why do the men up the chase not use there brains when there a couple up there having a bit of fun
why do they all come over and ruin it/ most couples dont mind up to 3 men but when car after car comes it put u off
are there any people that go up very late on the weekend say about 3 am
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why do the men up the chase not use there brains when there a couple up there having a bit of fun
why do they all come over and ruin it/ most couples dont mind up to 3 men but when car after car comes it put u off
are there any people that go up very late on the weekend say about 3 am
It is busy there 24-7 but the gentlemen doggers tend to be out around the time you have stated, the others have had to get home to the wife!
We have had only one good result there and it was a Sat night would you believe. The other times have all been ruined by what can only be described as a bunch of inconsiderate agressive fools who behave like cave men at the sight of a couple.
Wish you both well in your search though.
hi there thats the reason i stopped going there it was a great place at one time u could have a meet and u would only approach a car if u was invited but these days most ov us men im sad to say have no respect for the cpls and swarm like a swarm ov wasps these days i only go out if arranged before hand and always change location so they do not get to busy.
but it is nice to see a cpl still interested having fun in the great outdoors and letting males get involved the dogging action as died in west mids over the last 2 years so need to put it back on map.
all the best and hope you have fun xx
but it is nice to see a cpl still interested having fun in the great outdoors and letting males get involved the dogging action as died in west mids over the last 2 years so need to put it back on map.
all the best and hope you have fun xx
Unfortunately most doggers are not mind readers and to say most couples dont mind up to 3 males is a bit ambiguous. I know couples that only want 1 male, any more and they drive off, others that want as many as possible. We are all different and want different things so cannot generalise to what everyone wants some like to be watched from distance, some from side of car others dont mind touching others want full fun. Unfortunately dogging has changed dramatically over the 7+yrs ive been going up the chase but its easy to blame the male doggers. Put yourself in there shoes its hard to second guess what couples want, some drive on to the popular car parks hoping 1 male might follow to quieter spots but then complain if more follow, others want to perform on popular car parks. Basically there are too many males and not enough couples and lot of males expect too much and are not prepared for just a show and dont show enough respect these days.
the problem with the guys right now is ,, they realy dont know how dogging is ment to work. yes it's right as soon as a couple turn up they are swormed right away by the guys ,, with or without the invite . our selves used to go there quite often years ago and met a good bunch of ppl ,, and still pop there now and again when we can ,, but just a few weeks ago we was there on a sat night and just sat there watching a bunch of guys going from car to car with couples in ,, and had window down listening to what seemed to be 1 guy being the leader and going on about everything going on up there a if he knew everything ,, which made us laugh cuz how they was going from car to car he didnt have a clue and trying to tell couples how it works up there ,, for some reson he or they didnt come up to our car ,, but if they did we would have just laughed right at them lol . we did count the cars and there was about 18/20 parked up at 1 time ,, we found it so funny . but yes it is such a turn away for couples ,, and yes as alan as said the guys dont know what the couple's want weather it be 1 guy or loads of guys ,, but it's not the way for a group of guys 2 go round each car with a couple in . they should wait for the sign's and then maybe 1 of the guys take the lead and go alone then give other guys the answer of whant that couple's are after ,, as i'm sure if theres a couple that only wants 1 guy then others should keep away if the couple want more then fear enough let the gang band begin ,, but guy's out there just remember u will spoil it for that 1 lucky guy if the couple only want 1 guy ,, weather it's to just watch or even join in ,, as the realy main part of dogging guy's is it's the couples that rule what happening NOT YOU ,, hope this helps .. m & j .
goodpost mart n jo
ican remember when unless it was baltently obvious that a couple were showing you didn't go nearmtheir car. You'd have to wait for a sign like the flicker of an interior light or tapping the brake lights even a wound down window a a mobile used as a torch to show you the delights inside.
That was part of the fun. The guy would usually politely say if there were too many there and you would apologise and walk away. Leaving the lucky guys who were there before to enjoy their good fortune.
Seems courtesy and just general manners have gone to the dogs, scuse the pun.
Or am i just gettin old lol
ican remember when unless it was baltently obvious that a couple were showing you didn't go nearmtheir car. You'd have to wait for a sign like the flicker of an interior light or tapping the brake lights even a wound down window a a mobile used as a torch to show you the delights inside.
That was part of the fun. The guy would usually politely say if there were too many there and you would apologise and walk away. Leaving the lucky guys who were there before to enjoy their good fortune.
Seems courtesy and just general manners have gone to the dogs, scuse the pun.
Or am i just gettin old lol
goodpost mart n jo
ican remember when unless it was baltently obvious that a couple were showing you didn't go nearmtheir car. You'd have to wait for a sign like the flicker of an interior light or tapping the brake lights even a wound down window a a mobile used as a torch to show you the delights inside.
That was part of the fun. The guy would usually politely say if there were too many there and you would apologise and walk away. Leaving the lucky guys who were there before to enjoy their good fortune.
Seems courtesy and just general manners have gone to the dogs, scuse the pun.
Or am i just gettin old lol
ican remember when unless it was baltently obvious that a couple were showing you didn't go nearmtheir car. You'd have to wait for a sign like the flicker of an interior light or tapping the brake lights even a wound down window a a mobile used as a torch to show you the delights inside.
That was part of the fun. The guy would usually politely say if there were too many there and you would apologise and walk away. Leaving the lucky guys who were there before to enjoy their good fortune.
Seems courtesy and just general manners have gone to the dogs, scuse the pun.
Or am i just gettin old lol
Orgasminator
Some good points made by all that have contributed to this thread me thinks. Perhaps we should all take stock of the points made and try to think it through from the other sides perspective the next time we are either waiting for a couple to show, or if a couple think about the confusing signals we send out to them. 
