hi
went out last night,, rach dressed in very little,, parked up in the car park,,,,
been there no more than 3 mins and were completely surrounded by blokes,,we had done nothing other than light a ciggy and pour rach a glass of wine,,
drivers window was slightly open,so we sat and listened to the mutterings and whispers..feck me shes fit .,, love to do that,,,, look at the tits on that ,,,and so on an on and on and on lol
20 mins later guy knocks on window!! says u up for it then ?? up for what alan asks ,,well ur parked here u must be here for a reason says the guy...alan says parked here for a ciggy and a drink m8,, matey says ok we will wait,,, alan says for wot ?? matey says .,, well she looks like she could be a good fuck,,
slightly taken aback at the remark alan says ,,id like u to leave now ,,
just walk away m8,
matey says why ?? cos i said says alan,,free country says matey ,alans outta the car like a bullet outta a gun ,,3 blokes scarper into bushes ,, another 2 just slope off,, matey stands his ground and says ,, look m8 i was first on the car and,im not lettin anyone else beat me to it,,if shes playin im havin her!!!!!!
with this alan gets in car and off we go,,eventually we find a lovely cpl and fun was had by all...
moral of story ?? no idea really , but guys, cpls need some respect,, no wonder this is a dying game being taken underground again,
alan rach xxx a very disilusioned alan rach xxxxxxxxxx
ive said it before and ill say it again the internet has killed this game. some people think its just an instant shag when a couple arrive on a carpark. bring back the good old days.
Sorry to hear of your experience last night blokes like that are giving dogging a bad name especially us single blokes. Glad to hear that you found fun in the end and I just wish blokes that are like that stop dogging altogether or have some respect for couples.
oh my word..where's the thrill in such a brazen approach as that...can't see what the guys would've got from it and totally understand how the bubble could've burst altogether on your plans for the night...glad you moved around and got the mood back elsewhere....personally I'm very new to dogging but for me the thrill would be the build up and anticipation, are the couple going to get upto anything, if so when's the right time to appraoch the car...to soon and it may ruin it (as proved so blatantly by the above tosser) but leave it to late and they'll think we're not interested...so a subtle judgmnt call is needed and prob one that comes when the seats are down and heads start moving about in the car...and when my cock twitches and needes adjustment....lol....hopefully these fools are to lazy to move much and merely migrate from spot to spot for monthly periods in each and thus just temp ruin a spot whilst they're there?
lets hope the respectful ones like myself keep this thril active though eh.
Was at that place about a week ago and although, yes there was activity going on, I was not comfortable as a single male so I can and do appreciate how it was for you two. There seems to be far too many main beam morons wandering in and out to start with. I was over in the Wigan area (no other details) on Friday night and where I was parked was quite active as well, A motorcyclist was there and was "on" a car by himself. Even though I was parked about 20yds away and couldn't see anything I was approached by the guy who said "they want you to move off, they're not comfortable with you parking here". My response was to say it's no problem at all and complied with what he asked. I take the view that next time that car is about the occupants may recall mine and feel a bit more comfortable, or the m/cyclist may have the same view. If you're new on the scene it must be best to gain a rep of being ok.
Incidentally I'm looking for safe areas in my locality because the areas on the locations part of this site for the WA postcodes are all dead or finished with, anyone pm me some?
Hi A&R
There are a number of arrogant and pushy guys out there.
They should drive back to the red light districts where they used to frequent before they discovered dogging. Not that I am encouraging anyone to do anything illegal.
I am the opposite to these guys - I always wait for a clear indication of an invite before making a move.
I guess I may miss out on some good genuine opportinities beacause of this but I would rather be like this than be pushy and ruin the experience for everyone.
Maybe locations where this happens should be highlighted on SH so genuine people are aware of which areas are frequented by these morons. This way they will sit there for hours with nothing to play with but they own gear stick :-)
There are plenty of other locations - I know loads that are suitable but not used because I do not want to publish them on here as they will just be visited by this type of nutter.
I am in Warrington so anyone that wants to know suitable NW spots should PM me, so I can check you out first.
Pleased to hear that things worked out ok in the end A&R.
Be safe all & have fun (in frequently .. so to speak :-) )
Andy
Well maybe some of the couples who have posted views on this thread want to reduce the odds of meeting a moron. It shouldn't retract from the "unknown" element or the spontaniety of things by sending a pm to someone who has expressed their views also to say - - - We MAY be at this place at that time and giving you an opportunity to be around.
Yes you did recognise naked self interest there, hoping I may get such a message (ha ha ha)
I can now believe why us single guys are having such a rough ride with idiots like that around.
I used to go out dogging a lot and had a break and just arranged meets instead.
Recently I thought I'd give the old haunts a try again and could not believe wot I saw.
Couples being followed by not 1, not 2, but as many as up to 5 cars.
Guys driving around purposely lighting up cars with there headlights on full beam to see if there were couples inside.
Do these idiots really think that a couple is just going to park up and shag any one who gets there first and KNOCKS on window.
I honestly couldnt beleive what i was seeing, no wonder couples won't meet single guys with tossers like that around.
A disheartened dogger
TFL
Well firstly can I say how disappointed I am in these tossers, I am a single guy who has been going dogging now for quite sometime unfortunately because of people like this all sinle guys get bad names. I was at pitsford in northants the other Saturday with a mate of mine who has never been dogging a male friend and just for those of you who are wondering he isn't bi, but we just sat there for a while when this guy came up and shoved his cock in the window, taken aback somewhat when asked what he thought he was doing he said he was sorry and thought we were a couple like that made everything alright, so I can fully understand how you feel Alan and Rachel I'm glad you found your fun elsewhere and I hope everybody realises that just because I drive a white van and read the sun I am not a tosser and always on the look out for couples that want non pushy relaxed fun. Also if anyone knows of any lively spots in Northants where these arseholes don't hang out please mail me with details.
Yes it has got really bad, we were out in thetford lat week and a very similar thjing happened to us. the good lady was dressed instockings etc and before we could put the handbrake on the car was covered with guys . We went home , but on the way we stopped at a layby to find avery satisfied lorry driver !!
hiya
glad to here its not just us having problems,,,,its ok organising outdoor meets but as far as were concerned that takes away the spontanaity of the event,,, but being sensible think thats the only road to go down,,,
idiot .. hubbys a lorry driver and says no bugger ever pulls up in his layby apart from blokes flashin there todgers lol
alan rach xxxxxxxxx
I was there on Sat from about 10 till 3!! boy it was busy! I know you had a good social meet with your buddies befor you moved off, I spent about 3hrs chatting to a couple befor they left, I was lucky to read this as a "follow us" sign!
That way we dropped the other guys who had formed a "gathering". 20 mins later I was fucking a beautiful woman over the bonet of her Porche!! No realy!!...well it is Cheshire!!
Good things come to doggers who have both the balls to open a conversation with a couple, but also the manners to show respect!
You catch more flies with honey than you do with vinegar....as my old nan used to say!
Did she do alot of dogging then ?
Probably not, but she sure got the results she wanted!
not on at all that guy sounds mad and should if he has an account on here be blocked for a while.
hi to you both .... all i can do is say sorry on behalf of all the single blokes who do the dogging scene .. if the guy is a member on s/h i hope he has read your post and seen the reaction of members and realise what a pr**k he is being behaving like that .i dont know if you do single guys ..if you do, i hope it not put you off .