still having no luck in my hunt for my 1st experience. ive tried arranging meets with couples but there not really interested because im to young at 22, or because im not that experienced. but how can you get experience without anybody to teach you? ive tried going to so called dogging spots but all i ever find is blokes who like flashing headlights into your car. its been nearly 2 years and not a single meet. im not unattractive im slim clean and very genuine and respectfu. what more do i do, or what im i doing wrong?l
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catch 22.
OK, yes you are to young to appeal to many on this site, but I'm sure there are many for whom your youth is appealing.
What are you doing wrong?
Well your ad could be a lot more informative, and your pic is none to helpfull, all anyone can see is your chin and choice of jewelery. It doesnt say a lot about you does it?
As for blokes flashing their headlights at you, what do you expect? They dont know your orientation.
Keep trying mate.
What are you doing wrong?
Well your ad could be a lot more informative, and your pic is none to helpfull, all anyone can see is your chin and choice of jewelery. It doesnt say a lot about you does it?
As for blokes flashing their headlights at you, what do you expect? They dont know your orientation.
Keep trying mate.
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Ask yourself this...what makes you look NOT gay, and what makes you different to the Boy Racers that plague the car parks?
I don't know the answer to those questions, and if the couples who you are trying to get your "First experience" :shock: with can't tell either, then you will need to look at changing things around a bit.
It's the things like the car that you drive (e.g. hot hatch with spotlights and drug dealer windows?) or the clothes that you wear (e.g. basebal caps, hoodies etc) and your hairstyle (e.g. crew cuts with accompanying moustaches) that trigger off peoples stereotypes in their minds. I'm not saying that any of these apply to you, only you can answer that one. but that's the area that you need to be looking...the stuff that makes your first impression.
I don't know the answer to those questions, and if the couples who you are trying to get your "First experience" :shock: with can't tell either, then you will need to look at changing things around a bit.
It's the things like the car that you drive (e.g. hot hatch with spotlights and drug dealer windows?) or the clothes that you wear (e.g. basebal caps, hoodies etc) and your hairstyle (e.g. crew cuts with accompanying moustaches) that trigger off peoples stereotypes in their minds. I'm not saying that any of these apply to you, only you can answer that one. but that's the area that you need to be looking...the stuff that makes your first impression.
