went to well known dogging spots last night, brighton area, not only are couples getting scarcer and scarcer but fellow doggers are getting unfriendlier (i know there are always one). Do some doggers actualy think they own these carparks and in answer to the guy in the punto, no, i,m not fucking stupid.
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Sexlightened
Dont worry Trebor, the guy you are refering to, and his companion, have inhabited the corner of one of the car parks for a long time now, I mean for atleast two years and most evenings of the week.......they usually go home at about 2 am.. They think they own the place and that no one else should be there. Unfortuneately the couples have also been put off by these guys and there predatory manner. A show is not really good enough for them either, they ......they are really only hands on types. Frankly I am surprised the police who are frequent visitors have not moved them on one way or another !!!!
I am glad i,m not alone on this, although i would like to add its rare. I was suprised they,ve been dogging there for that long, i,ve dogged on and off for about the same period and never really noticed them, although i travel a lot thats why my pro says as i was based there with work when joining this site. Anyway i will be avoiding them and thanks for the info.
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I can't believe what I am reading on this thread.
I to go up the and have been doing off and on for over 5 years.... there are guys around up there who have been going up there for over 20 years so I am a novice. Unfriendly!!!! I have never found it so. I have spoken to a few of the other regular doggers up there recently and it does seem as though it has died a death up there due to all the new people turning up. I have noticed it myself, they drive in and out of the car parks with lights on full beam (see other threads on here about main beamers) irrespective as to whether there are any different cars in the car park..... They park next to every car they see that close you can't open the door, open their windows so they can listen to conversations, all round they are very rude and aggravating.
As far as the two guys mentioned, I think I know who they are and as far as I have seen they park up in one spot and wait for action, whats offensive about that?
I was talking to one of the regulars up there who also mentioned that the latest trick of these...well idiots, is to sit in the first car park and follow every car that drives on the , very subtle I think not and if a couple should turn up they follow them around in convoy from car park to car park.
I agree nobody has a divine right to any car park and any action but lets get it right there are some absolute raving idiots turning up who have read about dogging in the papers and think every car and every couple are a show and I would guess that some of the comments on here are from those self same people. As far as the threats on here are concerned 'be warned' thats laughable because as I have said there are guys up there who have been going up for a very long time so you never know who knows who up there.
I to go up the and have been doing off and on for over 5 years.... there are guys around up there who have been going up there for over 20 years so I am a novice. Unfriendly!!!! I have never found it so. I have spoken to a few of the other regular doggers up there recently and it does seem as though it has died a death up there due to all the new people turning up. I have noticed it myself, they drive in and out of the car parks with lights on full beam (see other threads on here about main beamers) irrespective as to whether there are any different cars in the car park..... They park next to every car they see that close you can't open the door, open their windows so they can listen to conversations, all round they are very rude and aggravating.
As far as the two guys mentioned, I think I know who they are and as far as I have seen they park up in one spot and wait for action, whats offensive about that?
I was talking to one of the regulars up there who also mentioned that the latest trick of these...well idiots, is to sit in the first car park and follow every car that drives on the , very subtle I think not and if a couple should turn up they follow them around in convoy from car park to car park.
I agree nobody has a divine right to any car park and any action but lets get it right there are some absolute raving idiots turning up who have read about dogging in the papers and think every car and every couple are a show and I would guess that some of the comments on here are from those self same people. As far as the threats on here are concerned 'be warned' thats laughable because as I have said there are guys up there who have been going up for a very long time so you never know who knows who up there.
I agree with the last comments. I have been a regular for the last 4 years and know the two doggers mentioned. They the most friendliest and welcoming blokes you could ever meet. They introduced me to numerous couples and are polite. Due to recent publicity about dogging, and the local newspaper articule about "daylight / nightime sexual activites" at the , you now have every bloke in town frequenting the . These "newbies" have no idea about the ettiquettes or respect for the couples, they drive straight up to any car with two occupants with full beam and even sometimes walk straight up to the window. This obviously has annoyed couples and about 99% have stayed away. The countless drive - ins and wheel spinning to follow any couple driving away is annoying and frustrating for regular doggers like myself. I have on numerous occasions had to tell guys to get lost at the , because they have driven into the car park about 10 times with full beam in a 5 minute period.(YES IT'S TRUE). This not only put off potential couples but it also attracts the boy racer's and PC plod. On another occasion, I was sat at the with a female friend having a cigarette, when this guy parked up next to my car in an empty carpark, he then walked straight over to my car and stuck his face at the window. I politely told him to go away that nothing was happening. He then asked "are you sure you wont shag her, because I would?", to which I got out of the car and ******* him. Now you wonder why we get fustrated with people who have no respect or bother to familarize themselves with dogging rules.
i must admit that peoples lack of basic manners is becoming a bit of a problem. 
whatever about folk having some fun, ever since the press has focused on something as unintimidating as dogging it seems to have brought some "real" freaks out of the woodwork. i dont get why a bunch of lads smoking and talking hang around a park late at night hoping for a show (which is now almost guaranteed not to happen at the sight of them) and then if some poor couple do give it a go they are surrounded not even by ppl into what theyre doing but just a bunch of loud mouthed lads that really havent got a clue. 
:x :x as for aggressive behaviour, to those who are aggressive and are reading this, ever wonder why most people avoid you? why you always seem to be on the receiving end of everyones dislikes? why plod has you catagorised and listed? GET HELP !!! counselling, knitting, obsessive masterbation whatever it takes.
whatever about folk having some fun, ever since the press has focused on something as unintimidating as dogging it seems to have brought some "real" freaks out of the woodwork. i dont get why a bunch of lads smoking and talking hang around a park late at night hoping for a show (which is now almost guaranteed not to happen at the sight of them) and then if some poor couple do give it a go they are surrounded not even by ppl into what theyre doing but just a bunch of loud mouthed lads that really havent got a clue. :x :x as for aggressive behaviour, to those who are aggressive and are reading this, ever wonder why most people avoid you? why you always seem to be on the receiving end of everyones dislikes? why plod has you catagorised and listed? GET HELP !!! counselling, knitting, obsessive masterbation whatever it takes. 
Sex God
Me and KcKat are newbies as far as dogging as a couple goes (without my truck), 
ops: so I'm talking by car here.
I'd really appreciate it if some of you experienced dogs would PM her or me with info on where we can go safely in Sussex. is my home turf but we've never played there (Yet, he hee). :grin: :grin:
Thanks for any help.
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ops: so I'm talking by car here.I'd really appreciate it if some of you experienced dogs would PM her or me with info on where we can go safely in Sussex. is my home turf but we've never played there (Yet, he hee). :grin: :grin:
Thanks for any help.
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I live just over the from Brighton. Been meaning to go up and have a look round to see what I can experience, but I've got to admit this post has put me off somewhat. Really dont want to go up in the middle of the night for a bit of fun and get any hassle. Any advice or any (better) local locations etc would be appreciated. Have been posting/lurking here for a while but still a complete newbie.
Deano.
Deano.
weve been upto the a few times and being new to this we were not realy sure what to expect and the thing we found most annoying was that as soon as we had parked up we were nigh on boxed in and like someone else mentioned they park so close its bloody annoying , do the people waiting expect couples to turn up and be literally ready for any action within a matter of minutes just because they've been sat there for hours and had time to think naughty thoughts, we feel they could be a little more subtle and at least give people a chance to chill out for a while after having to drive there and not just dive in thinking they've cracked it because as your there you must be game for anything.
