Bury | Swinging Heaven

14 Jan 2007

I was told that to find a good place to go dogging is not to ask but to seek find for myself, is this true?
If thats the case i know quite a few secluded areas and i suspect that i would know where to look too. The main question is whats the best time to go? Im not really for waiting around in the pitch black in a car on my own getting a little nervouse and scared redface

But for anyone who is finding trouble for 'Decent' areas around Bury (Greater Manchester) i do know one place that i have used quite a lot in the past, not really seen cars or people around but i would be willing to PM geniune people the area, you got to have atleast 500 posts before i will PM you because i've noticed alot of people join post once or twice and never again (suspected police or press).

14 Jan 2007

Quote by Puntoben1986
But for anyone who is finding trouble for 'Decent' areas around Bury (Greater Manchester) i do know one place that i have used quite a lot in the past, not really seen cars or people around but i would be willing to PM geniune people the area, you got to have atleast 500 posts before i will PM you because i've noticed alot of people join post once or twice and never again (suspected police or press).

But you only have 5 posts Ben, you could be a honeytrap lol

:lol:
Anyway, to answer the question, yes looking for yourself is often better than waiting and waiting for someone else to tell you about a spot - they may not want the competition and send you somewhere that they don't really see cars or people around :lol: wink

14 Jan 2007

Quote by Serendipity
you only have 5 posts Ben, you could be a honeytrap :lol:

evryone is too their own opinion because of my "5 post status" i come to realise that the more posts you hav the more trust you get. Im understandable with this, but personlly i wouldnt pay on here so that i could just f**k about. If i wanted to do that i would just go on AOL chat and "Hey 21/m/manchester dick on cam 121 me or msn" bullshit.
Savve'
wink

14 Jan 2007

It’s not just the number of posts…. It’s the content of posts, the joining in, the image of you that is built up over time, the overall time you have been a member, the repartee, the trust, the recommendation from others, the effort put in…. Shall I go on……?
What I am trying to say is… walk before you run, or you will fall on your face (and you will find it difficult to get up again)!
Ohhh, one other thing, putting in the time and effort, i.e waiting around at dogging locations, is all part of the learning process, if your not prepared to invest time and effort don’t expect rewards to come flooding in!

14 Jan 2007

Quote by Puntoben1986
you only have 5 posts Ben, you could be a honeytrap :lol:

evryone is too their own opinion because of my "5 post status" i come to realise that the more posts you hav the more trust you get. Im understandable with this, but personlly i wouldnt pay on here so that i could just f**k about. If i wanted to do that i would just go on AOL chat and "Hey 21/m/manchester dick on cam 121 me or msn" bullshit.
Savve'
wink

:lol: :lol: :lol:
More than 500 posts = more trusthworthy - your opinion m'dear, not mine!!!
Savvy?
:wink:

14 Jan 2007

If there is no one there it is not a dogging site???

14 Jan 2007

It isn't the amount of posts, although anyone being too questioning with a few posts is regarded as suspicious, it's to do with the attitude as well.

14 Jan 2007

Quote by Puntoben1986
Im not really for waiting around in the pitch black in a car on my own getting a little nervouse and scared

I dont mean to be rude, but if you are not willing to put in the effort, then perhaps dogging is not for you. If it is a guaranteed shag you are after, you have more chance if you arrange a 'Swinging' meet, go to a Swingers Club, or even go out round town (none of these have any quarantees, but they are normally more successful than dogging)

Quote by jomu
It isn't the amount of posts, although anyone being too questioning with a few posts is regarded as suspicious, it's to do with the attitude as well.

True, and could someone with less than 10 posts, whether they have paid £50 or not, can they be trusted dunno

Puntoben, I have no doubt that you are trying to be sensible in who you give out these details to, but number of posts has nothing to do with anyone being sensible, trustworth, genuine etc etc etc.
This is an instance were quality rather than quantity comes in. I could have done 500+ posts of complete and utter bollox (ok, I have done 500+ posts of complete and utter bollox) lol

The posts could have been all one liners, just saying something along the lines of 'meet me tonight' but it doesnt mean I ever got a meet. Does that make me genuine?
Now think about the guy who logs on fairly regularly, he may have only done a relatively small number of posts but those posts show he has put in a bit of effort, they have been helpful and he has shown that he is willing to get off his arse and find places, rather than relying on someone to tell him where to go.
Personally, I know which I would choose wink

But on the other hand, Wigan isn't that far from Bury, so if you are offering details of a new location ........................ my PM box is below :lol:

14 Jan 2007

I have been looking at the threads this guy has been posting and hey frog & naughty wigan I concur with everything you have both said.......you have to start at the bottom & work yourself "lol" up to achieve something positive & rewarding thats what it's all about, otherwise nothing ventured.........nothing gained!
mrs clint lol

14 Jan 2007

Wigan, now thats somewhere i havent been in a long time! The last time i went their was when i left my mobile on the 540 bus from Bolton (before i could drive) and had to travel to the depot. Oh and when i got on the wrong train from Mancehster thinking it stopped at Daisy Hill but just went straight too Wigan.
I agree with what you say Clint Northwood about earning the trust and and gaining the rewards etc. The reason i asked for 500+ posts was that i would of thought that you would of been regular people and not just some Chav scout boy racer for perving or causing a nuisance.
I think i agree more in your perspective about that they could all be 'one liners', didn't really think of that tbh. smile

Dirtyduo the reason i mentioned not being many things around etc is the fact that i've noticed that a lot of dogging areas are now press 'owned' or 'boy racer spots', and thought i would of been a good area so to speak; like a new area.
Thanks for your Posts and concerns realting to the matter anway.
Oh and Sernity, Savvy' is my word haha i stole it from Captain Jack Sparrow :P

15 Jan 2007

I'm off to a carpark now, in bury their is only about 10 but im just gonna go for a drive to them get a feel for waiting around then start for proper places. not worried about my car being broken into alreday happmed 3 times haha. and ive once also had a knife put to my neck so that they could have my car luckyly someone dorve on to the caraprk and they dusted. rolleyes

15 Jan 2007

Quote by Puntoben1986
Oh and Sernity, Savvy' is my word haha i stole it from Captain Jack Sparrow :P

Oh I know

And as punishment for pilfering from Captain Jack you should be forced to sit in the car, in the dark dressed like him from now on - if that doesn't get you any car park attention I don't know what will lol

:lol:

Quote by Mrs Wiggy
This is an instance were quality rather than quantity comes in. I could have done 500+ posts of complete and utter bollox (ok, I have done 500+ posts of complete and utter bollox) :lol:

Nooooooo it's not true!!
Ok it is :lol:

15 Jan 2007

You just gave me an idea :idea: :idea: :idea:
This friday me and my friends are dressing up round Bury or Manchester (unsure which area) i was originally going to dress as a fireman but Jack Sparrow now thats another thing arrh :twisted:

17 Jan 2007

Does anyone know any area serached round last night either it was just dead or their isnt any places in Bury. i was up and about at xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx. but i dont know if people go up their
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