, so please dont be personal towards me. Please dont tell me what to do and my post is within the site AUP. If it wasnt, then I would also be liable to the same treatment as you or any other site member - a ban from the site.
As for mouthing off, well you have done that in a number of your previous posts on this thread.
As for mouthing off, well you have done that in a number of your previous posts on this thread.
Sex God
Surely NWC can make a comment as a member and not as a moderator
Moderators and first and foremost members and their posts should not be viewed in a different light to those of other members....
The post made by NWC was not inflamatory but was a simple expression of opinion which was within the boundries of the AUP so to speak of posting without fear of reprisal is rubbish really....
As for bi/gay men engineering meets to come on to your partner.....Perhaps they just like him ;-)
Moderators and first and foremost members and their posts should not be viewed in a different light to those of other members....
The post made by NWC was not inflamatory but was a simple expression of opinion which was within the boundries of the AUP so to speak of posting without fear of reprisal is rubbish really....
As for bi/gay men engineering meets to come on to your partner.....Perhaps they just like him ;-)
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I have watched quite a few bi and gay men that have engineered a meet with us try to "come on" to my partner and all the meets came from this site
More the fool you for entertaining them after the first time then - if something repulsed me that much I'd NEVER go back for a second try. The pain really isn't worth the prize sometimes.
If it's that bad a place and not giving you what you want (and your posts make it seem so) then why not leave?
To be honest, from a reverse psychology perspective, you're fixation/obsession with man-2-man action (or not as the case may be) makes me think you're terrifed of losing your hubby to a guy - or pehaps you have doubts already?
Oh for Gods sake! We don't want to get involved with gays....that is our choice....Whatever you do is your bloody choice, and yes as a woman it makes me sick and it upsets my partner when he has to fight off unwanted attentions.
It is exactly the "we do what we want how dare you bad mouth us!" attitude of the gays that makes us wonder what they want on a swingers site.
When we go out we make this perfectly clear and have little trouble as on a dogging site a "pushy gay" gets sorted quite quickly by the other doggers so it's usually no problem.
Unfortunately, those who have gay or bi tendancies seem to think that if we disagree with their viewpoint then we are in the wrong....well to hell with you!
Now will the moderators do the sensible thing and lock this thread before it gets really bloody silly!
It is exactly the "we do what we want how dare you bad mouth us!" attitude of the gays that makes us wonder what they want on a swingers site.
When we go out we make this perfectly clear and have little trouble as on a dogging site a "pushy gay" gets sorted quite quickly by the other doggers so it's usually no problem.
Unfortunately, those who have gay or bi tendancies seem to think that if we disagree with their viewpoint then we are in the wrong....well to hell with you!
Now will the moderators do the sensible thing and lock this thread before it gets really bloody silly!
Sex God
Quote by dippergt750
When we go out we make this perfectly clear and have little trouble as on a dogging site a "pushy gay" gets sorted quite quickly by the other doggers so it's usually no problem.
Looks like your bigoted ,narrow minded views are shared by others then
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Now will the moderators do the sensible thing and lock this thread before it gets really bloody silly!
Its too late to avoid that :roll:
Well until they do lock this thread, it's worth a post just to allow you to keep trying to have the last word.
But my friend look up the word bigot.
We are not bigots when we say WE do not want to become involved with gays HOWEVER what they do is their business as long as they leave us out of it.
But at least we don't hide behind an empty profile!!!!!!!!
Now you can try and post the last word again.
But my friend look up the word bigot.
We are not bigots when we say WE do not want to become involved with gays HOWEVER what they do is their business as long as they leave us out of it.
But at least we don't hide behind an empty profile!!!!!!!!
Now you can try and post the last word again.
Sex God
Quote by dippergt750
Now you can try and post the last word again.
Ok, if you insist, I will have the last word. I also took the time to look up the word bigot.
bigot
n : a prejudiced person who is intolerant of any opinions differing from his own,
or
big·ot (bgt)
n.
One who is strongly partial to one's own group, religion, race, or politics and is intolerant of those who differ.
You may also find this word is of use to you (not that I am saying you are this word, but if the cap fits)
ho·mo·pho·bi·a (hm-fb-)
n.
1. Fear of or contempt for lesbians and gay men.
2. Behavior based on such a feeling
