I had a very unnerving experience last Thursday luncthime with my girlfriend. We weren't looking to do anything exhibitionist, we save that for nightimes at the appropriate places, just wanted an illicit daytime session.
We parked up well away from the well known dogging area, under a motorway bridge, deserted road, no apparent through traffic.
We found ourselves being stalked by a guy in a beat up old Astra Estate and then seemingly also by a Megane type people carrier.
We hurriedly got dressed when we realised these guys were doing repeated slow drivebys.
When we drove back towards the main road, they were pulled up talking to one an other - this has to be some kind of co-ordinated effort.
They then followed us to the main dogging car park and parked nearby again - it should have been clear by the way ignored them that we weren' t interested..
Very quickly, we decided this was not where we wanted to be, and drove off finally dropping these guys.
Anyone know of that kind of hassling activity in the area??
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Sorry but exactly how were these guys pricks?
The OP has said that they parked up on a deserted (but still public) road and got down to it. A couple of guys spotted them and drove past again for a good look - if you want to shag on a public road and someone spots you of course they'll look. They could also have reported you for indencent exposure.
The OP goes onto say that they made it clear they weren't interested........by driving into a well known dogging spot nearby!! I'm not suggesting for one minute that you may not have felt hassled and yes, you have every right to tell people to leave you alone - but if you noticed them watching and got dressed, only to drive straight to a dogging spot, what did you think they would think?
You could have just told them you didn't want an audience - obviously this place wasn't as appropriate as you thought
The OP has said that they parked up on a deserted (but still public) road and got down to it. A couple of guys spotted them and drove past again for a good look - if you want to shag on a public road and someone spots you of course they'll look. They could also have reported you for indencent exposure.
The OP goes onto say that they made it clear they weren't interested........by driving into a well known dogging spot nearby!! I'm not suggesting for one minute that you may not have felt hassled and yes, you have every right to tell people to leave you alone - but if you noticed them watching and got dressed, only to drive straight to a dogging spot, what did you think they would think?
You could have just told them you didn't want an audience - obviously this place wasn't as appropriate as you thought
Warming the Bed
I know the place well and have been there as a single dogger (with some great experiences), and with my partner-again had a great time.
The best way to deal with the doggers that are up there is to be very clear with what you want. If I had seen a couple at it I would look too, if they then drove off to a well known car park I would have followed too. However if you had made it known that you were only playing together and didn't want an audience then I would have left you the whole the guys and girls up there are a good bunch of people, there are a couple of idiots who have difficulty understanding english, and seem to think they have owners rights to the dogging up there, but firm words of wisdom for example remind them that behaving like anything but a gentleman will get you no action at all seems to do the trick.
I would say don't be put off, just make sure you are clear as to what you are there for-no missunderstandings then.
have fun!!!
pip xx
The best way to deal with the doggers that are up there is to be very clear with what you want. If I had seen a couple at it I would look too, if they then drove off to a well known car park I would have followed too. However if you had made it known that you were only playing together and didn't want an audience then I would have left you the whole the guys and girls up there are a good bunch of people, there are a couple of idiots who have difficulty understanding english, and seem to think they have owners rights to the dogging up there, but firm words of wisdom for example remind them that behaving like anything but a gentleman will get you no action at all seems to do the trick.
I would say don't be put off, just make sure you are clear as to what you are there for-no missunderstandings then.
have fun!!!
pip xx
we only go there as a couple but had some great times and met some really nice folk who we keep in touch with on a pretty regular basis 
, but its no different than anywhere else , and as serendipity quite rightly put it if you dont want to attract watchers then do it somewhere more private 
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we personally have only had a couple of bad experiances with loons following us about , and if a quick go away not interested does`nt do the trick then a quick phone call to a couple of regulars does , then again we have nevr been out during the daytime
its always a night time thing for us 
, but its no different than anywhere else , and as serendipity quite rightly put it if you dont want to attract watchers then do it somewhere more private ,we personally have only had a couple of bad experiances with loons following us about , and if a quick go away not interested does`nt do the trick then a quick phone call to a couple of regulars does , then again we have nevr been out during the daytime
its always a night time thing for us 